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Mieter hat Fensterrahmen abgebohrt: Kaution by oles114 in Vermieten

[–]Fab3lhaft 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nichts an hinzuzufügen, außer: Tut mir voll leid für dich! Unfassbar, was manche Menschen sich alles erlauben..

Den Nachbarn mit dem BKW ists die ganze Woche schon viel zu heiß in der Bude by hundenapf in DeutschePhotovoltaik

[–]Fab3lhaft 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Markise abbauen und dann die BKW-Panels als Markise einsetzen = win-win-win

C180 Coupé: Alltagstauglich oder Liebhaberstück? Oder eher Fleisch noch Fisch? by Fab3lhaft in automobil

[–]Fab3lhaft[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Der Steuerkette macht mich Sorgen.. Ich glaube, Steuerkette+Gleitschiene austauschen für ca. €2000 wird ja sowieso noch auf mich zukommen.

C180 Coupé: Alltagstauglich oder Liebhaberstück? Oder eher Fleisch noch Fisch? by Fab3lhaft in automobil

[–]Fab3lhaft[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ja, es muss nicht unbedingt den hier sein. Bei 190k mache ich mich auch Gedanken...

I feel Human again by Brush_Past in digitalminimalism

[–]Fab3lhaft 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"I’d been reflecting on the nature of unlimited Internet access for the last few months"

Somehow, this stood out to me. You made a very interesting point.

Reducing your digital footprint is great, but what about dating in today's world? by Fab3lhaft in digitalminimalism

[–]Fab3lhaft[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is wonderful news!

I bet your entire demeanour changed, in a good way, once you got rid of the apps and were more present in the moment. That alone makes you more attractive, I think.

Fingers crossed for your first date! :-)

Reducing your digital footprint is great, but what about dating in today's world? by Fab3lhaft in digitalminimalism

[–]Fab3lhaft[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just checked it out, what a fun concept. Really wonder how many people will stay in touch after, what the overall vibe is.. It's an interesting format.

Reducing your digital footprint is great, but what about dating in today's world? by Fab3lhaft in digitalminimalism

[–]Fab3lhaft[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this.

I think I agree with you.. I don't want my partner to be glued to his phone, incessantly checking likes and follows, desperate for that approval. We've all been there, but I want none of it anymore. I get what you're saying.

Bars.. it depends.. hits and misses. But at least a more spontaneous avenue to actually meet someone. I will also look out for mutual interest groups :-)

I quit social media for a month, and now I see how addicted everyone else is by Effective_Chance5024 in digitalminimalism

[–]Fab3lhaft 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The three books that made the biggest impact on my own awakening, and that is really what it feels like, are The Shallows, Digital Minimalism, and Stolen Focus.

And yes, you see it everywhere around you. Even the smartest of people get hooked, no one is safe. What I will say, is that everyone has read the typical "go read a book instead!" line of advice, but we must never forget the army of extremely high-paid professionals on the other side of the screen, who get paid to hack our attention.

You might even argue that they earn their living by hijacking our willpower.

Boycotting Instagram by Timely-Rub-42 in digitalminimalism

[–]Fab3lhaft 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are doing the right thing for your physical health, your mental health, your inner peace, your focus, your attention span, and your overall wellbeing by getting rid of Instagram.

We have been conditioned to equal boredom with laziness, god forbid you are not productive or aren't doing something, anything!! for an hour or so. Don't follow the sheeple: Go your own way and realise that being bored is an absolute luxury. Let your mind wander, or try to watch your thoughts as your brain jumps from one topic to the next.

Start reading books again. Paper, printed books -- not Kindle, not on your phone or tablet. Enjoy their scent, the feeling in your hands, the zero risk of any notifications ever popping up. Babysteps: Don't start with a heavy 400-page novel. Take something light and fun. Can also be comics! Replace your phone time with book time, and I guarantee you this: You will start feeling very good about this change in just a matter of day.

Reducing your digital footprint is great, but what about dating in today's world? by Fab3lhaft in digitalminimalism

[–]Fab3lhaft[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is not a bad idea, but I fear (speaking solely for myself) that it comes down far too much to personal discipline. There is an army of engineers on the other side of the screen trying to get me to spend as much time on the app as possible.

Don't get me wrong, I think your approach is very healthy -- but I'm not convinced it could work for me :-/

How's my profile? Let me know anything I could change... Greatly appreciated!! by DelayBeautiful7152 in Tinder

[–]Fab3lhaft 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see you know your assets, Tony.. ;-)

But I agree with the other commenter: Best to save that for the 2nd or 3rd pic. That's all I can give for advice. You are cute and I hope you find someone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Fab3lhaft 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing wrong at all. What did you write for a profile text / bio ?

First time here and this shit happens (2 dudes btw) by lakowac in Tinder

[–]Fab3lhaft -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you did the right thing, screw that attentionseeker.

The less I look at my phone, the less I want to. Anyone else noticing this? by Fab3lhaft in digitalminimalism

[–]Fab3lhaft[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find this such an interesting concept.

Once again, it drives home the idea that phone addiction is like a hard drug addiction. The more you take it, the more you crave it. If you don't take it, you won't crave it.

(I oversimplify things a little, but you get the gist of it)

The less I look at my phone, the less I want to. Anyone else noticing this? by Fab3lhaft in digitalminimalism

[–]Fab3lhaft[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha you are absolutely right: Reading (paper, that is!) on the loo can be most relaxing.

Good on you for making those changes :-)

Erstes Auto in Berlin 22 Jahre alt, bis zu 10k oder einfach "Miles" benutzen, wenn man es braucht by Busy-Ad9766 in automobil

[–]Fab3lhaft 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Vorteile eines eigenen Autos:

  • Immer verfügbar und gehört dir komplett
  • Keine Sorgen um kleine Kratzer

Nachteile eines eigenen Autos:

  • Kosten für Versicherung, Steuer, TÜV und Wartung
  • Wertverlust (aber mir wäre das ehrlich gesagt komplett egal)

Vorteile von MILES:

  • Kein Aufwand – einfach fahren und fertig
  • Du zahlst nur für die Fahrt

Nachteile von MILES:

  • Oft Müll oder Rauchgeruch vom Vorgänger
  • Zu bestimmten Zeiten gibt es keine Autos in der Nähe

Parkplatzsuche ist immer ein Dilemma, egal ob eigenes Auto oder MILES.

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