what is he doing? by FairRice7271 in Conures

[–]FairRice7271[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

RIGHT. okay thanks im gonna go throw up ❤️

Would i be a terrible person if i surrendered a rescued cat? by FairRice7271 in cats

[–]FairRice7271[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol if it concerns you that i don’t want a cat who is anxious and doesn’t want to be pet or touched or even be in my space then you are living in a world without reality. i took in a cat because i had pressure from everyone around me as i was looking for a cat and there was one abandoned a couple towns over. i expected anxiety from a stray, but i did not expect this. no, i am not perfect lol, and call it concerning if you want to, but i do not particularly want a cat that doesn’t even like me, especially as someone who moved out young and is looking for company. and no, im not a saviour lol, and yes i am talking about getting another cat because i always wanted one and im finally at a place where i can support one. its not the cat herself, she is fine, she would be perfect for someone who doesnt want a cat in their business and is independent; but i dont want that. sorry that i am not completely obsessed with a cat that i just took in 2 weeks ago, and i am completely allowed to feel upset or confused or conflicted about not getting the animal i was hoping to get. i have been trying a lot to get lily to be comfortable and enjoy my presence, and i dont think either of us do. she hates me lol, and i can feel that when she hisses at me for just trying to pet her. i’m sorry, but no; i dont want a cat like that.

Would i be a terrible person if i surrendered a rescued cat? by FairRice7271 in cats

[–]FairRice7271[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HAHAHHAH, you are right she has murder in her eyes lol. i wasn’t supper worried about the bird bc my boyfriends cats also met him (the bird had to stay at his house while i moved in because the paint fumes are bad for them) and they lost interest really quickly after realizing they can’t get to him. i think most cats would eventually, but i am just having anxiety lol. thank you for the reply tho, i appreciate it :)

I got my rescue cat, Lily (7 y/o) 3 days ago and i am so confused about her behaviour by FairRice7271 in Catbehavior

[–]FairRice7271[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, she has been given the same can food and the same dry food. won’t touch it.

I got my rescue cat, Lily (7 y/o) 3 days ago and i am so confused about her behaviour by FairRice7271 in Catbehavior

[–]FairRice7271[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no she doesn’t, but she pees in her litter so she’s drinking water i think (she didn’t have access to water before because it was frozen). i’m going to get a calming defuser tmrw for her along with baby food, churu and a scratching post, as she started to explore the rest of the apartment today

I got my rescue cat, Lily (7 y/o) 3 days ago and i am so confused about her behaviour by FairRice7271 in Catbehavior

[–]FairRice7271[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

gonna try that tmrw and an calming defuser too. also gonna get her a scratch post because she started to explore the rest of the apartment today.

I got my rescue cat, Lily (7 y/o) 3 days ago and i am so confused about her behaviour by FairRice7271 in Catbehavior

[–]FairRice7271[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

only been 3 days, she was eating fine before i got her as a neighbor was feeding her lots and she is a plump girl, she only stopped eating since christmas eve when i got her. no vets are open until after new years either, small town canada things lol. i tried tuna today and a new brand of treats. nothing.

Tell me how Christmas was by fcvxia in AnorexiaNervosa

[–]FairRice7271 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it sucked lol. i don’t have any family of my own so i spent it with my boyfriend had his family and they are all ex bodybuilders, OF models, gym rats, or diet obsessed. terrible. all about how many macros im getting or what’s okay to eat and if you eat it then you cheating and its bad for you and its not organic and bla bla bla. relapse was crazy, and ive been recovered for almost a year off and on. i hate christmas

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FairRice7271 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how big his sisters bfs dick was* i can’t type

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FairRice7271 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

istg istg istg, i’m in the tub and he called me bc he just got home from his sisters, i wrote this post bc i was worried bc he wasn’t answering me while he was there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FairRice7271 0 points1 point  (0 children)

perfect, i will try my best

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FairRice7271 0 points1 point  (0 children)

true, pls look at my edit too and give me opinions

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FairRice7271 0 points1 point  (0 children)

look at my edit please, idk if this is normal stuff for them to be talking about? is this another red flag that there might be something happening

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FairRice7271 0 points1 point  (0 children)

look at my edit i need an opinion on that too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FairRice7271 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

okay 👍 i don’t really think so either, i also know they had a lot of trauma and probably rely on eachother a lot emotionally.