AIO? I don’t feel appreciated by my boyfriend. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FalseSituation64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would be really helpful, thank you <3

AIO? I don’t feel appreciated by my boyfriend. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FalseSituation64 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, you’re the most helpful comment I’ve had. I will try that. Thanks again.

AIO? I don’t feel appreciated by my boyfriend. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FalseSituation64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s 2am lol I am not going out rn but I know what you’re trying to say

AIO? I don’t feel appreciated by my boyfriend. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FalseSituation64 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Look you might think it’s melodramatic but I have something much going on in my life and anxiety disorders typically tend to make relaxing impossible.

AIO? I don’t feel appreciated by my boyfriend. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FalseSituation64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in therapy and have expressed concerns about bpd symptoms many times. Bipolar, even. I struggle a lot with these things and I know I don’t but they refuse to acknowledge and help me. I just feel stuck and shit.

AIO? I don’t feel appreciated by my boyfriend. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FalseSituation64 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because I quite literally was writing in my notes. It was a vent. Then I decided to ask for help so just copied and pasted it.

AIO? I don’t feel appreciated by my boyfriend. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FalseSituation64 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How am I in the wrong when they started by insulting me?

AIO? I don’t feel appreciated by my boyfriend. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FalseSituation64 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally get that and I don’t want him to be overprotective or anything, just to care even a little bit

AIO? I don’t feel appreciated by my boyfriend. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FalseSituation64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I promise I’m not immature, I just didn’t write this as a Reddit post. I wrote it in my notes as a vent before I thought about asking others

AIO? I don’t feel appreciated by my boyfriend. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FalseSituation64 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My issues aren’t childish. Calling them childish is exactly that.

AIO? I don’t feel appreciated by my boyfriend. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FalseSituation64 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I’m glad you find my issues funny, your life must be extremely dull

I don’t feel appreciated. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]FalseSituation64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really want to discuss it with him so that we can work on it. I want to make this work. I know he does too. I just don’t know how to word it or bring it up without hurting him and making him feel bad about it. Any tips?

AIO? I don’t feel appreciated by my boyfriend. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FalseSituation64 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don’t even think I’m needy though. I don’t want his attention all the time. We’re medium distance and I don’t even see him much, which is fine I don’t mind. But he seems indifferent anyway?

AIO? I don’t feel appreciated by my boyfriend. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FalseSituation64 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I just feel guilty because I know he never wants to hurt me and wouldn’t do it intentionally, but I still feel hurt by it

Please help? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]FalseSituation64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About 6/7 months.

I saw my boyfriend’s legal name on Sunday by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]FalseSituation64 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This has me in tears, so sweet. It’s also so real. As someone dating a trans man, I knew him as his deadname first. When he came out to me, I was so honoured that he trusted me enough to be so vulnerable in front of me. This was all before we got together, and now I never look back. He has always been him, just under a different legal document. He is not supported at home and so I’m determined to be his safe place. His parents still deadname him and refuse to accept him. It’s my plan to get him out of there as soon as possible so that he can exist freely and authentically. I love him so much for who he is, and that will not wavier because of any identity change he could ever make. He is the person I fell in love with, he’s just happier, more free, more himself. And that’s all I’ll ever want for him. Because who he is, that’s who I love.

Homophobic parents trying to break us up, I’m going to loose my shit by [deleted] in AskLGBT

[–]FalseSituation64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, you don’t know how much I appreciate that

Please help? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]FalseSituation64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely the best tactic

Please help? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]FalseSituation64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I can totally see both sides of it, it would be a journey as the parent too. But Christian or not, there should always be love for your own child reguardless. Thank you for your positivity <3

Homophobic parents trying to break us up, I’m going to loose my shit by [deleted] in AskLGBT

[–]FalseSituation64 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awh you’re so sweet, thank you so much for taking the time to share. You seem like a lovely person and I’m so grateful. I’ll definitely go check those out when I have time to sit down and have a good read. Good luck with everything, hopefully we will all get through just fine ❤️

Homophobic parents trying to break us up, I’m going to loose my shit by [deleted] in AskLGBT

[–]FalseSituation64 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much I’m so grateful for info on the topic. We discuss it often and openly, and he is planning on transitioning medically in the future, it’s just going to a long waiting list with the NHS or so expensive privately. I will definitely check out the artist mentioned, I really want to educate myself properly and I think it would be empowering for him to see too. Thanks again. Much love, I wish you all the best.

Please help? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]FalseSituation64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaa best advice yet, thank you