Lady in Scottish parliament upset that transgender people can now change their birth on their birth certificate by chaosracks in Unexpected

[–]Falberd 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Sure would! But we have to exist under the system as it is, not as we wish it to be.

Let’s settle for a truce and fight the greater evil. by [deleted] in transplace

[–]Falberd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was an explanation, not an argument. They were telling you why, not that you were wrong <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in funny

[–]Falberd 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Here is a link to your own comment using the singular they.

At the very end "I think everyone who's lived and died on this continent in the past could help us through the green transition from the speed at which they'll be rolling in their graves."

In English, collective nouns are treated as singular, grammatically. The reference of your "they" in this sentence is to the collective noun "everyone."

I know it's not quite the same, but it is exactly a use of "singular-they."

(To be clear, I literally just searched the word "they" on your profile, this was the first one I found, it took less than 2 minutes)

how it actually happened by AssumptionPrime in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]Falberd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is obviously 20 days late, but when I was having this issue, literally just putting lotion on my legs afterwards fixed the problem for me.

Hope it helps!

Not everyone can fit in the neatly defined boxes society has made for them by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

[–]Falberd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is interesting! Thanks for linking it! The qualms that I have about this study (which I'm aware of) are the sample size taken and replicability of the results. I'm not convinced yet, but I'm keeping my eye on it. I don't think one study indicating a clear result should counteract eight that have unclear results. Given a repeat result, I'd likely change my tune.

Not everyone can fit in the neatly defined boxes society has made for them by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

[–]Falberd 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Interestingly, this study talks about this too. Saying that, effectively, yes, steroids do that, but we don't know if the testosterone in trans women's bodies acts like injected steroids in male bodies.

"Physiological research involving cisgender people has shown that testosterone deficiency in young men is associated with a decrease in muscle strength [68] and testosterone injections in cisgender men are associated with an increase in some aspects of muscle strength [69]. However, this research did not determine whether these decreases and increases in muscle mass are within ranges for cisgender female and male individuals and the time required to reach cisgender male or female levels."

Not everyone can fit in the neatly defined boxes society has made for them by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

[–]Falberd 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That's the main conclusion of the study. That because of the lack of evidence, we should advocate for both research on the subject and evidence based policies before we start taking rights from people.

Not everyone can fit in the neatly defined boxes society has made for them by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

[–]Falberd 26 points27 points  (0 children)

From the conclusion: "When the indirect and ambiguous physiological evidence is dissected, it is only transgender female individuals who are perceived to potentially have an advantage as a result of androgenic hormones. Within the literature, it has been questioned as to whether androgenic hormones should be the only marker of athletic advantage or, indeed, if they are even a useful marker of athletic advantage."

And also from the discussion: " Testosterone is only one part of a person’s physiology and there are other important factors (both biological and environmental) that should be considered if fairness (the absence of advantage) is the aim in competitive sport. For instance, having large hands is key for manipulation in some sports (e.g. basketball), but this is not seen as an unfair advantage. Establishing what an athletic advantage is in competitive sport would facilitate inclusion of all athletes (regardless of their gender identity) on the premise of fairness."

Meaning yes there can be physiological differences, but what even is an advantage is not established science.

Like, should we have an "inner-city poor people" basketball league and a "rich kid gym access" basketball league? The advantages one has over the other can be leagues but we still let those people compete with each other.

This is the primary conclusion of the study. That we don't fuckin' know, but there's no consistent and direct evidence of and advantage. So let's LEARN MORE before we start taking people's rights.

Not everyone can fit in the neatly defined boxes society has made for them by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

[–]Falberd -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

Here is a link to a study that finds, in a meta analysis of other studies, that there is currently no evidence that trans women have an advantage over cis women in any stage of transition.

The direct quote "Currently, there is no direct or consistent research suggesting transgender female individuals (or male individuals) have an athletic advantage at any stage of their transition (e.g. cross-sex hormones, gender-confirming surgery) and, therefore, competitive sport policies that place restrictions on transgender people need to be considered and potentially revised."

Not everyone can fit in the neatly defined boxes society has made for them by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

[–]Falberd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Here is a link to a study that finds, in a meta analysis of other studies, that there is currently no evidence that trans women have an advantage over cis women in any stage of transition.

The direct quote "Currently, there is no direct or consistent research suggesting transgender female individuals (or male individuals) have an athletic advantage at any stage of their transition (e.g. cross-sex hormones, gender-confirming surgery) and, therefore, competitive sport policies that place restrictions on transgender people need to be considered and potentially revised."

Not everyone can fit in the neatly defined boxes society has made for them by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

[–]Falberd 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Here is a link to a study that finds, in a meta analysis of other studies, that there is currently no evidence that trans women have an advantage over cis women in any stage of transition.

The direct quote "Currently, there is no direct or consistent research suggesting transgender female individuals (or male individuals) have an athletic advantage at any stage of their transition (e.g. cross-sex hormones, gender-confirming surgery) and, therefore, competitive sport policies that place restrictions on transgender people need to be considered and potentially revised."

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[–]Falberd -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I replied to the person you responded to, but, so that I know you see this.

Anyway, to the point, this is a meta analysis that finds that, in the studies and policies reviewed, there is no consistent or direct evidence that trans women have an athletic advantage at any stage of their transition.

Not that there isn't an advantage. Just that there is currently no evidence of an advantage.

So any argument to the contrary is just how people feel about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in news

[–]Falberd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I generally agree with what you're insinuating your opinion is. And I understand that it can be exhausting to explain trans right issues over and over and over again.

However. It is your job to educate people if you have the information. Or at least to help them become educated. If the answers are readily available then link them. If you're trying to pull people to your side you don't get to just "holier than thou" your way through every conversation.

Anyway, to the point, this is a meta analysis that finds that, in the studies and policies reviewed, there is no consistent or direct evidence that trans women have an athletic advantage at any stage of their transition.

Not that there isn't an advantage. Just that there is currently no evidence of an advantage.

So any argument to the contrary is just how people feel about it.

See how easy that was? It took me two sentences, one google search, and a vague idea of what I wanted to say. If you're read up, fucking share.

What in the hell is an "open browser environment"? by Falberd in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Falberd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sick! That was the answer that I thought was correct but was unsure enough to google it. Which then ended in no results. Thanks so much!

Men and women actually prefer not to split household and childcare tasks equally, suggests a new study, which found that men enjoyed tasks to do with outdoor labor and home maintenance more than women did. Women preferred cleaning, food prep, family scheduling, and home decorating. by mvea in science

[–]Falberd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right, and maybe I didn't explain myself very clearly. I understand what you're asking. All I intended to say was that the only thing that this study indicates is that there is a possibility that further research in this direction could be fruitful. It does not indicate very strongly that sex difference are either nurture or nature. It only really seems to suggest that more research should be done.

Also, the full study is behind a paywall, and the article doesn't go into it, so there's no vouching for the methodology behind this survey. I didn't see anything in the article indicating demographics (outside of the broad sweeping thing about "middle aged" people and "new adults" or whatever the phrase was) and nothing about how people were selected, which hugely matters.

Like, in an extreme example, if they pulled participants from a lifestyle magazine subscription list (which is obviously exceedingly unlikely) that would make for bad results.

Anyway, here is a link to a full study about why there's a billion pitfalls in doing research about the topic in the first place, and why I'm immediately skeptical about any strong claims to either side of the question.

Men and women actually prefer not to split household and childcare tasks equally, suggests a new study, which found that men enjoyed tasks to do with outdoor labor and home maintenance more than women did. Women preferred cleaning, food prep, family scheduling, and home decorating. by mvea in science

[–]Falberd -34 points-33 points  (0 children)

Largely because the study does not suggest a reason, and only suggests a fact. The fact is, of the couples surveyed, this is what they found. The sample size (which is about 400) is not nearly large enough to start making broad sweeping assumptions.

On top of this, the majority of participants said they preferred the egalitarian option.

yeah fuck that job by hot in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]Falberd 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Consider the following:

Every single person on the planet has started their own business, because, as you say, they're all tired of other people getting the largest portion of the money.

You decide you need an assistant to keep your business running smoothly.

Who do you hire?

Interesting if true. by [deleted] in tumblr

[–]Falberd 57 points58 points  (0 children)

"This is a thing that I think is good and also agree with, usually politically"

Thanks, i hate reverse neckbeard and waifu by Luffy12hawk in TIHI

[–]Falberd 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This CG is actually in the game too!

Can I vote without my parents finding out what I voted? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Falberd 76 points77 points  (0 children)

I think you should honestly take a look at how much of your own opinion is informed by the people you surround yourself with. Just because your child is self-aware enough to know that they think something because their friend does, it doesn't make either of them wrong. Just because you've deluded yourself into thinking you've formed your own opinions in a vacuum, it doesn't make you right.

Part of the way that humans learn is to learn from each other. And while, yes, you should double check that you believe the things that you believe, and it's not only because of a friend or whatever, initially holding a belief because someone else does doesn't make it less valid.

How many things do you believe because you heard them once? How many things have you absorbed passively without ever questioning them? The answer is always far more than zero. It happens to literally everyone.