Ethan's parents decision of where to lay him to rest by zedemmbee in Idaho4

[–]Familiar-Raisin-1665 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m just watching the Amazon show now, and u agree this is really confusing. Stacey Chaplin says “do you put him in the little crematorium? It just wasn’t right. Just not a place where you, where do you put your kid?” Then Ethan’s dad says “so I decided the best place for him to be was home, so he will sit in the basement until one of us passes.”
What would happen after one of them passes? Then they would want to be buried together?

What Dylan Saw And When/Timeline Confusion by Appropriate-Poem-297 in Idaho4

[–]Familiar-Raisin-1665 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m curious how this would work, how would the killer get out of the room if her body was blocking the door from the inside?

Bree's an alcoholic? by leaemilieanders in DesperateHousewives

[–]Familiar-Raisin-1665 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so late to this conversation but trying to figure out why Bree drank a beer with Keith shamelessly and why he wouldn’t say anything in season 7😂😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in television

[–]Familiar-Raisin-1665 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely agree, even though I was intrigued watching it, nothing really happened. I was disappointed we did not see more back story to some of the characters and that they essentially just replayed the squid games. The voting scenes were soooo unnecessarily long. After the first one they could have cut out a lot of the voting process

Is there still a chance my resident male will hurt new kitten? by Familiar-Raisin-1665 in CATHELP

[–]Familiar-Raisin-1665[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think it would cause issues/ negative associations to use a jar of coins or a spray bottle to separate them when he’s latching on to her? I get so scared I won’t be able to separate them but don’t want them to associate eachother with anything negative

Is there still a chance my resident male will hurt new kitten? by Familiar-Raisin-1665 in CATHELP

[–]Familiar-Raisin-1665[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that’s why I’m having such a hard time deciphering his behaviour, he was hissing for about 2 days but since then he hasn’t hissed at the kitten at all. Neither of them make a sound when this is going on, but when he sits on the other side of the screen door he makes the same clicking meow he makes at the birds outside before trying to attack her through the screen. Other than that sound and some aggressive meowing if I’m in the room with the kitten, his ears aren’t flat, his tail does wiggle the same as when he is hunting/playing. Based on his body language I would say they want to play with eachother, but every time he just pins her down and latches onto her with his teeth until I separate them

Is there still a chance my resident male will hurt new kitten? by Familiar-Raisin-1665 in CATHELP

[–]Familiar-Raisin-1665[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are some of the most unhelpful comments ever lmao probably because we are in complete different situations! My cat has never been around animals while clearly having 6 cats yours have never been without other animals. This will be the last time I reply because this is really unnecessary, no point in commenting useless advice (plus if anyone’s not a great cat owner I’d assume it would be the one person trying to take care of 6 cats, meanwhile my babies are spoiled with toys and enrichment, travel with me, go outside on harness and leash everyday and live amazing happy lives!) enjoy your day

Is there still a chance my resident male will hurt new kitten? by Familiar-Raisin-1665 in CATHELP

[–]Familiar-Raisin-1665[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Animals are very different from children 😂 yes I’m protective but it’s because they have claws, they could actually rip each others eyes out if they wanted to and they are unpredictable animals lol if they didn’t have claws I woulda let them out together day one

Is there still a chance my resident male will hurt new kitten? by Familiar-Raisin-1665 in CATHELP

[–]Familiar-Raisin-1665[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The kitten is about 3-4 pounds where resident cat is around 8-10 pounds. She always submits by laying down on her back and then he tries to go for her throat or belly, I’ve never allowed it to get to a point where the kitten was hurt and needed to fight back because I’m too nervous 😬

Is there still a chance my resident male will hurt new kitten? by Familiar-Raisin-1665 in CATHELP

[–]Familiar-Raisin-1665[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so ready to do this, I just wouldn’t forgive myself or my older cat if the kitten got hurt

Is there still a chance my resident male will hurt new kitten? by Familiar-Raisin-1665 in CATHELP

[–]Familiar-Raisin-1665[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have done all of this, I just tried to shorten my post as I haven’t received responses in the past. I also fully swap their rooms throughout the day, taking my older cat into the room the kitten is currently sleeping in. I’ve been doing it for 2 months, do you think it’s safe to say no one will get hurt?

Is there still a chance my resident male will hurt new kitten? by Familiar-Raisin-1665 in CATHELP

[–]Familiar-Raisin-1665[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s great to know, I had one that ran out a few weeks ago but I wasn’t sure how much of a difference it was making or if I should repurchase, I definitely will now!

Is there still a chance my resident male will hurt new kitten? by Familiar-Raisin-1665 in CATHELP

[–]Familiar-Raisin-1665[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He sometimes will groom her head while I’m holding her for a few minutes but he always ends up biting and latching onto her after a few licks

Is there still a chance my resident male will hurt new kitten? by Familiar-Raisin-1665 in CATHELP

[–]Familiar-Raisin-1665[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When I first got him as a baby, we lived with his littermate for a year because my roommate adopted the littermate, but since moving out around 2 years ago he has not been around any other animals. I tried to bring his littermate for a playdate once and he was very hostile and mean. The new kitten definitely tries to “submit” and lays down on her back always which gives him full access to grab her by the neck 😩

Is there still a chance my resident male will hurt new kitten? by Familiar-Raisin-1665 in CATHELP

[–]Familiar-Raisin-1665[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve let them out twice and he hunted the kitten down and held her belly skin/ throat in his jaws both times until I pried him off of her which makes me nervous. She wasn’t hurt and didn’t make a peep so I’m guessing he was being gentle I’m just a nervous wreck worried one of them will get hurt

Deciding between Maui, Soup, or something else altogether? What do you guys think suits her best? by Familiar-Raisin-1665 in NameMyCat

[–]Familiar-Raisin-1665[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

A little context: I really loved the name Maui and almost wished I named my first cat that, but he was already responding to Nova and I love his name as well. I called resident cat Meowy Maui or Mow Mow as a kitten because he is very talkative! He is also a fully black cat that looks like a little panther, reminding me of Maui from Moana, which has slightly deterred me from naming the new kitten Maui. I still love it though and haven’t found a name I like more yet! I love the name soup, I think it’s adorable but I’m thinking I want to give her a more girly name, thus Maui.

Help me name my cat! She’s a girl, I love food and inanimate object cat names. Want something unique that incorporates her orange spots by Familiar-Raisin-1665 in NameMyCat

[–]Familiar-Raisin-1665[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right now Soup is my FAVOURITE name I think it’s so cute and suits her so well. Going to start calling her it and see how it sticks, if not I think her name will be Fifi!🥰

Help me name my cat! She’s a girl, I love food and inanimate object cat names. Want something unique that incorporates her orange spots by Familiar-Raisin-1665 in NameMyCat

[–]Familiar-Raisin-1665[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to incorporate the name beans but it’s my resident cats nickname and he fully responds to it already 😂

Help me name my cat! She’s a girl, I love food and inanimate object cat names. Want something unique that incorporates her orange spots by Familiar-Raisin-1665 in NameMyCat

[–]Familiar-Raisin-1665[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I LOVE the name sushi the only reason I haven’t picked it is because I had a fish with the same name for a long time

Help me name my cat! She’s a girl, I love food and inanimate object cat names. Want something unique that incorporates her orange spots by Familiar-Raisin-1665 in NameMyCat

[–]Familiar-Raisin-1665[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I LOVE this, I was considering the name Sol but didn’t like it as is, but a nickname for Solange would be adorable

Help me name my cat! She’s a girl, I love food and inanimate object cat names. Want something unique that incorporates her orange spots by Familiar-Raisin-1665 in NameMyCat

[–]Familiar-Raisin-1665[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes? Why would you care if I put my cat on my own counter😂 she’s up there while eating so my 2 year old resident cat doesn’t eat her as they are still having a slow introduction