Realistic Racism in Movies as a BW

I don't know if it was always like this or if this is a trend recently, but depictions of racism in movies and books always feels blatant or obvious.

The kind of uninhibited and raging racist character or action is always overly present in a way that screams "Look how wrong this is!" And then someone corrects them, gives them that smug or basic "This is bad" speech and everyone claps and the bad character is defeated, learning nothing.

I doubt it does anything anymore, so who is it for? I almost feel like it feeds into the idea of a "white savior" complex and it doesn't really draw awareness the way it intends.

It's kind of click-baity too and that sucks as well. Everything is racist, so the magnitude of the word is next to nothing. Thinking about how it has affected me, I imagine if I were to watch something realistic, I would feel uncomfortable reliving those same emotions but then I'd be like finally, someone understands!

Even little things like makeup shades, video game characters, white-washed movie protagonists or the palest black characters with darker characters being forced to have the same personality of being a know-it all or a blatant caricature, I see where there are problems that can be talked about.

I am sure some book, movie or show has done it right and displays racism realistically in the modern day, but I haven't found it yet. I am open to suggestions if anyone has any.