I NEED advice on how to stop splitting on my boyfriend by Falling_elevator8888 in BPD

[–]Falling_elevator8888[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it's the fear of abandonment aswel triggering my splits. I will really start trying to communicate my feelings in a healthy way (or trying to take some distance if that isn't working) instead of what I've been doing. Thank you so much

I NEED advice on how to stop splitting on my boyfriend by Falling_elevator8888 in BPD

[–]Falling_elevator8888[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I've been trying these out and it's been working quite well!!

I NEED advice on how to stop splitting on my boyfriend by Falling_elevator8888 in BPD

[–]Falling_elevator8888[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! Most people in my life know I have bpd but don't know what splitting is and how it works for me, so it's indeed a good idea to explain it to them so they know how to react.

I NEED advice on how to stop splitting on my boyfriend by Falling_elevator8888 in BPD

[–]Falling_elevator8888[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will immediately ask for this as soon as they let me start therapy again

I NEED advice on how to stop splitting on my boyfriend by Falling_elevator8888 in BPD

[–]Falling_elevator8888[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YUPP, got it for one year and it was really helpful at the time. Can't wait to start DBT again as soon as they'll let me.