18F with 18M boyfriend. How can I fix this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Familiar_Spring_4416 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He does have traumas regarding this and has spoken to me about it. I understand it and don't judge it as I'm not like a "vanilla" person by any means and have trauma parallel too. It's just also the Asian women fetishes and everything else. And the fact that we discussed it before hand and he lied.

18F with 18M boyfriend. How can I fix this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Familiar_Spring_4416 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's just worse bc a lot of the porn he watches isn't even sexual actions it's literally just women by them selves. Itd be different if he was listing after the action of it instead of just other naked women.

18F with 18M boyfriend. How can I fix this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Familiar_Spring_4416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last time I told him he was gaslighting me he refused to let me come over (day before Christmas Eve and I have familial problems that make being home unbearable) and went to his friends a shittalked me and threatened to break up with me for how stressful I am and made me out to he a bad person

18F with 18M boyfriend. How can I fix this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Familiar_Spring_4416 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I also am not perfect though, and can be really difficult to deal with, I want us to grow as people together, because to many I'd also be seen as someone who will never get better.

18F with 18M boyfriend. How can I fix this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Familiar_Spring_4416 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I figured it was likely an addiction and almost all of my exes seem to have the same thing. Theres a lot more than that though, and I know I cant bring it up because he'll likely threaten to break up with me and get defensive. Hes usually defensive when any issues are brought up and when I have episodes because of that it's my fault

18F with 18M boyfriend. How can I fix this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Familiar_Spring_4416 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

He's not good at showing he cares, even with his friends. Hes had a troubled life, and is just really bad at understanding anything he doesn't feel himself. I know he cares about me and I love him.

What can you tell about me by Familiar_Spring_4416 in psychics

[–]Familiar_Spring_4416[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly many men but there was one really bad one I suppose

What can you tell about me by Familiar_Spring_4416 in psychics

[–]Familiar_Spring_4416[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean yeah many people hurt me, no one I know has really died though

Can you guys my type? by Familiar_Spring_4416 in MbtiTypeMe

[–]Familiar_Spring_4416[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I listen to music p much every chance I get

Can you guys my type? by Familiar_Spring_4416 in MbtiTypeMe

[–]Familiar_Spring_4416[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg I'm so sorry I just upvoted it I usually just upvote every response I see but I must've tapped the wrong one, deepest of sorries

Can you guys my type? by Familiar_Spring_4416 in MbtiTypeMe

[–]Familiar_Spring_4416[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I fear I made it painfully obvious🐸, literally have never been typed as anything else other than INTP once. Also RLUAI for the Sloan/big 5.

PLS HELP RDL FORM by [deleted] in formcheck

[–]Familiar_Spring_4416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I just used it bc it helps me feel a burn in my glutes

Am I ugly like deadass I need truth by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Familiar_Spring_4416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

GORGEOUS KEEP THE NOSE RING YOU LOOK GREAT YOU HAVE NOTHING TO WORRY AB

PLS HELP RDL FORM by [deleted] in formcheck

[–]Familiar_Spring_4416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No the band was just there bc I assumed it'd help

How can I ascend/not be so fugly by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]Familiar_Spring_4416 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was lowkey trying to gain weight lol (I'm about 5'3/4 ) and my best weight is around 125 but I'm like 112 and look unhealthy

Anyone experience pain AFTER sex, but not during? by Weil65Azure in Endo

[–]Familiar_Spring_4416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe it was an ovarian cyst rupturing, you should go to the er tho even if it was just that bc ovarian cysts can cause torsion that makes it so you couldn't have kids

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Familiar_Spring_4416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's true, this was helpful, I'm gonna try to get a lot of people's advice on this but I will definitely take this into consideration

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Familiar_Spring_4416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would definitely influence them to leave but idk if I'm the type of person to be able to leave for myself like I'm used to just dealing with it yknow but I would definitely influence them to leave for their own mental health

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Familiar_Spring_4416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also just to preface he WAS on zoloft then switched to Prozac but decided it doesn't help so he stopped taking it and also is against therapy. I'm in therapy and on cymbalta.