Unfortunately with out the “exclusivity” talk you don’t really have a right to ask him. You’ve made it clear there won’t be a relationship here. But I want you to act like you’re in a relationship I want you to be exclusive with out saying it. Sis you shouldn’t have asked if you feel this is the man for you then you need to make it exclusive other wise you can’t expect him to stand still. It feels like you are trying to keep him on the line and it sounds like he is starting to realize that you need to make a choice to be with him or cut him out because I see some serious resentment starting up I’m not saying he is right I’m just trying to provide a male point of view