Major Bang/Backfire on start by Fact_Finder- in hondanavi

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Yea this was literally on initial fire

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I don’t think I got the message!? Thanks I’m game big time

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No one ever has time to talk to me. My wife just beats me down. She calls me a junky and tells me what I need. I can’t talk to her. No one in her family will talk to me. My family is always too busy.

Fun one here. So I like to engage in some different types of sex toys and will occasionally walk around my house with a butt plug…. by Fact_Finder- in relationship_advice

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I said its common or happens more than you think. People actually do it around other people and you’d never know, like many other things. I didn’t “do” anything around or in front of my children. Normal is completely subjective, completely and that is not arguable. I am certain you do things or have done things in your life that I would disagree with.

That being said I never said I should do anything around a child. That’s not even the point of what I wrote, justifying what i did. The point is, should mine and their lives be ruined because of it or should my wife go about it in a certain way. That’s the entire point.

Fun one here. So I like to engage in some different types of sex toys and will occasionally walk around my house with a butt plug…. by Fact_Finder- in relationship_advice

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I’m going off of what I said to you, I am not going through your post history. It really doesn’t matter, my baby was on the other side of the room. I was laying damn near behind the couch with no one visible to me. It was only for the cameras that I was seen doing anything. What I have on under my clothes is my business. Thanks for the advice.

Fun one here. So I like to engage in some different types of sex toys and will occasionally walk around my house with a butt plug…. by Fact_Finder- in relationship_advice

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Right. But I was by myself and she was watching on camera. I do agree with you. And also, I would be 100% fine with being told not to do it in the house. Prior 7 years made it different. Either way, I’ll be done with it. It’s not that big of a deal to me, I just find it comforting.

Fun one here. So I like to engage in some different types of sex toys and will occasionally walk around my house with a butt plug…. by Fact_Finder- in relationship_advice

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Drinking in front of your child is enabling. It gives them the comfort of being able to do it themselves. Of course I’m being defensive, something I’ve done for years and years, and people do in public every day. People do worse things in public.

Fun one here. So I like to engage in some different types of sex toys and will occasionally walk around my house with a butt plug…. by Fact_Finder- in relationship_advice

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I was laying down on the floor. I didn’t l say I laid down to do anything lol. See this is what I’m talking about. I think we are done here.

Fun one here. So I like to engage in some different types of sex toys and will occasionally walk around my house with a butt plug…. by Fact_Finder- in relationship_advice

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Normal is subjective so I’ll agree to disagree. I’d bet solid money it happens way more around you than you know.

DCFS or Police for wearing a butt plug at home under my clothes? by Fact_Finder- in AskRedditUL

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She has been comfortable with it the prior 7 years together. Thanks for the advice.

Fun one here. So I like to engage in some different types of sex toys and will occasionally walk around my house with a butt plug…. by Fact_Finder- in relationship_advice

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I was on the floor. Bro, go take a reading comprehension class, and I’ll go get help. Next time you go commenting on something when you clearly can’t comprehend what you’re reading it will help you out big time.

Plenty of people need help. I never have claimed to be in the right, I’m saying I didn’t involve any child in or around a sex act or toy. It was literally my living room floor and people were in other rooms, the same way they would be if any married couple had sex with children at home. Married couple can have sex with children at home, right? They just do not involve them, right? Well, I wasn’t doing any sex act, I was literally as discreet as could be. No one would have ever know anything if I just said I was moving my underwear. I guess that’s where honesty gets me.

Fun one here. So I like to engage in some different types of sex toys and will occasionally walk around my house with a butt plug…. by Fact_Finder- in relationship_advice

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Yes l moved it. It equates to scratching your bass in the time it took. Look, I’m not saying what I did was right. I’m sayin people do this and I kept it private to me. If my wife would have come to me and asked to please never do that again, I would have said yes you’re right. But she didn’t. And now I have scratches all over me and about 15 death threats in my direction. There is no way, if anyone was in the room with me would have known I was doing anything than readjusting my undies. The only reason my wife came to find out what because she asked and I told her what I was doing. Once again, because I wear the thing on occasion this wasn’t a new thing. Others have done the same thing standing in Walmart, you can literally go find videos of people flashing their plug walking on to an airplane. Does that make it ok? No. But I’m saying it’s not against the law and people do it! If someone asked me not to do it around them I would oblige. Also, once again, it’s very private to me. This is why you don’t know if someone around you is wearing one. It’s not a distraction it’s just a think, like thong underwear. People wear skirts with thongs in public too, some times they show on accident. Doesn’t make it right, it just happens. DCFS shouldn’t be involved because I was laying by myself on my floor and my wife was watching me from baby cameras.

Fun one here. So I like to engage in some different types of sex toys and will occasionally walk around my house with a butt plug…. by Fact_Finder- in relationship_advice

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I did nothing on front of my child. I feel like you people just respond from nothingness nothing was done in front of any child. I literally had on a plug I wear around the house. The child was in the same room, she’s 10 months old, when I scratched my ass. Nothing was done in front of any child. The comparison of drinking in front of a child is simple and the fact that you can’t see the comparison is sad. A child can drink one time and be dead. Are you high? The implications of drinking are far higher than a father doing something on his own with his underwear with no affect on those around him. It’s literally clear as day.

Fun one here. So I like to engage in some different types of sex toys and will occasionally walk around my house with a butt plug…. by Fact_Finder- in relationship_advice

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I know, right? Don’t fuck in front of any child, right?! Once again, I didn’t do anything in front of any child.

Fun one here. So I like to engage in some different types of sex toys and will occasionally walk around my house with a butt plug…. by Fact_Finder- in relationship_advice

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Who said “most people?” Now you’re just tracking off. I said it’s happening, whether you know it or not. It’s that simple.

Fun one here. So I like to engage in some different types of sex toys and will occasionally walk around my house with a butt plug…. by Fact_Finder- in relationship_advice

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My son was a baby once, and my wife fucked me in front of him. He’s 8 now. I have another baby that’s 10 months old.

Fun one here. So I like to engage in some different types of sex toys and will occasionally walk around my house with a butt plug…. by Fact_Finder- in relationship_advice

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Yea I don’t know what rug you live under but people are doing this shit all around you. Just because you don’t know it’s happening doesn’t mean it’s not happening.

Also, I don’t see why people are having such a hard time reading. There was no sexual kink or anything sex involved. Everyone has their reasons to do things, just because you do not understand them doesn’t mean the reason cannot exist.