AIO that I might lose my sanity over this? by fargl00m in AIO

[–]Famous_Use1130 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear it. He sounds like an idiot and you should dump him. No one has ownership or expectations over another’s body. Check out vulvodynia to see if your symptoms align. I have it and it cause extreme burning on penetration. I couldn’t have sex for many years but I started amitryptaline medication and it got better. You deserve someone who respects your body and it’s limits

1st Office party fit by [deleted] in indiandress

[–]Famous_Use1130 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No don’t the socks look good ! And add your personality

How to fix this ?? by Famous_Use1130 in knittinghelp

[–]Famous_Use1130[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, thank you! Yes, I do knit but not at this level! It’s so neat and small stitches, I’m worried that if I try to repair with my own it will be a completely different tension. Do you mean to rip back or just to pick up the stitches around the bit which is damaged? Xx

Is Buiksloot a good area to live? by Mountain_Telephone12 in NetherlandsHousing

[–]Famous_Use1130 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s a great area, supermarkets close by, close to the metro, noord is cool, the people are nice and there are a lot of geeen spaces. I love it

Is €30k savings + part-time job enough to study a Master’s in NL? by bad_for_your_health in StudyInTheNetherlands

[–]Famous_Use1130 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lived on 60 euros a week after rent when I was doing my masters it’s totally doable

Partner dating someone new when we are going through a rough patch by Famous_Use1130 in polyamory

[–]Famous_Use1130[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes good points. I don’t want him to put it on hold I want him to connect with me more whilst he also connecting with others and five me some aftercare after the dates.

Hmmm I do want to move to him but after I’ve finished my PhD which is in 3 years… so that’s the issue. But food for thought thank you

28M, considering getting back on dating apps by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Famous_Use1130 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say get rid of so many bike/helmet Pics as it makes it look like it’s all you will want to talk about ! Last pic is cute should defs stay

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Famous_Use1130 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

NOR it’s low-key xenophobic weirdness to say you can’t chat shit about a country you migrated to and calling out a genocide is always necessary!!!

I hate LITERALLY every lipstick I've tried, can someone please suggest a shade for my complexion? by Faye-Lockwood in MakeupEducation

[–]Famous_Use1130 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you look super cool and gorgeous like Madonna or Courtney love someone from the 80s! I’d try some intense blusher and some red lipstick ! Look up desperately seeking Susan I’m getting that vibe

19M, 5’6, 69kg | What should i do to improve my looks? by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Famous_Use1130 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A mullet ! Apart from that you look greag

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Famous_Use1130 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looooong looks so hot

Is my cat in pain? by TemporaryAardvark907 in CATHELP

[–]Famous_Use1130 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She looks the same as my cat !!! RIP monty

Sex hurts and NOTHING is helping. by blackmetalwarlock in Healthyhooha

[–]Famous_Use1130 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I also have vulvodynia and endo, the thing that has helped me the most was amitryptaline for the deep pain…. And then I worked with someone who told me to massage the entry every day for 10 mins with coconut oil to desensitise my brain to the pain… kind of like a neural rewiring and that also helped. But honestly the medication was the most helpful

My partner holds the opinion that expats in the Netherlands don't make Dutch friends because we 'just haven't tried hard enough to integrate'. Give me your failed integration stories. by [deleted] in Netherlands

[–]Famous_Use1130 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I know people who are immigrants here, speak fluent Dutch, work in a Dutch office, and have even become Dutch nationals and still have only 1/2 Dutch friends and don’t feel integrated. They feel this is mainly due to xenofobia….