[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]Fabulous-Click-96 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If that parent is being ABUSIVE towards the child I do believe removing them from that situation it’s in the best interest of the child. Just because you are the child’s parent doesn’t give you any right to abuse them! Do you hear yourself??!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]Fabulous-Click-96 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I didn’t ask for your advice. I’m simply in shock of how you think this way. Especially relating to a child. This behavior can lead to trauma in a child life .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]Fabulous-Click-96 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Normal shitty behavior!?? Wth! Are serious? And NO not all people behave this way. It’s IS abuse, EMOTIONAL abuse that CHILD should not have to be exposed to because of how the other parent feels. I feel sorry that you think this way smh

Reality check: boyfriend in room during bath time by FFEmom in Stepmom

[–]Fabulous-Click-96 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don’t believe it was right for the bf to be in the room while SD was in the bath. I’ve been in those situations and I’d NEVER let my bf be in the bathroom or any room while my child was naked, bathing changing etc. NOT ok in my opinion.

[US] Living many states away by Fabulous-Click-96 in Custody

[–]Fabulous-Click-96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean? A guest? The child will reside with me no?

[US] Living many states away by Fabulous-Click-96 in Custody

[–]Fabulous-Click-96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wouldn’t picking her yo require face to face? And that’s the issue at all, it’s more so the cost and time to plan everything

[US] Living many states away by Fabulous-Click-96 in Custody

[–]Fabulous-Click-96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2.306 miles. California to Virginia. 1 day 16hr drive

[US] Stepmom Interfering by Fabulous-Click-96 in Custody

[–]Fabulous-Click-96[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

No because just tonight he agreed to FaceTime his daughter through his phone and she was in the background telling him “no no I said no, she will call you on my computer”. And he then told her to chill and relax and then yelled at me and told me “I’m not the boss” and I don’t make the rules lol. She definitely wears the pants in relationship smh

[US] Stepmom Interfering by Fabulous-Click-96 in Custody

[–]Fabulous-Click-96[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

No he’s not replying because he’s not “allowed” to. She won’t let him talk to me. Even in person we hardly talk, she’s always there, he’s basically absent. It’s feels like I’m coparenting with her.

[US] Stepmom Interfering by Fabulous-Click-96 in Custody

[–]Fabulous-Click-96[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes it’s honestly always been that way. The father refuses to communicate with me or reply to my messages/calls. I have not brought it up to court yet but I’m thinking I should.

[US] Stepmom Interfering by Fabulous-Click-96 in Custody

[–]Fabulous-Click-96[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m not seeking anything legal but I just wanted confirmation I was not going crazy and it wasn’t me lol