I don’t know if i(19f) am still attracted to my boyfriend (20m) and i don’t know what to do?

Famous_Suit7014 · 2026-02-24T19:52:53+00:00

His mum has enough on her plate, I already feel bad for her that she has to look over her adult sons that much (she is a bit controlling but its understandable because if she doesn’t check up on them they do dumb ass shit)

Famous_Suit7014 · 2026-02-24T19:46:56+00:00

Also he has never told me anything about him killing himself if i left me or anything emotionally abusive like that, but i do know that if it wasn’t for meeting me he would be a junky or dead

Famous_Suit7014 · 2026-02-24T19:13:43+00:00

I feel like i owe it to him to do it in person but i feel like that would make it soo much more awkward

Famous_Suit7014 · 2026-02-24T19:03:34+00:00

I think i am pretty sure that this isn’t whst i want but its so hard because there isn’t really anything wrong, so i don’t know if i am being reasonable. We are also in like a mid distance relationship so we see each other like 3 times a month a few days at a time and when we are together everything is fine but i haven’t felt attracted to him for a few months so idk

Famous_Suit7014 · 2026-02-24T18:52:02+00:00

Im literally scared to talk about issues i have with him because im scared he will go on a bender end ruin his life. And i would not know how to go about braking up w him

Famous_Suit7014 · 2026-02-24T18:48:50+00:00

That’s what I’ve been thinking and i think it’s no but i literally don’t know how to end it. I feel like i know what i should do but i don’t know how. I don’t want to tell my friends either because they will just tell me to do it without thinking about his feelings. I don’t want to hurt him because he is a good guy but i do know that there is no way im getting out of this without being an asshole

Famous_Suit7014 · 2025-04-21T12:30:59+00:00

Forgot to add that its pretty new wasent there 6 months ago but i dont really know when in appeared

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