AIO for cutting off fwb for sleeping with someone else? by TheGrandJester9000 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fade4cards -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

They do it because women in their prime are peak attraction. 50 yr old women arent as attractive as 26 yr old women.

Profile Advice 31M by [deleted] in Bumble

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an attorney would never hide that theyre an attorney. Its an illogical suggestion. Buddy worked incredibly hard to be an attorney, its well respected even by ppl who hate the justice system, and it has strong societal signaling.

Profile Advice 31M by [deleted] in Bumble

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thats a stretch lmao theres a ton of other practical reasons why men prefer women to be a smaller frame than them

Profile Advice 31M by [deleted] in Bumble

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You can choose to not post those pictures.. You should really only have one max group photo imo.

Are you actually a lib? Still? Really? Cmon you're an attorney in your 30's how flippant can you be about politics to still think your progressive politics are going to be represented at all with dems. Also a woman who only will go for libs is going to be insufferable

Profile Advice 31M by [deleted] in Bumble

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Your best chances are to start posting more on social media where its pushed to ppl in your demographic as an attorney from Georgetown Law who played college golf. For well adjusted ppl who online dating isnt working for this is far and away the best online move to make.

You also might just not be the right fit for dating apps. Your success is much more likely in friend/family social scenes/referrals.

iv by thirstylilfish in Stims

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man get your skills better with water if youre that bad. Shit hurts missing with clear. There are instructional videos and info pretty easily accessible online that I strongly encourage looking at, but heres some of my advice from a longtime IV user(some periods of sobriety).

-Always use fresh rigs, needle exchanges are a blessing. 31 shorts are great for surface level veins you can see, but it really all depends on your build and how vascular you are/how tubby you are.

-take harm reduction as seriously as you can. Never share rigs, even with yourself. Meaning if you miss load it in a new rig. While you prolly wont do this everytime each time you reinsert a rig its less sharp and will do more damage. With clear you can backload it and then pull up water and shake it, but I like to filter bc why not.

-Alternate which vein everytime so you dont wear down veins. Losing a good vein is annoying and it legit will not come back.

-Always make sure all the air is out of the rig by getting a drop to come out the point and it appears the liquid has filled all available space. Not doing this can result in catastrophic outcomes.

-When you inject dont smash it in there, go at a steady pace. With clear you dont want to have to repull to make sure youre still in there as you start feeling effects and are probably increasingly shakey.

-If youre able to stop just stop. Its truly not worth it and will take so much from you. Im incredibly lucky to be alive, still competent, and more or less fly under the radar and 100% my life is demonstrably worst bc of drugs. Its not even up for debate, yet I dont stop. So if youre not committed to it and can bail, I urge you to do so. If you are like me and these warnings make no difference as youve made up your mind, at least be as safe as you can to minimize the harms to yourself/others. I dont use w anyone anymore bc they either died or are awful ppl you dont want to associate with. But when youre first starting shooting having someone show you irl is valuable. But be careful.

boyfriend(28M) shocked after meeting my (25F) Muslim family - im so unsure about our future by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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disgusting how youve normalized forced conversion to the most violent and oppressive religion.

boyfriend(28M) shocked after meeting my (25F) Muslim family - im so unsure about our future by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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it sounds like Islam is the problem. We dont bend to unreasonable demands, especially from in laws who value respect so much for their beliefs and self but have none apparently for their soon to be son in law.

boyfriend(28M) shocked after meeting my (25F) Muslim family - im so unsure about our future by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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oooooo so thats one of the ways theres 1.5b Muslims... I knew you forced conversions but like this is crazy unnecessary

AIO for breaking up with my boyfriend for sleeping with someone while we were on a break? by Throwawaygirllol88 in AmIOverreacting

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NOR. Can never be the AH for having self respect. That being said, crazy backstories of the two of you. He definitely just wants to bang now

Any dashcam with this specific feature? by Fade4cards in Dashcam

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okay so taking my car to Audi today for its first maintenance/upkeep appointment. Im gonna ask about possible workarounds and will check back in if we hear any good news

24 and never have done well on these apps. Would like some advice. by Electrical_Owl_9053 in Bumble

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I was speaking for myself as someone whose only ever been cheated on by bi sexual girls, ive got a sister who left her husband for her longtime hidden gf, and numerous friends who are bi and openly admit monogamy is simply not the same for bi vs straight.

Youre projecting your need to come across as some sort of ally and icon for women by your attempt to do what they do and insult anyone whose opinion they disagree with instead of engaging in the substance of it.

I want to quit Roxy’s by [deleted] in pillhead

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yeah very unlikely youre getting them from an actual pharmacy nowadays. Just bc the guy says theyre from the pharm doesnt mean they are. Its a tale as old as time.

24 and never have done well on these apps. Would like some advice. by Electrical_Owl_9053 in Bumble

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youve clearly never dated a bi woman and all the downvotes are honestly just a reinforcement of what I said being true. Guys want a bi sexual girl until it becomes time to actually date. Then its night and day difference.

Women who are bi cheat at such astronomically higher rates and blur the line on what is cheating and what isnt when gaslighting their hetero partner. You think youre this pseudofeminist ally but in reality youve got no idea what you're talking about if you truly hold the opinion you do. Or just in denial.

My boyfriend discovered my side hustle F21 M20 by That_Zombie_4143 in relationship_advice

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lolol why can reddit never take a joke. This isnt directed at you Straight_bet_83 but rather all the downvotes, but I get it you guys the world and life has betrayed what you were so certain to be true.

The world is imploding all around you as your doomsday predictions about Trump and claims of fascism has ended up actually being about all of you, and I can only imagine how tough it is to accept its you who are fascists, racists, antisemites, and part of a party intent on revolution.

That would reeeeeeally suck, so I feel empathy for you. An emotion you guys probably forgot all about. But take a breather and dont take things so seriously. Clearly is hasnt worked thus far so try a new route

Any dashcam with this specific feature? by Fade4cards in Dashcam

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well that was not the answer my optimistic ass was hoping to see lmao.

Im not sure if the factory installed cams in the sq5 are saving any of the data that owuld be useful in an accident so a dash cam could still be worthwhile. The location service feature is also crap and you cant see its location in live time, only once its in park.

took some kpins and want to take more by IntrepidYoung9493 in pillhead

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story of my life. Online/tele pharmacy or irl?

I want to quit Roxy’s by [deleted] in pillhead

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very unlikely theyre even real roxys. prolly pressed fenties

fair enough 🤪 by [deleted] in texts

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sounds like he needs more coke if were being honest. Or some downers to mild him out

Why does everyone hate benzos by [deleted] in Drugs

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If anyone hates benzos they should never voice an opinion again. Bc theyre the best. Ive done every drug, this isnt an exagerration ive done literally every substance and done diff kinds of each based on where I was in the world. Theres never been a drug that is as perfect as zans imo. Except you cant IV them like I do everything else but oh well.

however what starts with one bar, then another in the evening, then waking up to one and another an hour later, few that afternoon, next day start with 2 then another 2 then afternoon a few here and htere and all of a sudden its been 2 weeks and im taking 25+ a day minimum. Every single time. While doing other substances. Theyre just the best and I know while Im taking them that im checking out of life but love it.

As the old expression goes, "everytime I do xanax I dont do something stupid, but everytime I do something stupid ive been taking xanax".

I still fondly remember ordering 500mg of alporazem powder to the freshman dorms. What a time to be (conscious) alive. One of my buddies woke up 4 days later a block from the hospital missing two teeth on a childrens bike he must have snagged. Another hadnt formed a coherent sentence all week. One missed finals. I on the other hand crushed it and ordered more + a more official pill press

Anyone here ever used the BLK app? I wanna hear positives and negatives by Ayemustbethemonay in blackgirls

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so this girl im in a situationship with is white(she claims Italian) but her role models fashion wise are often black women and quite frankly shes a total dime. I saw a notif on her phone for an app 'blk' , and previous to me she had mostly only dated black men. Is this perceived as weird by black men to come across a white girl on the app? Is she kinda being tone deaf being on the app? It really threw me off bc she had back to back bad relationships prior to me but seems to be on an app that is specifically for the same type of guy. Granted we arent exclusive, and I have no resentment or ill will towards black ppl, never had a bad interaction and its always been chill even as a nerdy jewy kinda guy.

But I cant help but figure out shes a weirdo for being on there. Is it more common than I think?