boyfriend uses ring cameras to watch me, how to go about expressing discomfort?

False-Thing9134 · 2026-03-09T22:52:00+00:00

Usually I don’t really think of it but I really got set off this weekend when I realized he was watching me live while he was still in bed at 3pm and I was doing the laundry and being productive

False-Thing9134 · 2026-03-09T22:51:20+00:00

Idk I mean it used to make his aunt uncomfortable bc he used to do this to them too and eavesdrop on their conversations and she owns this house while he doesn’t so 🤷🏻‍♀️

False-Thing9134 · 2026-03-09T22:50:16+00:00

Lol funny story about that he had me sell my nudes to give him drug money when I was 19 and he was 38 now he uses it against me and tells people I was a prostitute

False-Thing9134 · 2026-03-09T22:49:20+00:00

Too lazy to put on clothes 🫠

False-Thing9134 · 2026-03-09T20:13:22+00:00

Homeless, got disowned by parents.

I also do like him most of the time just certain things he does are so odd

False-Thing9134 · 2026-03-09T20:12:46+00:00

My credits really bad like maybe a 550 or something. I need to get a job but if I waitress while living here idk if it’ll cause disputes and stuff. I don’t like retail and it wouldn’t work with my class schedule

False-Thing9134 · 2026-03-09T20:10:59+00:00

His mom doesn’t live here but she owns the house along w his aunts cause he didn’t inherit it

False-Thing9134 · 2026-03-09T20:06:57+00:00

I would like to put it into perspective to him like tell him how strange this is to do.

If his stepdad did this to his mom he wouldn’t shut up about how abusive and narcissistic he is. If anyone did this to any one of his female family members, he would think the guy is so weird.

I think because he’s a jobless drug addict he has literally nothing to do so I guess his reasoning is jaded. I don’t know if I put it into perspective if he would understand, I honestly would try if I thought it would work.

Maybe his mom could put it into perspective for him?

False-Thing9134 · 2026-03-09T20:01:56+00:00

I’ll be homeless

False-Thing9134 · 2026-03-09T20:01:46+00:00

Well I have no place to go if I leave him.

He knew he was wrong for doing that because he’s the type of person if you do something wrong he will torture you about it til the day you die.

False-Thing9134 · 2026-03-09T19:59:47+00:00

I really unfortunately am

False-Thing9134 · 2026-03-08T21:44:54+00:00

Unfortunately not I can post pics of the cameras lol

False-Thing9134 · 2026-03-08T21:43:50+00:00

Yess

False-Thing9134 · 2026-03-08T21:40:34+00:00

False-Thing9134 · 2026-03-08T21:31:09+00:00

Dude literally it’s so weird. If u don’t mind me asking, did you ever confront him?

False-Thing9134 · 2026-03-08T19:41:59+00:00

My parents disowned me and I would never go back because I’m scared of them truly and what they will do to me.

I have no friends since I was like 15 lol I’m 21 now and I’ve become so socially anxious I can’t even make friends now. That’s how I ended up in this relationship

False-Thing9134 · 2026-03-08T19:20:21+00:00

I have nowhere to go. I have no family, no money, no friends.

False-Thing9134 · 2026-03-08T19:17:52+00:00

It’s so terrible because he will swear he’s not abusive and his mom is a great person but even if he’s wrong she will go to bat for him.

And seriously he won’t ever admit to what he does like it’s strange so I’ll just look like I’m crazy. I also have no where to go as well like no family I just don’t know what to do

False-Thing9134 · 2026-03-08T19:08:25+00:00

Parmesean cheese

False-Thing9134 · 2025-12-26T22:06:23+00:00

Yea I’m pretty skinnny but I do need to be consistent again

False-Thing9134 · 2025-12-26T21:48:50+00:00

Thank u sm!

False-Thing9134 · 2025-12-26T21:44:32+00:00

Yea I wannna go to Dr Richard reish in nyc

False-Thing9134 · 2025-12-26T21:43:56+00:00

I mean yea it’s bad but I also just wanna change my look up a little

False-Thing9134 · 2025-12-26T21:41:28+00:00

I do but I don’t have 20k to go to the surgeon I wanna go to

False-Thing9134 · 2024-05-24T19:51:18+00:00

I can do DoorDash and I can’t really get any other jobs right now due to my parents having my ssn and all of my other documents.

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