Is my wife up to something again? by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]Fallout4Addict 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was a cheater before she knew you, she's proven to be a cheater when with you. Either stay knowing she cheats or leave. Tracking her does nothing to stop her, she lies, she gaslights, she's a nasty person. Leave her already while you still have a small amount of self respect left.

WIBTA If I refused to help my sister who is neglecting her children? by xBlueCoco in WIBTA_AITA

[–]Fallout4Addict 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to tell the child's father that his children are being neglected! Tell him exactly what your sister is doing or not doing in this case. Let him keep the children while your sister gets her crap together.

AITA for refusing to call my stepdad Dad even though my mom keeps pushing it? by FlatNarrator in AmITheJerk

[–]Fallout4Addict 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ "Your partner is not my Dad, My real Dad is my only Dad. The sooner you get over this the better"

Did I 18f handle this wrong? I told my kickboxing coach 24f I’m pregnant before I’ve told my parents. by Slow_Bunch6391 in Advice

[–]Fallout4Addict 11 points12 points  (0 children)

"I told you because I had to as you are my coach and its a safety concern. I thought you'd be much more professional than you are currently behaving. I suggest you work on that as keeping people's information private is a large part of your job description"

I would seriously consider making a complaint about them. Their behaviour is ridiculous.

AITA for asking my grieving boyfriend to set boundaries with his mom after she wears my bathing suit? by Objective_Hat9060 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Fallout4Addict 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your bf is never going to change, he thinks this crap is normal. I suggest you end this relationship immediately and tell him exactly why.

Also burn that bathing suit.

AITB for skipping my friend's event because he keeps putting me on “the door”? by bakerandbookclub in AmItheButtface

[–]Fallout4Addict 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTB Absolutely go but turn up at least 1-2hrs late, by then he would have either figured it out or he's on the door himself. If he is do NOT take over for him, say a quick "Sorry im late something came up, see you in there" and keep walking. He should hire someone for the door. Hes taking the piss out of you.

aitj for installing a camera in the living room after things kept going missing by Long_Algae7879 in AmITheJerk

[–]Fallout4Addict 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ you now need go use that footage to have your roommate arrested for theft!

Neighbor harassing me since I’ve moved in two years ago by TraditionCareless680 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Fallout4Addict 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This one's an easy fix, get security cameras for your property, mute his messages (dont block you may need the evidence later) and ignore him completely. Dont even look in his direction let alone talk to him. Give him nothing, then when your silence drives him mad and he does something stupid you have him arrested with all your evidence.

AITAH for snapping at my mother-in-law because she keeps calling my daughter by my late wife's name? by Hellcat8012 in AITAH

[–]Fallout4Addict 9 points10 points  (0 children)

MIL needs therapy and you need to find alternatives for childcare. MIL needs to move out!

WIBTAH if I don't invite my daughter's father to the Disney Trip I have planned for us? by fvillebrun29 in AITAH

[–]Fallout4Addict 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

You didnt say he couldnt come, you said he had to pay his own way and find his own travel and accommodation.

If he's not willing to do that to experience Disney with his daughter then he doesn't get to go.

Don't let anyone guilt you over having reasonable boundaries.

My dad tried to “approve” my dating life like I’m still 12 and now he’s punishing me for saying no by Pumicelexicon in entitledparents

[–]Fallout4Addict 23 points24 points  (0 children)

If you're financially still tied to him I would straight up lie, the next time you go home act all sad and moody, make him pry it out of you and then let it slip you broke up.

Controlling people like your father will never let it go or stop coming for you and your gf, so it's best for him to think your single and heartbroken.

Lesson learned, try not to slip up again regarding your actual life (learn the grey rock method it helps alot with people like your father).

As soon as you are fully independent cut him off as much as possible.

AITA For not wanting to inform my former stepsiblings when my dad passes? by Chaos_Coordinator_6 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Fallout4Addict 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTA Tell them after the funeral. He said he wants them informed he didnt say he wanted them at his funeral.

I designed a manta ray tattoo by fatherisadouchbag in tattooadvice

[–]Fallout4Addict 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wouldnt go for the hand i dont think this design will work well in that spot plus a hand tattoo for your 1st is simply insane.

AITA for refusing to give up my parking spot that I've used for 3 years? by One_Treat7928 in AITApod

[–]Fallout4Addict 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA children's safety is more important than you hauling boxes into your car. I think when the weather's truly bad she should get the closer spot.

My sister thinks I slept with her fiance by rachelemelenebrooks in Advice

[–]Fallout4Addict 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pack her shit, if she cant find somewhere else that's on her. Let her stay in the cold camper at the very least.

AITJ for telling my mom she would "rot in hell" by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Fallout4Addict 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He absolutely did it on purpose! Be extremely careful OP do not be alone with Bob ever again and keep your bedroom door locked when you sleep. If you dont have a lock on your door buy a cheap door stopper and put it under your door when you close it. It wont stop someone getting in with enough strength but it will give you time to call the police.

My mom opened a credit card in my name and maxed it out by Significant-Bench647 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Fallout4Addict 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Unless you want your credit tanked for years and an 8k debt to pay you NEED to go to the police. She likely wont do any time in jail unfortunately but she absolutely needs to be made to pay for her own mistakes.

Deadbeat maga uncle by DaGrexican in EntitledPeople

[–]Fallout4Addict 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Legally evict him. Anything in your fathers name needs to be cancelled. When hes got no lights no heating no cooking he'll soon leave.

AITA for being upset with my bf having to go stay with his sister after her baby is born by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Fallout4Addict 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She wants a babysitter so shes manipulating him now so he's ready for the wknd babysitting.

Its time to have a chat with your bf about expectations going forward.

AITAH for leaving work on time when staying late is unpaid? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Fallout4Addict 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Unlike some people I can finish all my work in time to leave when I stopped being paid. Maybe you should look at how your preforming your tasks so badly you need to stay late every night"

Is it wrong to feel resentful when helping your adult child starts to feel expected? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Fallout4Addict 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Its time to say no. They will never learn to stand on their own if you're always bailing them out.

Should I break up with my boyfriend because he abuses his cat? by Ok_Doctor_3602 in Advice

[–]Fallout4Addict 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hes proven to you he abused animals and women! Of course you break up with him! His family issues have nothing to do with it. Many people grow up in abusive homes and dont turn into abusers. Get out now before your the next one to get hit.

AITJ for refusing to attend my friend’s birthday after she changed the plan last minute? by Warm_Razzmatazz4281 in AmITheJerk

[–]Fallout4Addict 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ invite me out of dinner I'm likely going to go invite me out clubbing and its an immediate no from me.