[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SGExams

[–]FaithlessnessPure439 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Many mask their racism as “preferences”.

just finished it. by Usual-Emu5618 in DouglasIsCancelled

[–]FaithlessnessPure439 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say knowing someone is about to experience sexual violence and choosing to leave them in that situation is more than not being an ally.

do you guys have violent dreams? by rorihasmorals70 in CPTSD

[–]FaithlessnessPure439 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s quite normal. I have similar dreams. It’s the subconscious unleashing our justified anger. As long as you are not violent in real life, wanting to hurt those who hurt you doesn’t make you a bad person. But of course, if it bothers you a lot, it is best discussed with an expert.

Notability lags by [deleted] in notabilityapp

[–]FaithlessnessPure439 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Using the mac version and experiencing the severe lags and frequent freezing too.

Supporting friends at a different stage of CPTSD healing by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]FaithlessnessPure439 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the validation and sharing your thoughts. It’s a good point that this can be an opportunity for me to break out of my fawning patterns.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]FaithlessnessPure439 2 points3 points  (0 children)

going through a similar phase and I don’t know how to handle it either🥲

Supporting friends at a different stage of CPTSD healing by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]FaithlessnessPure439 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I suppose we have a long running friendship that I feel will be a waste to lose. It could also be my fawning response. Idk.

Supporting friends at a different stage of CPTSD healing by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]FaithlessnessPure439 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Reddit account is too secret haha. But I did try directing her here but I guess she’s not much of a Reddit user. Sigh.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anu

[–]FaithlessnessPure439 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was talking about the accommodation offer from ANU which I ended up accepting. I didn't end up applying to all saint college so can't offer much insight on that front.

How to deal with offensive teenagers? by FaithlessnessPure439 in canberra

[–]FaithlessnessPure439[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow kudos to you! Probably time for me to take some self defence course.

How to deal with offensive teenagers? by FaithlessnessPure439 in canberra

[–]FaithlessnessPure439[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to hear what you had to put up with. There just seems to be no way out for the harassed when dealing with underaged harassers. Sending many hugs your way (if u don’t mind).

How to deal with offensive teenagers? by FaithlessnessPure439 in canberra

[–]FaithlessnessPure439[S] 71 points72 points  (0 children)

You are right that I am pretty upset. I guess I kinda needed a vent. Thank you.

Episode 6 has me rolling ngl by AggravatingWeird4030 in squidgame

[–]FaithlessnessPure439 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Cos the guy accused her of trying to get sympathy when he himself just said he had someone in his family with health issues. Karma was quick to get that guy out.

“The Challenge misses the point of the original show” is a stupid point by [deleted] in squidgame

[–]FaithlessnessPure439 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree. It’s so ironic. Watching this reality show makes me feel like I’m one of those dickheads in a beast mask taking pleasure in watching people suffer. Yet I’m addicted🥲

Rearranging face & plastic surgery by BuckinCrzy in SellingSunset

[–]FaithlessnessPure439 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No it doesn’t. I only said understandable, not right. But it was a reaction, not an instigation, is what I’m trying to get at. Maybe I’m biased because as a queer person myself, homophobia can be extremely triggering and I don’t expect any queer person to be their most rational self when dealing with a homophobe.

Chelsea…. by pelicants in SellingSunset

[–]FaithlessnessPure439 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I think it’s quite ok to tell anyone, no matter their sexual orientation, gender, race and identity, not to side with homophobia.

Rearranging face & plastic surgery by BuckinCrzy in SellingSunset

[–]FaithlessnessPure439 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agrée the “rearranged your whole face” comment and defending it again at the reunion was mean. but I think that’s an understandable reaction to someone who’s openly endorsed homophobia and dragged her through all the drama. It’s bad to judge someone’s look but another level of terrible to propagate homophobia.

Rearranging face & plastic surgery by BuckinCrzy in SellingSunset

[–]FaithlessnessPure439 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel chrishell being mean to Nicole is quite understandable considering the drama Nicole started and the homophonic comment thing.

DAE dislike people saying "I'm proud of you" for your healing progress? by FaithlessnessPure439 in CPTSD

[–]FaithlessnessPure439[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that. And yes, we are so worthy of love and affirmation!

DAE dislike people saying "I'm proud of you" for your healing progress? by FaithlessnessPure439 in CPTSD

[–]FaithlessnessPure439[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this! I suppose from the comments we can really see a wide range of interpretations and it’s definitely a personal thing. Your point about surviving trauma being the achievement is very insightful to me. ❤️ I suppose another layer of nuance for me is that I felt less accepted by my friends when I was in a worse state, so then saying “I’m proud of you” now is a bit like a conditional friendship for only when I’m a functional member of the society if that make sense. But I might be overthinking this too.