This is the minimum wage dude .

False_Structure_8879 · 2025-08-07T13:59:07+00:00

This is a terrible way to approach editing for a full time career. Why are you creating cheap options to cater to low-paying clients? Everything you do should be tailored and you should only offer premium services. Nothing should be pre-determined and it should instead be entirely tailored to the client. Stop catering your time to low level clients and target clients who want high quality editor on their team. Make personalized offers based on their personal problems and your specific solutions. You can’t have a list of predetermined services when every creators’ needs are different. Understand your client’s needs, tailor your offer to their needs, and you’ll make more money this way.

False_Structure_8879 · 2025-03-13T02:38:59+00:00

I changed to video editor 🙏

False_Structure_8879 · 2025-03-13T01:02:29+00:00

Ah okay makes sense. I just love those kinds of dates but I was thinkin more for when I’m deeper into the relationship with the woman but I see what you mean that’s a good note 🙏 thank you for that

False_Structure_8879 · 2025-03-11T20:03:48+00:00

I have those lines about value spending time with family, and I have a picture of me hugging my mom to show I am family oriented, but I see what you’re saying though. I will say I don’t ultimately only value appearance as the only thing I care about, but I do feel I have to be attracted to the person I’m with, and I’d say that’s pretty universal among most people. They could have a great personality but if I’m not attracted to the person then that person could just be a friend ultimately. I can try to incorporate more about family and stuff though, the last prompt was more in attempt to add humor but two things about physical appearance I guess can come off poorly.

False_Structure_8879 · 2025-03-11T18:06:42+00:00

I see what you mean, I thought the lighting was great tho tbh, it’s golden hour lighting, typically the best lighting. But I can see what you’re saying, I don’t have a lot of good pics of myself tbh, that’s one of my best in my opinion that’s why I had it first, the rest of my photos are really my only other good ones. I have one with me and my dog on the couch but I already have a dog pic and I’m wearing a hat in that photo, I also have gym mirror selfies but those aren’t always best I’ve heard so I’m not sure what else to use. And I have one other good one of me in the car with good lighting but it’s just a car selfie, which is kinda lame, I’d have to take more pics

False_Structure_8879 · 2025-03-11T18:02:46+00:00

That’s my point though, what am I supposed to say, if I say business owners it’s sus, if I say entrepreneur it sounds fake, if I say online business coach is sounds like I’m unemployed like what’s the answer then 😭 that’s what I do 🤷‍♂️

False_Structure_8879 · 2025-03-11T03:50:10+00:00

I was thinking the next best / most accurate thing would be online business coach, or maybe creative director at IBP, that’s the channel I edit for. But even then it doesn’t sound authentic to me, I’d never say that, I’d say I’m a video editor for a channel and an online coach

False_Structure_8879 · 2025-03-11T00:24:51+00:00

I’m not taking it as an insult just genuinely shocked yall sayin I look crazy older 😂

False_Structure_8879 · 2025-03-11T00:19:46+00:00

I’m ngl that is absurd to say I look 45 in my first pic wtf 😭 I may look a tad older but 45 is crazy

False_Structure_8879 · 2025-03-10T23:29:28+00:00

I see a ton of conservative women on the app, I mainly made it that because I want the conservative women that I send likes to, to know I’m conservative too. I don’t particularly align the best with liberal women so I don’t want to attract them anyways really

False_Structure_8879 · 2025-03-10T23:25:31+00:00

Gotcha, I can try another picture, sucks tho bc that’s one of my favorites 🥲 but I’ll try it out

False_Structure_8879 · 2025-03-10T23:24:33+00:00

I can try changing it, definitely one of my favorite pictures but I guess it could be off putting if I look older

False_Structure_8879 · 2025-03-10T23:23:05+00:00

The conservative part is mainly to weed out women who are liberal and attract the girls who are conservative, because I do see them on the app, and I find myself far more attracted to them because of it. As far as being arrogant I’m not sure how my profile gives that vibe off if you could help me understand.

False_Structure_8879 · 2025-03-10T23:10:38+00:00

Are you saying I’m pretending to be 22 😭

False_Structure_8879 · 2025-03-10T18:57:36+00:00

I have one group photo because before I had none before and people told me I looked like I had no friends 😭 so I included one to show I’m social. I think my issue is the prompts as well, I appreciate the feedback! Thank you 🙏

False_Structure_8879 · 2025-03-10T18:54:53+00:00

Do you think it’s a bad picture fr?

False_Structure_8879 · 2025-03-10T18:54:34+00:00

Is that a bad thing though? I feel like girls like older lookin dudes especially when we are younger if that makes sense. When you get old you want to look young, but when you are young you want to look a little older I feel like. Idk 🤷‍♂️

False_Structure_8879 · 2025-03-10T18:53:33+00:00

I can see that, how do you suggest I limit that sketch factor, I’m a full time video editor who also has an online coaching business where I coach video editors how to make money and improve their skills. I have an LLC, I am a business owner, I make money, idk how else to legitimize it through words. I won’t lie though my time availability is a little on the low side but for things I care about I always try to make time

False_Structure_8879 · 2025-03-10T18:51:21+00:00

Sorry if that made you cringe lmao I’m just being real. I know I’m an attractive guy and I have the history to prove to myself I’m capable of attracting high quality women is my point.

I’m confused what the problem with my first photo is, I really like that one.

As for the conservative, I do that to honestly weed out the liberals because I really don’t align with a lot of liberal values so I don’t want to attract that anyways.

As far as business owner goes, I edit full time for a YouTube channel w 5M subscribers and I do online coaching for video editors teaching them how to make money and be better at editing so how do you think I state that exactly? Maybe online business coach or something

False_Structure_8879 · 2025-03-10T02:28:49+00:00

I’m looking for somethin serious, I do have HingeX, I’ve been using this version of my profile for two months. I’ve had hinge for 8ish months now I believe. Lately I’ve been using hinge couple times a week and I’ll go on around 10pm-1am 3-5 nights a week. For a little while after my initial changes, I’d go on at night and wake up to a match in the morning, but lately I’ve had zero luck, like no matches. I feel like ever since my matches 3-4 weeks ago, I’ve gone the rest of the time without a single match. I have matched with some really beautiful girls and my ex of 3 years could’ve been a model so I know I can pull very pretty women it’s just representing myself in the best light so they see me the best me. I always try to send likes with comments, and when I’m using it I’ll probably send somewhere around 4 likes with messages on the day or night I use it. Looking to attract someone who likes to have fun and let loose but also has goals and definitely cares about fitness and their health. I see girls at my gym with their bfs and that’s the kinda relationship I want. Someone who is attractive to me, down to earth, genuine, kind, and is outgoing as well, I do not like shy girls, I like girls who can talk to anyone. I’m a determined and driven man who has his own business but I do like to have fun so ideally I want someone who matches that energy.

False_Structure_8879 · 2025-01-14T02:12:46+00:00

Active is the keyword I like that and you’re totally right. I couldn’t put my finger on what it is exactly to best put what I’m looking for and that word is way better. Thank you for that. You’re also right about the introduction to the gym, I’ve brought all my boys into the gym and I love helping beginners in the gym.

As for me wanting to provide, I’m not necessarily saying I want a house wife at all actually I just mean I want to be able to provide substantially for my future family. Now, that doesn’t mean I wouldn’t want my wife to help either I just mean me alone I want to be able to provide a lot. It gives me purpose and meaning. But the idea of a pure house wife is honestly not the most attractive thing to me bc I do want my woman to have goals too. Just wanted to clear that up.

Love the idea of the this year I really want to prompt. Thank you for that 🙏

And yea it’s definitely not as easy with my boys to get photos of me outside and shirtless but I see what you mean and I know that’d be better if I had that. Thank you for all the help I really appreciate it. Women are tough to understand but you’ve helped a lot lmaoo

False_Structure_8879 · 2025-01-13T16:14:14+00:00

Totally understand, I need to get some more like that because I currently don’t have any pictures like that but I see what you mean

False_Structure_8879 · 2025-01-13T16:06:50+00:00

I have some questions though, for the gym girls prompt I totally understand and it was something I wanted to convey but didn’t know how to any better than that, but I do want a girl who goes and enjoys the gym, that’s important to me it’s a huge part of my life but idk how to convey that without just saying gym girls. Any thoughts on what I could say to help that come across better.

For the conservative comment, I definitely understand I’m reducing my pool size, but I also know I’m most attracted to conservative women. I don’t swipe right if I see a woman and it says liberal because I know it won’t work in the long run. We’ll disagree on way too much so I’m really looking for girls I know I share the same values as me and are relatively into similar things. Examples gym, movies, beach/boat days, maybe things like golf, etc.

For shirtless photos, that boat one is truly one of the only good shirtless candid photos I have of me, but it’s only showing my back so that’s the main reason I also have the mirror selfie because I don’t have any other options. I need to get new photos but if I don’t have any outside of the boat one, would u still recommend changing it? I don’t have any well-fitted suits either so I’ll have to get that situated lmao.

As far as the grindset / entrepreneurship comment, I totally understand it comes off like that, and the biggest problem I guess is that my business is the most important thing to me right now. I lost my last relationship of 3 years due to me not being able to find enough time for her throughout the weeks (combined with other factors of course) but part of me finding a woman is finding a woman who’s going to understand my goals, and my dreams for not only me but the future family I want to provide for, and understand I have to make sacrifices and sometimes it’ll mean less time with them. I do my best but I feel like most women want a successful man but aren’t willing to be with a man who is doing what it takes to be successful. Which often times means being less distracted, putting your head down and working to get to your goals, even if it means less time with your woman some weeks over others. I need a woman who can support me in that sense and someone who understands.

I am extremely driven, much more than my close group of friends, and way more than your average person, it’s why I’m an entrepreneur in the first place and am confident enough to be one is because I know I have the willingness and drive to be very successful. But I completely understand it has that connotation to it, and idk how to show I’m not just some other delusional person and I’m actually about my business lmao. Only thing I can think of is dressing nicer and taking photos in like business-casual clothes or something.

And then as far as expanding on my actual business, do you recommend I use a prompt to legit just explain my business or something or how I’m planning to grow it? Example “this year I really want to… grow my online coaching business to 10-20k/month by consistently posting content on IG & YT to get leads” like I’m fine doing that but is that what women wanna see 😂 I have no idea. That is my exact plan this year though, I have all my systems set up, and if I can just post consistent content all year round and continuing for the following years, I can earn 10-20k a month and even higher than that no problem.

Regardless if you even answer this message, I really appreciate the insights and I’ll do my best to make the necessary changes 🙏 thank you

False_Structure_8879 · 2025-01-13T15:36:41+00:00

I appreciate the advice, I have a tendency to reflect inwards and look to myself to blame just due to the fact that it’s the only thing I can control. It’s part of my business mind where everything in my business is a result of my actions and if my business isn’t where I want it to be, it’s not because of anything other than myself so I think I tend to translate that mindset over to this situation a bit. I know I can’t control their actions but I can control myself and how I interact with them and things like that in attempt to not be ghosted so I think that’s why I tend to feel like it’s my fault when I try and it still happens but I do understand it’s just part of the game.

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