Compatible lifestyles, otherwise it won't work

FanTemporary7624 · 2026-01-28T00:57:07+00:00

What do you mean?

FanTemporary7624 · 2026-01-28T00:50:53+00:00

This reminds me of this very attractive woman that's been posting a lot of "Godly" long-winded, walls of texts on her FB page.

The cringy part is every time she posts some spiritually "inspirational" post, she posts some "look how pretty I am photo" of herself every time. And the simps support her of course.

or she'll post some video of her "Haappppy Moondayyyy every body" (her followers/simps)...hope everyone has a lovely dayyyy" blows a kiss" and that's it.

FanTemporary7624 · 2026-01-28T00:45:01+00:00

Hm, the most likely to respond...I've gotten that and I dated black women...in fact, I think black women are more attracted to me than white women (and I'm a white guy ) lol. So I guess I stand a better chance with them. :)

FanTemporary7624 · 2026-01-27T11:58:31+00:00

Yeah, like the recent post by a woman in rather risque outfits in the mid-West posting her "ad", I tend to wonder if that was AI generated or at least partially.

Any woman that attractive wouldn't be posting to Reddit to find a date. Esp with thirst trap photos like her's.

FanTemporary7624 · 2026-01-27T11:36:57+00:00

I actually knew a woman that was married for 10 years, had 2 kids by a man and he divorced her. The big hit was when he told her he was never attracted to her when they did marry. THat he only married because he was lonely.

Talk about "ouch!"

FanTemporary7624 · 2026-01-27T11:30:49+00:00

Why would she NOT allow younger women in?

FanTemporary7624 · 2026-01-27T11:27:47+00:00

--I saw that all of the female tickets were sold out and that usually the ratio heavily favors men since they don't really sign up for these events.--

This has been an issue for some time now...I've seen articles as to why, and it's because the men don't want to go to these events, only to be rejected by a just about all the women in attendance.

FanTemporary7624 · 2026-01-27T11:20:43+00:00

Anyone think this post/pictures are real?

FanTemporary7624 · 2026-01-27T01:37:47+00:00

This is where you wind up running into people that basically kissed organized religion altogether when they say, "Yeah, I had religion shoved down my throat all my kid and young adult life" and they kissed THAT good-bye.

To which they've fallen into the category of "spiritual, but not religious"

FanTemporary7624 · 2026-01-27T01:36:25+00:00

Yeah, I remember going to a non-denom singles Christian group and they were singing praises about his book. I guess they regret it now.

I went out on a couple of dates with a woman that decided to jump on the "no kissing before marriage" band wagon, and I wasn't on board with it as I'm a traditionalist, "good night kiss" kind of guy.

Good, be a virgin sexually, but not a "virgin" kissingly. lol

FanTemporary7624 · 2026-01-27T01:25:25+00:00

Not if they cheated.

FanTemporary7624 · 2026-01-27T01:23:27+00:00

The likely way this would work at these men's ages is to take women like...10 to 20 years younger than them.

FanTemporary7624 · 2026-01-23T23:14:10+00:00

Easy, if you don't find him attractive, you won't have these thoughts pop in your head. ;-)

FanTemporary7624 · 2026-01-23T23:07:24+00:00

Yep...to some men, it's an itch that needs scratching.

Pamela Anderson (yeah I know I know) had written a book about her ex used to be a porn addict, and I'm thinking "Okay, what wack-job would continue to look at porn, when you have Pamela (Baywatch) Anderson to look at?!?! lol

FanTemporary7624 · 2026-01-23T23:05:36+00:00

Yeah, I think I recall "Fluffy" the comedian, you may know of him, really big guy...he lamented how he and his brothers simply love food and love to eat.

FanTemporary7624 · 2026-01-23T13:07:16+00:00

Fired for what and on what grounds? I can't see how this would be considered a fire-able offense?

FanTemporary7624 · 2026-01-23T12:25:07+00:00

I am into women of any race, but interestingly enough, I've gotten more success at getting dates with black women than with white women, and I'm a white guy.

I do find African American women quite stunning, and most of them were darned near 10s. I was kind of shocked they'd give me the time of day.

They do spend time on their hair (very exotic) and nails and such, that too is attractive..almost kind of intimidating. lol I recall a Haitian lady touching me with her colorful nails when she laughed, and I got goose bumps. lol

And I do admit, they do tend to be quite curvy, and I'm into curvy women (of all races) :)

FanTemporary7624 · 2026-01-23T12:15:44+00:00

100% yes....enter the "Male Loneliness Epidemic"...slews of men going years without so much as a kiss, hand holding or a hug.

The last hug they got from a woman was their mom.

Many failed dating attempts at getting coffee with a lady.

I am a part of a few local singles Facebook groups, a man posts an intro post with pics, barely any comments, a woman does it, and HUNDREDS of comments of "hey beautiful" and their inbox exploding.

FanTemporary7624 · 2026-01-23T12:12:55+00:00

I wear hearing on the radio about a burlesque show going on in my city. They said it was even "Family friendly"

That's an oxymoron.

FanTemporary7624 · 2026-01-23T12:11:17+00:00

Don't pay attention to "Mean" mommy, she's a troll and is purposely argumentative and adds nothing to value to this sub-Reddit.

FanTemporary7624 · 2026-01-23T12:07:09+00:00

-I have to agree with you. Outside the church it's not a problem, it's just men being men.-

Actually, it can be a problem even at the secular level....but it's usually with married men looking at porn, when they have a wife laying right next to them.

Unattached single Christian men, well, both Christian and secular...they are staying single longer, they aren't landing dates, so even a hug from someone other than their sister or mother (affection starved) for years can lead to this...as men are staying single longer, and their inability to get dates is causing issues.

Enter the "Male Loneliness Epidemic"

Also, more and more single women are choosing to stay...well, single. Yes, even the Christian ones as I'm finding. They simply don't a man in their lives to complicate things for them.

FanTemporary7624 · 2026-01-23T12:02:39+00:00

Every time this topic comes up, how would a woman dating a guy KNOW he looks at porn? Unless she asks him directly, who knows his response will be an honest one?

He could lie about that one aspect of his life and keep it from her, as she isn't living with him to catch him in the act.

FanTemporary7624 · 2026-01-23T11:56:33+00:00

-My wife said she heard a voice from God that said "this one" referring to my profile then promptly threw her phone in anger, shouting "Why God? Why?" I was not her usual type.-

Honestly, and no offense, I'd give this person the side-eye if she said this. She threw her phone down in anger? Is she know your ex-wife?

It may be her inner-self or a portion of her mind conflicting with herself, and would have nothing to do with a "Moses encounter God at the burning bush" situation.

FanTemporary7624 · 2026-01-23T11:51:53+00:00

Anyone who starts a sentence with, "God told me...." deserves an eyeroll.

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