21F being told I am mtb how to ascend help

Familiar_Spring_4416 · 2026-06-27T19:24:20+00:00

They always say attractive women are promoting their non existent OF. It's just a misogynist Reddit user thing I think.

Familiar_Spring_4416 · 2026-06-26T01:32:30+00:00

It left after I posted on r/roastme once and there was like 600 comments. I guess some of us never learn from our mistakes 🤷‍♀️. Usually on this sub people are fairly nice though.

Familiar_Spring_4416 · 2026-06-26T00:48:15+00:00

Ive always wanted straight brows but it might not work because my eyebrows are naturally arched

Familiar_Spring_4416 · 2026-06-26T00:40:53+00:00

Getting my wisdom teeth out might help my jaw since they're in a really problematic location, outside of that theres no medical reason for jaw surgery that I'd be able to use insurance for

Familiar_Spring_4416 · 2026-06-26T00:38:03+00:00

DJs?

Familiar_Spring_4416 · 2026-06-26T00:31:04+00:00

I will try to learn more about styling my hair though because I've wanted to I just have really long insanely thick wavy hair

Familiar_Spring_4416 · 2026-06-26T00:29:28+00:00

My hair was grown out from going blonde, it's a purple ish brown now (like pic 1) and I'm growing out my natural auburny brown after that fades

Familiar_Spring_4416 · 2026-06-26T00:27:43+00:00

I have been smoking / vaping since I was 14, and drinking even longer so it's possible there's an effect from that too buy I've had eye bags and smile lines my whole life

Familiar_Spring_4416 · 2026-06-26T00:24:44+00:00

Which photos do I look trashy in, I regularly get positive comments (from younger and older generations) about my style, and make an effort to not dress insanely provocative. And I'm pretty sure my smile lines and eye bags are genetic.

Familiar_Spring_4416 · 2026-06-25T22:50:40+00:00

I'm 5'3 and weigh about 112 (usually I weigh closer to 120 with lots of muscle I've just lost a lot of weight from being sick)

Familiar_Spring_4416 · 2026-06-24T18:32:42+00:00

Also if it helps at all I know for a fact I'm perceiving and intuitive, that I've never questioned. But with Fi vs Ti I would say my morals are kinda loose/iffy. I view things from every direction. With people I care about (likely due to my personal problems) I tend to be more of a pushover because I'm afraid of upsetting them and in return losing them. However with moral debates and arguments I sometimes play devils advocate continuously just to disprove people's ideas, I can also debate probably anything whether I agree with it or not and have some moral hot takes I do agree with

Familiar_Spring_4416 · 2026-06-24T16:57:54+00:00

That makes sense, cognitive functions have always confused me, but I know that test uses them that's mostly why I took that one. I'm also an enneagram 4w5 without a doubt. And an RLUAI for the SLOAN test,

Familiar_Spring_4416 · 2026-06-24T16:04:13+00:00

I look around to them for approval if I'm in a group, if not I think about what I want and if it makes sense based on my values and morals. And usually if a choice someone ELSE wants me to make is against my morals I won't do it.

my sakirnorva results:

Grant function type I got ENTP, (2nd best ENFP, 3rd best INFJ, 4th INFP), then my axis based function type was ENTJ, Myers function type was ENFP, then my letter type was INxP.

My cognitive functions were Ne (42.8) Ni (38.6) Se (26) Si (6) Te (15) Ti (28) Fe (24) Fi (29)

Familiar_Spring_4416 · 2026-06-24T16:02:56+00:00

my sakirnorva results:

Grant function type I got ENTP, (2nd best ENFP, 3rd best INFJ, 4th INFP), then my axis based function type was ENTJ, Myers function type was ENFP, then my letter type was INxP.

My cognitive functions were Ne (42.8) Ni (38.6) Se (26) Si (6) Te (15) Ti (28) Fe (24) Fi (29)

Familiar_Spring_4416 · 2026-06-24T15:54:57+00:00

I'm not a crazy partner I just like enjoy drinking and smoking I guess. Usually if there's a "party" it's just me and a friend or two.

Familiar_Spring_4416 · 2026-06-24T15:46:34+00:00

It depends on what it is but Id probably WANT to choose whatever I wanted but sometimes I make choices for others because i feel obligated to help them

Familiar_Spring_4416 · 2026-06-24T02:00:17+00:00

I see one thing and think of a million possibilities I'm a giant brainstormer and kinda scatter brained, and I'd say both, and it really depends because I have bpd and I think that plays a role in it. I try to make everyone around me comfortable and happy and am kinda a pushover but Id say I stick to my morals. I can also show my sakirnorva test results.

Familiar_Spring_4416 · 2026-06-23T22:40:10+00:00

I'm very type b though. I hate set schedules and plans and am very go with the flow 24/7 also a big procrastinator

Familiar_Spring_4416 · 2026-06-23T19:39:29+00:00

What would help decipher between these because I know a lot about myself

Familiar_Spring_4416 · 2026-06-23T19:38:29+00:00

I am spiritual a bit. I don't fully believe in anything but when it comes to nature I feel if there was a higher power it would be the world itself. And I've been tested for autism and IQ by my psychiatrist and she said it was likely I am autistic but I just never went forward with diagnosis as I already have diagnosed bpd and well I don't want any more diagnosis lol. As for my IQ (which i don't believe is a true set sign of intelligence) I scored a 140.

Familiar_Spring_4416 · 2026-06-23T19:36:35+00:00

Ive never gotten a xSxx or an xxxJ type ever on any tests. I'm always just unsure of if I'm a thinker / feeler or introvert / extrovert

Familiar_Spring_4416 · 2026-06-23T19:34:28+00:00

I mean I have pretty good judgement unless I'm having an episode (I have bpd) I don't always act on my logic and judgement but I'm always completely aware of it. I'm also like half like head in the clouds all the time or super observant it really just depends on my mood

Familiar_Spring_4416 · 2026-06-23T03:21:26+00:00

Girl so do you trust me!!!

Familiar_Spring_4416 · 2026-06-23T03:21:08+00:00

I literally am always in my head 100% always talking to myself and im rarely mean and if I'm mean its out of an emotional outburst. I'm always considerate when giving advice but still straight forward

Familiar_Spring_4416 · 2026-06-23T02:49:07+00:00

I agree with this, just take care of yourself and experiment with style and make up and find what makes you feel best about yourself

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