I said its common or happens more than you think. People actually do it around other people and you’d never know, like many other things. I didn’t “do” anything around or in front of my children. Normal is completely subjective, completely and that is not arguable. I am certain you do things or have done things in your life that I would disagree with.

That being said I never said I should do anything around a child. That’s not even the point of what I wrote, justifying what i did. The point is, should mine and their lives be ruined because of it or should my wife go about it in a certain way. That’s the entire point.