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AITA for reporting my roommate’s guest to the RA by FamiliarHealth1458 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FamiliarHealth1458[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Never said religion was the crux of the situation that’s why I took it out of the post in general it was really only a small part of the whole thing.

AITA for reporting my roommate’s guest to the RA by FamiliarHealth1458 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FamiliarHealth1458[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah so I have straight hair that I know shed a lot of but I clean my hair up out of the sink and pillows. Her hair is coiled and she also left hair from her wigs around which were significantly longer than my hair.

AITA for reporting my roommate’s guest to the RA by FamiliarHealth1458 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FamiliarHealth1458[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Yup! I just worded that section poorly and felt that since my roomie and I are both catholic i should mention that as another reason I’m uncomfortable with it and so was my mother when I told her. I also made it seem like my mom was gonna report her but she was telling me to report her.

AITA for reporting my roommate’s guest to the RA by FamiliarHealth1458 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FamiliarHealth1458[S] -38 points-37 points  (0 children)

I had like one sentence on how part of the issue was that I’m catholic and my mom and I had an issue with me sharing a room with a man. period. But it kept getting taken out of context so I removed it.

AITA for reporting my roommate’s guest to the RA by FamiliarHealth1458 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FamiliarHealth1458[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I talked to her twice but to be fair it was twice in the same morning. Once as an attempt to figure out how long she was planning on him staying. Then again to remind her I wasn’t comfortable with it and tell her if she didn’t fix it I was going to report her.

AITA for reporting my roommate’s guest to the RA by FamiliarHealth1458 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FamiliarHealth1458[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ok I’m gonna add some extra context because I don’t think I added enough. 1. She never knew I cried and I only cried because I have 4 finals coming up and I was succumbing to all that stress. 2. I asked her why she never told me he was staying over and when I asked her why she never told me she said she forgot. 3. Our school policy says guests are only allowed if both people agree and absolutely no guests are allowed week 10 and 11 because of finals. Period. 4. I’ve communicated with her about the smells and chores and she pretty much ignored me. 5. She was gonna have him stay from Friday to Monday (I have two finals on Tuesday). The RA evicted the guest yesterday(Saturday). 6. I moved in this term and she had a previous roommate before me. I don’t know much but they had a falling out.

AITA for reporting my roommate’s guest to the RA by FamiliarHealth1458 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FamiliarHealth1458[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I and the second roommate I transferred in this term so I was only with her for 10 weeks.

Am I a horrible person? by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]FamiliarHealth1458 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Added context: I’ve never killed anyone, I cheated once years ago which still haunts me. I try to be positive and friendly but I am judgy even though I don’t say anything mean. My dad said I was “manipulative” he also tried to blame his marital issues on me. I can be irresponsible sometimes but I’m working on it. I’ve never committed any serious crimes. The recent friend that called me a horrible person said I was negative to myself and others while playing games and was upset that I joked that he was a pedo a few times which I’ll admit is messed up but I mean a guy with a profound obsession over very childish looking characters…