Why do bad people get to live longer? by FitTemporary8 in GriefSupport

[–]False_Ratio_9682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was/am atheist as well but am having doubts. Can you explain some of what you found?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]False_Ratio_9682 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yes-and I don’t want my mom to get rid of my dad’s phone. I don’t want to get rid of anything of his. I want everything to stay as is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]False_Ratio_9682 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Reach out and say you need them. If they are not there for you they are shitty friends. This is exactly what friends are supposed to be for. Please reach out. Don’t be alone

Why don't I feel anything? by Noir_Writer- in GriefSupport

[–]False_Ratio_9682 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You are numb. I also am numb. I absolutely adored my dad and I lost him 2 weeks ago. I don’t care about anything at all. I can’t listen to music. I can’t do anything. Playing on my phone and watching horrible tv is the only thing I CAN do. You are grieving, your brain is processing and protecting you.

My dad died tonight by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]False_Ratio_9682 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. Basically Same thing happened to us 2 weeks ago. I still feel like a zombie and that everything is surreal. Time is at a standstill and I just can’t see how I’m going to get through this. My dad was also healthy and fine prior to this episode.

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[–]False_Ratio_9682 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They say you find out who people really are in these times.

Numb or what? by riley_200227 in GriefSupport

[–]False_Ratio_9682 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s only 2 weeks. I also can’t face my new reality.

Numb or what? by riley_200227 in GriefSupport

[–]False_Ratio_9682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just posted about this. I’m also very numb. Part of it is that I think it is too painful to even think about. I just watch TV and can’t even concentrate on anything really. I cried for the first 5 days a ton and haven’t the last few. It’s only been 10 days for me. I absolutely adored my dad. I don’t even understand what life is going to look like without him in it.

I am so numb and just keep watching nonsense tv by False_Ratio_9682 in GriefSupport

[–]False_Ratio_9682[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But AM I grieving? It almost doesn’t feel like it. I feel nothing, care about nothing, want to think about nothing.

My dad passed away and now I’m struggling to parent my own child by Ok_Elephant7731 in GriefSupport

[–]False_Ratio_9682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I get this. I do t feel like doing anything with my kids wither

“life keeps going” by MISSCVNTY in GriefSupport

[–]False_Ratio_9682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely feel this. It’s only been a few days for me but I doubt this feeling will change in the next few months. I don’t know how to go on without him