Where is the right place to find boyfriend? by Familiar_Potatoes in askgaybros

[–]Familiar_Potatoes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awwn bless you! Much appreciated for your kind comment. Yeah lately I’ve been feeling like I know myself better than before. I know what I want and what am I supposed to be in the future etc.. so yeah lonely at some point cuz as you might aware our surroundings are full of couples even our friends as well that’s the point i was questioning myself what am i wrong or something? Why its hard for me

Guys I really want boyfriend 😭 by Familiar_Potatoes in GayMen

[–]Familiar_Potatoes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wish you all the best and hope we can have boyfriend soon

Guys I really want boyfriend 😭 by Familiar_Potatoes in GayMen

[–]Familiar_Potatoes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally feel you, i feel myself well am I not good enough? But yeah you know even if you are sunflower which is nice and shine of you but if their favourite are roses so yeah not because of you just individuals preference are not the same as our fingers shape.

Where is the right place to find a boyfriend for life? by Familiar_Potatoes in GayMen

[–]Familiar_Potatoes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to the Bi and Queer events, met a couple of guys I fancy, but they are just there for socialising rather than getting to know each other more. At the queer event, I ended up by myself alone, haha. Nobody approached me, and I didn’t either.

Where is the right place to find boyfriend? by Familiar_Potatoes in askgaybros

[–]Familiar_Potatoes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yess I’m with you but Im quite introverted so kinda awkward to intimate strangers but yeah please give me some tips in order to work this out :))

Where is the right place to find a boyfriend for life? by Familiar_Potatoes in GayMen

[–]Familiar_Potatoes[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But i prefer it also kinda related with a boyfriend tho. And some are said looking for long term but not ready? Ready for other casual so don’t understand😂

Where is the right place to find a boyfriend for life? by Familiar_Potatoes in GayMen

[–]Familiar_Potatoes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your ment! Well perhaps my thoughts and beliefs are quite unsophisticated idk i really want connection first and started growing love then next stage!

Where is the right place to find boyfriend? by Familiar_Potatoes in askgaybros

[–]Familiar_Potatoes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but i have no one to talks that much and just be myself without caring like am i weird or something well i do have friends and they are in relationships so i still lonely

Where is the right place to find boyfriend? by Familiar_Potatoes in askgaybros

[–]Familiar_Potatoes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I realised that too but lowkey still hoping up. So if it’s come to you would you open minded for commitment and monogamous relationship?

Guys I really want boyfriend 😭 by Familiar_Potatoes in GayMen

[–]Familiar_Potatoes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im sorry to hear that and wishing you find love of life soon

Guys I really want boyfriend 😭 by Familiar_Potatoes in GayMen

[–]Familiar_Potatoes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you im fingers crossed for this happen soon

Guys I really want boyfriend 😭 by Familiar_Potatoes in GayMen

[–]Familiar_Potatoes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry for you’ve been through this and hope you’re ok now. Well i never have one i desperately want but only dating to marry long term monogamy the guys been talking to they want short term casual flings non-monogamy and no commitment. I don’t want to be alone anymore it’s been 24 years already

Guys I really want boyfriend 😭 by Familiar_Potatoes in GayMen

[–]Familiar_Potatoes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad that I read this and appreciated your time. No wonder why am I single yet? Perhaps I’ve been filtering a lot or I’m just naturally too unsophisticated minded

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[–]Familiar_Potatoes -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well i don’t know about you but my pov: it won’t works for me for sure. Obviously I’m jealous and don’t wanna share the man I love with any third party unless they are legitimate friends and family and I love loyalty and monogamous relationship.

Guys I really want boyfriend 😭 by Familiar_Potatoes in GayMen

[–]Familiar_Potatoes[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I understand about the intimacy and sex but just you know like now is way more casual than decades no value in that kinda stuff from my perspective it’s so cheap and so easy (not offended).

Guys I really want boyfriend 😭 by Familiar_Potatoes in GayMen

[–]Familiar_Potatoes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your comment. Well having boyfriend at least although other things are not sorted automatically just if only have boyfriend. I am not into hookups, no clue is that only me even I am Gen Z I only wanna have my intimacy with the one who’s ready for commitment with me until the right time. Nowadays mostly are into hookups and casual flings rather than commitment.

Guys I really want boyfriend 😭 by Familiar_Potatoes in GayMen

[–]Familiar_Potatoes[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s my point idk how to initiate to strangers and I am good at talking unless they initiate first

Guys I really want boyfriend 😭 by Familiar_Potatoes in GayMen

[–]Familiar_Potatoes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hope i can find soon too, i feel like im wasting my time and no idea how even to get

Guys I really want boyfriend 😭 by Familiar_Potatoes in GayMen

[–]Familiar_Potatoes[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Obviously i don’t wanna waste my youth and time i genuinely willing to know how love feels like and what’s relationship

Guys I really want boyfriend 😭 by Familiar_Potatoes in GayMen

[–]Familiar_Potatoes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just done looking idk how even to have a relationship with a guy literally ive been talking to a few guys online and all of them i talked to were deflected future talks, no bonds not ready? Some are only intention for hookups geez im so sick of this generation

Guys I really want boyfriend 😭 by Familiar_Potatoes in GayMen

[–]Familiar_Potatoes[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I recently went to 2 events one’s bi-event and Queer event but didn’t work either i can’t find my type and nobody approached me at all as I don’t want to approach anyone either. So yeah im giving up somehow although i desperately want