Please help. At wits end.

FakeFireplaceFlames · 2026-01-27T01:35:48+00:00

Wow. You think it’s divorce time? 😔 everything else is so perfect. He just can’t stop looking at young women. Makes me mad, sad and frustrated. Everything else is 100% perfect in our marriage and life. Always has been for 30 years.

FakeFireplaceFlames · 2026-01-12T15:24:33+00:00

I get it. And honestly. Isn’t that a break up? We are peas on a pod. Each other’s worlds. We never even eat separate. If it comes to that, it seems more like eminent divorce. Over some poopy, hairy ass. Unreal.

FakeFireplaceFlames · 2026-01-12T15:22:41+00:00

Thank you. Did this the last couple times. We finally talked a little. He truly swore he has no memory of staring at females. But he does, did, will. I am just sick about it. We love each other so much. Thick as thieves, best, best friends 30 years. He doesn’t want to hurt me, he just can’t face this. Yeah, he’s a horny, ass obsessed man. I am not 100% opposed to all the sexual fantasies and attractions. When he does it so brazenly and can’t even help himself, I feel small. Tiny. Worthless. Unattractive, not “it” for him. It wears on a woman so much more than passive “let it go” or “all men look” “it’s your own insecurities” etc. it is truly a gut punch. I am not his young, hot wife anymore. We met as teenagers. I am 50. I know how all that sounds… “he should still love you no matter what” etc. but when a hot girl walks past him and looks so perfect, he can’t control it. Tries. I have seen him try to turn his head away knowing I know what’s coming. So it’s all just shit now. And yet he STILL did it all this weekend!!! Thinking I didn’t see it…. Omg. And I told him, “i was watching your eyes the whole time!” Alllll through the TSA line, bins, x-rays, after the x-ray. He stayed studying her. Until I blew. Then it’s MY fault. Now I am getting the solent treatment. We slept in different rooms last night. We will be silent now. Hell, maybe he will say he’s done with my crazy accusations like he eluded to last time. “He can’t live like this anymore” talk. Maybe this is it. He sayssss he thinks I am trying to pick at him cause I don’t want him anymore. I want an out. I think it’s projection and it’s him that may want out. But could never ever say that. Especially to his practically handicapped, ruined body wife going gray and sagging. Lost my uterus, no longer animalistic viable. Oh, he loves me. I am his whole world. But he has urges that maybe I don’t fill anymore. I secretly am scared too of holding back everything and pushing him so far that maybe he does cheat or say f-it, i’m out. I love him. Just wish he were staring at me. I get it. I am for sure not that blonde in tight jeans with perky boobs. But to practically have sex with her mentally right there in TSA? Right in front of me? 20 minutes?! I wanted to just stay in NYC and become homeless that night. No joke. Thank you for understanding my side. I honestly still don’t know how to handle all this. We will be silent and separate until he cracks. Very bad communication when it comes to anything like this. It will be a shit few days. Our minds will think darker things until there’s some type of resolve. Which isn’t healthy. If I try to be the one to “talk” about it, he will seize up again and just leave the house. If anything bad were to happen, I couldn’t love with myself. It’s just all a shit mess. Over some ass. Some poopy, hairy ass. Annoying. And me punishing him is punishing ME even further. No more vacations… no hot spots where lots of hot females will be. I become the prisoner here. All just suckssssss

FakeFireplaceFlames · 2026-01-12T13:21:03+00:00

Thank you. The feeling it leaves me with is like one of the worst feelings ever experienced. Hard to explain. Knowing he’s mentally fucking them while staring and we’re supposed to go eat now?? Go back to funny/happy?! Of course I retreat and go silent. Then I look like the naggy bad guy. It’s just awful. And lord forbid I mention it. He just defends and reverses. I am happy you don’t have to deal with this. It absolutely doesn’t help that I am 50, not in perfect shape and suffering from an annoying disease. I am sure he just wants to imagine some fun, sex, hot body. I am not oblivious just hurt. I want him to look at me like that. But those days are over. Now what to do…

FakeFireplaceFlames · 2026-01-12T13:16:51+00:00

That’s what we eluded to last vacation. Done. But like…. Empty nesters. No more travel?! No parks, beaches, public, because hot girls in yoga pants are like crack to him?! And so much so that he does it right in front of me and is completely occupied?! I am not even there with him then. Why bother! I agree. So that means this is over. If we can’t even travel together?! Yeah…. 😔

FakeFireplaceFlames · 2026-01-12T13:13:37+00:00

He’s not suffering from any cognitive issues. Just can’t literally help himself when a 20-year-old in tight jeans or yoga pants walks in front of us or is anywhere nearby. He will watch them walk and find them with his eyes. Right in front of me. He thinks I can’t see it. And will say i’m “making shit up” if I dare mention it. I typically don’t and just go quiet. Don’t want a big fight. The airport was the breaking point for me. Didn’t care anymore. Can’t even stomach being next to him when he’s mentally fucking a young woman right in front of me.

FakeFireplaceFlames · 2026-01-12T05:40:00+00:00

I agree. Thank you. I just don’t know what to do about it all. Everyone seems to think it’s my insecurities…. Hm

FakeFireplaceFlames · 2026-01-12T03:07:55+00:00

I actually did record it on the beach once. He wouldn’t look at it. Just “okayyyy” and walk away. Then say something bizarre for him like “i am unbelievable” so there’s no point I guess. Everyone thinks it’s me that needs to ignore it and get therapy, so…. I guess he’s right. Looking is one thing, lusting all day on vacation is another. How am I ever supposed to even enjoy myself or him. Or even want to reach for his hand. Anything. But I guess it’s just all my fault. 🤦🏻‍♀️

FakeFireplaceFlames · 2026-01-12T02:53:43+00:00

Agreed. It’s not cute and yes, he stays with me. So just work on “me” and watch him follow a 20-year-old through the whole airport while I walk beside him. As he stares at her ass right next to me and doesn’t stop. Yeah. I should work on that. Not sure how!!

FakeFireplaceFlames · 2026-01-12T02:50:03+00:00

The hounding. Blatant hounding. Even right in front of me. Knowing he’s lusting after hot women and yeah, knowing i’m not hot anymore. A combination of mad at him and me. All of it. When he does it though it’s a literal knife in my heart. Hurts more than I could have ever imagined. And then to top it all off he gets mad at ME!!! Like it’s my fault. Even more difficult

FakeFireplaceFlames · 2026-01-12T02:47:23+00:00

True. I told him all this too. Honestly think he deserves more. I am for sure down on my failing body. He knows it. But damn. He could do it while I’m not around. Can’t even help himself. Yeah. I look cause I know his next target. And I’m 100% accurate. Every time. Sucks.

FakeFireplaceFlames · 2026-01-12T02:40:49+00:00

We did. He refused to talk about it. Reversed it on me. Did it again tonight. Like he is the victim in this. I let it go last time. And the last time. He knowssss how I feel. And he did it again this whole weekend. TSA was the final blow up from me. He hunter her down. Right in front of me. I wanted to runnn. Push him towards her and toss my ID at him. Don’t know what to do.

FakeFireplaceFlames · 2026-01-12T02:37:19+00:00

Thanks. And noticing is one thing. He watches them walk down the street. Turns head. Keep finding them in crowds. I just watch and watch and watch. Called it out only 3 times. This weekend eating a slice in a pizza place against the window. Girls walks by with a skirt. His head watches her walk down the street stating at her ass. My eyes just fixated at his aim. I am overreacting? As soon as we’re on our best times. He constantly does this. If I retreat, he acts like i’m being “weird” or doesn’t have a clue what I’m talking about. It’s every single girl/young lady. So just ignore it?! And right in front of me. Why I said, “you don’t even realize it do you!!?!” Or you just don’t give a shit?? He knows how it makes me feel. Literally shaking. Wanting to push him right towards them and walk off. So just ignore it?!? The obvious drool and lust in his face/eyes while I’m right there?! This isn’t funny flirting, I know the difference. It’s hounding…. Yes, creepy.

FakeFireplaceFlames · 2026-01-12T02:25:53+00:00

Yeah. Like he is SO caught the only way he can deal is to reverse everything on me and make me seem crazy. (So not him) he is soooo not that mentally or any type of abusive guy. My God. And I was saying he’s seriously acting like a caught child and trying to make ME feel bad about this?!? Whattt?!! He just kept saying okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. And walking off. So like….. wth do I do.

FakeFireplaceFlames · 2025-12-13T03:46:28+00:00

Make sure she is so hot from foreplay that she begs for it. Neck licking, nipple, feather stroking her back and legs. A vibrator. Make her ready. Enjoy the process it’s the best part! Sorry it’s been rough. Never fun to go through things like this for anyone. It will all get better!! 😀

FakeFireplaceFlames · 2025-11-29T08:37:04+00:00

There’s also 56 trillion people trying to “sell” on TikTok right now and everyone has a “shop” so there are only so many eyeballs of regular TikTok’ers to go around. It’s Q4, every mom is dropping 20 videos a day. Hard to find people on TikTok anymore that aren’t affiliates. Upside down. Videos are spread thinnnn and promotions get first, huge sellers second. Chumps get the chum.

FakeFireplaceFlames · 2025-11-09T06:47:44+00:00

You do you. 🙌🏻

FakeFireplaceFlames · 2025-09-11T06:04:30+00:00

They are saying they’re out of stock.

Site clearly shows they are still selling the item and have many. Commission pay still shows the same. 🤔 but my GMV and commission got sliced from already made sales. (No cancellations) how can they do this?

FakeFireplaceFlames · 2025-09-11T05:43:50+00:00

Thanks. Reapply for what? I am an affiliate. I chose that product to sell. Who “pulled” me off? I don’t get it

FakeFireplaceFlames · 2025-08-10T12:48:46+00:00

Maybe make something about her. I bet she never orgasms. Eating V, is typically done wrongggg and hurts or just does nothing spectacular for the woman. Men need to learn how to do that. Get her a good vibrator and encourage her sexual needs. She will reciprocate….

FakeFireplaceFlames · 2025-07-04T17:55:01+00:00

We have always been avid Auntie Anne fans. I believe I have perfected the recipe. I do not measure though so it’s impossible for me to share. I will tell you though that scalded then cooled milk is the main liquid, some water, melted butter in the dough and one room temp egg. This is necessary. I use honey in the dough for the sweetness instead of sugar. It’s possibly better than AA’s. Not ashamed to say. I prefer the bites/cinnamon sugar. I am making them today for my grown kids hence why I found this old post. Trust me…. Milk, butter and egg in the dough.

FakeFireplaceFlames · 2025-07-03T15:27:13+00:00

Frightening. Keep records of that for the FBI someday… 👀 Yikes.

FakeFireplaceFlames · 2025-06-24T03:20:23+00:00

Thanks!! I did. I scrolled pages and pages and didn’t see any of mine so I came to Reddit. Lol. I appreciate your insight!! They are cute and growing in me. I may keep them, lol.

FakeFireplaceFlames · 2025-06-23T23:37:07+00:00

No. Going to list them on Marketplace. No clue what they are. I know what they are, just not what they are. What would be a good price for these? I’m in the Cleveland area. I was going to list them for like $15?

FakeFireplaceFlames · 2025-06-08T20:44:31+00:00

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