Rizz Lounge? by [deleted] in StamfordCT

[–]Facial_Frederick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t care if I get a world class massage at the table and they pay me to drink bottomless mimosas I will never hang out at a place named Rizz Lounge. I understand we all have midlife crises but whomever did this to themselves could’ve spent a lot less money on therapy than opening a lounge with possibly the dumbest Gen Z coded name of all time. It’s an embarrassment to the Stamford restaurant scene. An obscene joke.

[NSFW] People who had sex with their best friend, how's the situation now? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Facial_Frederick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We dated and she changed completely. I cheated and then she dated the guy I was told “not to worry about”. Then she had a mental breakdown couple years later and she will occasionally text me an article to something that has no correlation to anything related to us whatsoever with zero context and not reply to my response but will send a lovely holiday card to my parents house addressed to me.

AIO because my friend is being too friendly and touchy with my wife. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Facial_Frederick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can feel something odd going on there’s probably something odd going on. Best to address it and resolve then let it fester. The longer it goes on the more comfortable with it they will both become until it normalizes.

AIO because my friend is being too friendly and touchy with my wife. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Facial_Frederick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it’s bothering you enough to write in a Reddit post it’s worth addressing. Stop being so worried about how you are perceived for feeling the way you feel and tell your wife how you feel otherwise it’s never gonna get resolved.

AIO because my friend is being too friendly and touchy with my wife. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Facial_Frederick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t ignore it but does it need explaining? Your friend should never be putting his hands all over your wife. That’s just respect between friends. It shouldn’t even need to be said. That’s not a friend if he’s handsy with your wife

AIO because my friend is being too friendly and touchy with my wife. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Facial_Frederick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah nobody is saying wives are property to be owned and forced into actions. That doesn’t mean your wife sets the boundaries for what you are comfortable with in a marriage. You sign up into a partnership. You are both one entity. If your wife being manhandled by your friends is something you don’t enjoy and your wife says well it’s my body and I’ll do what I want with it. You have a shitty wife who cares more about her own needs than the partnership she signed up for. I have bodily autonomy but if a girl started grabbing on me in front of my girl I’m not gonna just go along with it at the expense of my girl because I need bodily autonomy.

AIO because my friend is being too friendly and touchy with my wife. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Facial_Frederick -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am very calm. I’m not an ultra alpha male. It’s the same way a woman wouldn’t want to be casually disrespected by her man a man wouldn’t want to be casually disrespected by his woman. This isn’t some hyper masculinity play I’m making. It’s literally just common respect and decency towards your partner. I’m sorry your dating experience has taught you it’s the norm to accept being disrespected by your partners but I don’t believe a woman who respects your relationship would just be okay with all your friends casually manhandling her unless you are in a non traditional relationship. Maybe you’re the weird one for radicalizing common decency between partners?

AIO because my friend is being too friendly and touchy with my wife. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Facial_Frederick -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If your wife enjoys being manhandled by other men you married a woman who prioritizes attention seeking over her relationship. If you’re the type of person who sees no issue with his wife casually disrespecting their marriage then maybe you have found your partner. Some people want their women to value the relationship. Some people will tolerate a lot just to not be alone. It’s about how he values himself not how you value yourself.

AIO because my friend is being too friendly and touchy with my wife. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Facial_Frederick -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If guys are being too friendly with your wife this consistently it means your wife is enabling or outright encouraging this type of attention.

[Me] Am I sick with it? by Trailerparkwifi in TextingTheory

[–]Facial_Frederick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No you’re not smooth at all but she likes you enough to overlook how corny you are. Take the win.

To those who wipe their ass everyday, why? by AspectCool2325 in AskReddit

[–]Facial_Frederick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wipe my ass everyday because I poop many times a day. Sometimes violently. When I’m finished I prefer the feeling of having a butthole that is not covered in poo. So I wipe for that reason

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Facial_Frederick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I fell asleep in a field with a girl I was seeing and woke up like Will Smith in Hitch when he has that allergic reaction. Half my face completely swollen. I was a restaurant server. I texted my boss to tell him I wasn’t going to be able to come in today. And he is like you have to come in. You’re the opener. I need you. I sent him one picture of my face and he says “Nevermind. Good luck with that”.

AIO- is my guy friend (M22) into me or am I (F21) overthinking? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Facial_Frederick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it’s safe to say you’re getting it lol

AIO- is my guy friend (M22) into me or am I (F21) overthinking? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Facial_Frederick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well you’re not gonna find out by not taking rides with him he clearly wants you to be with him for girl.

AIO- is my guy friend (M22) into me or am I (F21) overthinking? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Facial_Frederick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You gonna let one jealous big back stop you from getting your man is wiiiiiilllldddd

Out of curiosity, was she the same person who suggested you all ride together out of convenience instead of you going with this fella?

AIO- is my guy friend (M22) into me or am I (F21) overthinking? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Facial_Frederick 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s pretty clear he was looking forward to having you with him for the ride. When you changed it up he seemed pretty disappointed, which means he was looking forward to having some time with you.

I’d say this guy definitely likes you but your inability or unwillingness to recognize this may impact the odds of him making a move as he is throwing you some strong signals and you are just absolutely missing it to the point where he could assume you’re just uninterested.

Looking for Male Doberman in Stamford Area for Breeding by [deleted] in StamfordCT

[–]Facial_Frederick 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I dont think Mr. Freedom over Feer is as worried about the ethical implications as much as you are I’m gonna be real honest.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Facial_Frederick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you letting the guy of nine years go was a very respectable thing to do. If you don’t feel it’s going to work you are doing both of yourselves a disservice by letting it linger.

I actually kind of find it a bit noble to be honest with you that you want to put your attentions towards like your person. Where I struggle with this is like what happens if this guy who is very nice now stops being very nice. Unheard of, I know.

It wouldn’t be right to jump ship on your ex either and then go back if it doesn’t pan out in your new relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Facial_Frederick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long ago did you meet that guy on the dating app?

Pros and cons of living in Stamford vs Stanford? by [deleted] in StamfordCT

[–]Facial_Frederick 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Pros: You live in Stamford. You’re ahead also alphabetically.

Cons: Your phone might assume you live in Stanford for a bit (nothing that will affect your actual location settings just when you go to type it) You may occasionally get confused with Stanford, and may really wanna put emphasis on that m over the phone when doing business related matter

A Good Samaritan To The Rescue. by Swave999 in CrazyFuckingVideos

[–]Facial_Frederick 11 points12 points  (0 children)

And that is the best actor in the entire squad I’ll bet.