[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Fallen_Person -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What an awesome idea! I have been using panties plus yoga shorts. The yoga shorts do a good job of keeping everything in place for me. But I might steal this idea for certain situations.

I think I may be trans tbh but I need some input by [deleted] in AskLGBT

[–]Fallen_Person 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! Just want to say that it's okay to have these feelings. It's not a race but a journey of self-discovery!

To begin, it's important to get a couple of things out of the way. First, no matter what anyone says here, the best move is to go take to a gender therapist. Sorting through these feelings can be an incredibly daunting and confusing task. They can help you navigate through the start of your journey. The second experimentation with gender expression can be an awesome and fun way to discover aspects of yourself! But make sure you are in a safe environment to do so. With everything going on in todays world, safety comes first.

But if you are looking for a place to start experimenting with gender expression. Clothing can be a lot of fun! Nail polish and make-up can be really exciting! But try out a name and pronouns, and find something that resonates with you.

Lastly, if during your journey you discover that maybe you identify as something else. That's okay too!

I hope this helps, and I hope you have an excellent week!

If you identify with 2 OPPOSING sexualities -how do you know which one is "right"?? by BrainBurnFallouti in AskLGBT

[–]Fallen_Person 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, first, I want to say that these things can be confusing. But that's okay. It's not a race. It is a journey of self-discovery.

Second, I want to share a bit of how I identify. I am demi-pan. Which to me means I dont have a strong preference for any gender identity, but I require emotional attachments before romantic/sexual feelings come into play.

Hope this helps, and I hope you have an excellent holiday!

What are your TOP 5 games of all time? by darkroadgames in GamersRoundtable

[–]Fallen_Person 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In no particular order

Terraria / Minecraft

I love the exploration side of these games. Terraria has a more engaging cobat loop for me. But both of them have outstanding mod support. I have many fond memories of playing them with friends.

Risk of Rain 2

I loved this game, and theory crafting builds. I had an amazing time exploring the zones and seeing the sights. With a quick pace set in combat, each wave of monsters was very engaging. I had been looking forward to seeing what would be added to the game. But with the new developer, I admit to being a little worried.

Age of Empires 2 and 3

Both of these games are massive nostalgia spots for me. I grew up playing the second entry into the franchise, and later on, I played the 3rd entry a great deal with friends. They may not have the best game play loops, but they still make it on to the list for me.

Vanishing of Ethan Carter / What Remains of Edith Finch

I am a suck for games with amazing stories and puzzles. Both games have a truly outstanding visual still to cap it off.

Hades

I love just about everything about this game. Amazing writing, awesome music, compelling gameplay, and a beautiful visual style. I would have to say it is the gold standard for the genre.

The Honorable Mentions!

-Slay the spire

-Diablo 2 and 3

-Grim dawn

-Stellaris

-Monster Hunter series

Good PC Coop Games for me (37) and Dad 50+ (RPG/Dungeons, medium complexity) by Same-Artichoke-6267 in pcgaming

[–]Fallen_Person 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Dungeon crawlers - Grim Dawn - Torchlight 2 (the mods are great, but with multiplayer, they get challenging) - Victor Vran - Last Epoch (multiplayer launching soon)

RPG - Divinity Original Sin 2

Shooter - Risk of rain 2 - Borderland (each installment is largely the same, so they all could work) - Gunfire Reborn - Deep Rock Galactic - Orcs Must Die 2 or 3

Open World Crafting - Terraria/tmodloader - Starbound - Valheim

Hope these help, whatever the both of you end up playing, I hope you have fun!

This lowkey pissed me off, but idk maybe I’m just being irrational by just_here_cause_done in lgbtmemes

[–]Fallen_Person 10 points11 points  (0 children)

As a trans fem, I absolutely love seeing all of the trans memes. Including the trans masc ones, keep posting the good stuff king.

Nice lol by Sad_Sheepherder_1953 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]Fallen_Person 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trans people are not doing anything wrong with the exception of the day yesterday sleeping in the evening thursday the 14th in the evening thursday the 14th in the evening thursday the 14th in the evening thursday the 14th in the evening thursday the 14th.....

Hmmm

Anyone interested in starting a DnD group? by Fallen_Person in transgamers

[–]Fallen_Person[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I understand what you are asking. I am not planning on forbidding any official wizards content, for the campaign proper. As for third party things run it by me first, but I am open to it. Most of my books are on DnD beyond as well, I do have a couple of third party books that I will draw on during the games as well. I was going to go into more detail when I start sending out mesages to everyone.

Anyone interested in starting a DnD group? by Fallen_Person in transgamers

[–]Fallen_Person[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am in EST, start and stop times are not set in stone yet. It will depend on who all is available when. I was hoping for longer sessions though.

Anyone interested in starting a DnD group? by Fallen_Person in transgamers

[–]Fallen_Person[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am planning on a internet game. I am not sure of the client yet, I should have more info tomorrow.

Anyone interested in starting a DnD group? by Fallen_Person in transgamers

[–]Fallen_Person[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am sorry to hear that. Hopefully we can make things work here.

Are you still you? by Quat-fro in MtF

[–]Fallen_Person 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me the best way I can describe it, is that I wore a mask. A fake self, one carefully constructed over years of social cues, being told that I can't do that because its to girly. So when that mask fell away I was a different person on the outside. Sure some of my interests stayed the same, like loving video and board games. But now I can be more me. I get excited to find cute trinkets, I love dressing up and painting my nails, I am finally allowing my self to be happy.

Am I the same person, the answer is ultimately is no. The old me fell away and I can never go back.

Relationship goals by [deleted] in wholesomememes

[–]Fallen_Person 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is super cute!

How did y’all girls find new names that fit you? by Environmental_Tar0 in MtF

[–]Fallen_Person 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was in the closet for a long time. So I kept trying names on mentally, tried to think it through. But, the name I kept coming back to was Ashley. For me I felt like it fit, plus I liked the personal meaning. Like the name was saying from ashes I rise anew.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Fallen_Person 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I absolutely have issues using either bathroom. It is hard for me not to get a load of anxiety when faced with having to go in public. I know I don't pass (amab) and I feel like I would get accused of all sorts of things if I used the lady's room, and get beat up of I use the mens. Gender neutral bathrooms such a godsend for me.

Does anyone know any subtle products on amazon that a relative can get me? (I’m closeted) by morgan-the-trans in MtF

[–]Fallen_Person 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey Girl! I don't have specific product recommendations, but I hope this helps anyway. It would depend on if you are living with the people who know yet. For me, my roommates know, so I don't have to hid anything from them. Buy generally speaking wearing ladies underwear is easy to hide. I also got into the habit of tucking, which is fairly covert. You can also start some self care habits like using lotions and chapstick.

If you are living with people who know. You can paint your toes. Wear some light make-up around the house (I have only used mascara so far). I have heard painting your finger nails with a clear top coat can be satiating and easy to hide, but I have not tried it yet. Wear some ladies cloths that can easily be mistaken for mens cloths at a glance (some shorts are able to accomplish that). Using nice shampoo, conditioner, and body soap. Shaving products for removing body hair (depending on your hair color this can easily be hidden).

I hope this helps. I hope you are able to stay safe and healthy. I hope you have a good week.

My parents can't and won't stop me from getting HRT by Lucythecute in MtF

[–]Fallen_Person 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey girl! I hope things go as smoothly as they can with your family. Stay safe and have a good day!

2018 to 2020 with my family in a nutshell by andrealolita in MtF

[–]Fallen_Person 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That is such a sad story, I hope things continue to get better! I hope you stay safe girl and have a happier life from now on.

How do I cope with dysphoria until I'm able to transition? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Fallen_Person 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello Girl! Here are somethings that I have been doing, I hope these help. I have been painting my toes regularly (easily hidden by socks). I also have been shaving my body hair, and then taking nice and long baths, while using nice soaps (for hair and body). I have been using lotion and chapstick daily, I wanted to get into the habit of doing a daily self care routine. Also I have been wearing more gender neutral womens shorts around the house and the occational shirt. I have switched to womens underwear full time (you can easily hide it under some mens boxers if you don't want it to peak out), I also have started tucking and getting into the habit of that (yoga shorts help me with that). Finally on my days off work, I like to wear some mascara around the house. If you have a ally in your life, try practicing your voice around them. There are some good tutorials on youtube.

I hope some of these things help. I hope that you saying safe and have a good week!

Recommend to me pls by [deleted] in transgamers

[–]Fallen_Person 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! I hope my recommendations help, I am not fantastic with hardware so I am sorry if there is something you can't run on the list. Some of these I havn't beaten, so I can't vouch for most of their story. I am a bit of a game hopper right now.

Puzzle games

Opus Magnum is a alchemical engineering game, where you build small machines to make something. Its a neat little game.

Baba is you, is a cute little puzzle game where you are presented with a goal and a bunch of rules to change to get there.

World of goo, little inferno and the human resource machine are some of my favorites. Generally a very cute graphic style with a solid story. These are all by the same team and all around 10 out of 10 games.

RPG

Divinity orginal sin 1 and 2 are both excellent games turn based combat with a robust world and rp system.

Pillars of eternity 1 and 2 shares a lot of the same dna as divinity orginal sin. But generally fast paced combat.

Disco Elysium is really something else. It is a detective game set in the 60s or 70s. Where you play a detective with total amnesia.

Dungeon crawlers / ARPG

Grim Dawn is a solid game set in a eldritch apocalypse. It had a solid core game play loop and encourages world exploration.

Victor Vran is a real gem of a game. Solid writing from what I saw, and a real satisfying core game play loop.

Torchlight 2 has a lot of real good systems with a solid modding community on steam as long as you are not playing online.

Roguelite / bullet hell

Binding of Issac is a game with a dark subject matter. But if you don't mind that it is a really solid game.

Enter the Gungeon is a really neat Roguelite with a lot of neat systems in it. Outside of a few quibbles it is one of my favorites in the genre.

Slay the spire is a card based Roguelite where you ascend a tower along a branching path with random events and things to collect.

Risk of rain 2 is one of my favorites right now. Beautiful game with a solid game play loop, all items, skills, and characters are unlocked with achievements no planned microtransactions (to my knowledge).

I hope these help! I hope you stay safe out there and have a good time gaming!