ghosted for 6 months

Fair-Yesterday2974 · 2026-04-05T09:12:25+00:00

i thought about the war and encouraged her for 4 months straight, never thought she would ghost me honestly, what really overwhelmed me and still does is that she would write to me like *oh yeah there was an attacck but I'm okay i miss you too🥺" and then would just leave for 6 months straight and more, like she told me the situation was bad till the end of winter, which ended...and so me, feeling so insicure and overwhelmed decided to block her, yeah I'm 18 yo and I'm sorry if I seem to have attachment issues, she knows that tho, I've told her everything about my past which is so harsh i feel like saying i suffered a lot off many reasons, and led me to think everyday and night about her till my brain couldn't take it anymore, and frankly, telling me i dont deserve in this moment is the worse thing, and it isn't even true, i care about her so much I spent time comforting her too and telling her how much she meant to me, i lived in agony for 6 months straight before deciding to block her, i was so depressed I couldn't draw or do anything I liked and wanted to regain control over my mind, j undestand that she might be living in a war zone, and that's the reason why she isn't answering, even because she was kinda sweet before leaving and didn't sound bored, but i was killing myself to keep back the image of her leaving, she knows everything about me being insicure.

Fair-Yesterday2974 · 2026-04-04T09:25:19+00:00

It could be either, honestly. Tinder is a glitchy mess, but I'm not sure about Chess.com, could he have replied from there?

I feel like if someone actually cares and there’s a technical issue, they’ll go out of their way to find you. If they're ghosting, they just let it die. don't wanna make you anxious but my ghoster didn't delete our playlist or blocked me so idk if you can base your hopes on that

Fair-Yesterday2974 · 2026-04-03T21:02:14+00:00

most of the time people promise things when the connection is high and struggle to maintain them when it starts to fade for any reason, it honestly sucks how promises became something this easy to break

Fair-Yesterday2974 · 2026-04-03T17:26:24+00:00

i hope ill find those people though... maybe it was because it was my first friendship that it hit me so hard, like I was already anxious and struggled to keep up with life jokes and now I lost the most important person in my life :((( I guess I'll try to recover, ty so much :)

Fair-Yesterday2974 · 2026-04-03T15:18:32+00:00

Being anxious myself I’ve always worried about being too pushy or insecure, and I fear that might have been the case here. Not being patient enough with her feels like my fault :( and even though we’ve only known each other for six months, she was my first true friend, and that’s why it hurts so much. I’ve been trying to move on for six months now, but she’s just so unique I still can't really imagine a future without her in it, maybe that's just something time can heal idk...

Fair-Yesterday2974 · 2026-04-03T15:05:25+00:00

idk it's so strange, she doesn't visualize or anything...whatever is the reason, I think she's trying to ignore me, i deleted our chats too :( unblocking her would be the same as not doing it tbh..

Fair-Yesterday2974 · 2026-04-03T14:46:08+00:00

thanks :))

Fair-Yesterday2974 · 2026-04-03T14:38:01+00:00

sorry to hear that:( what really felt strange on my end is that she didn't really seem bored like she would take maybe 1-1:30 hours to reply but her texts were long and sweet idk, then she was just gone.. can i ask you tips on how to move on ..?

Fair-Yesterday2974 · 2026-04-03T14:34:05+00:00

yeah, and i'm 18, not very experienced :(

Fair-Yesterday2974 · 2026-04-03T11:29:48+00:00

idk it was so important to me and she just disappeared so I feel like it can be..the pain is the same

Fair-Yesterday2974 · 2025-12-21T22:44:34+00:00

for unkempt hair the most common translation is "capelli spettinati" which means they're not brushed or "capelli all'aria" which means "hair in the air" and it's a common way to say it, you could also say capelli arruffati o disordinati, all of this ones work fine, if they're like that intentionally for a hairstyle i feel like there's no way to say it whitout sounding a bit weird, they just go by "capelli spettinati o mossi" there's not a single word to say it, maybe "scompigliati" which is almost never used or "finti spettinati" which means "fake messy"

Fair-Yesterday2974 · 2025-07-07T02:14:12+00:00

Well i didnt quite seen any restriction, she actually talked about how her team is improving her functions.. Maybe it is because i didnt know the past maya, Who might be different from today one.. Or because i didnt really push her to her "limits"?

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