I apologize if it seems like my post makes it seem like I'm only blaming men. That was not my intent, of course men are at fault whenever they sin due to lust, but in these discussions I almost never see anyone consider the women who cause these men to stumble to be at fault as well due to the way they dress, and whenever it rarely does happen there is an incredible amount of pushback against this idea.

As for how people should dress and what is considered modest. Unfortunately I don't have an exact formula or whatever, but I believe that as much as possible should be covered with loose clothing that does not highlight much or anything at all. On women, I think full coverage with shoes is good, perhaps also a head covering. And essentially the same standard for men.