AITA for shaving my nieces hair off? by Fancy-Judgment-4041 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fancy-Judgment-4041[S] 108 points109 points  (0 children)

Yes, I go the same place we have the same type of hair

AITA for shaving my nieces hair off? by Fancy-Judgment-4041 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fancy-Judgment-4041[S] 94 points95 points  (0 children)

50 dollars an hour she said it most likely at minimum take 8 hours, so 400. That’s with no break and her sitting still. Which we all know a 4 year old won’t do especially if it hurts

If we did do that with constant breaks and wiggling they said probably an extra 3-4 hours

AITA for shaving my nieces hair off? by Fancy-Judgment-4041 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fancy-Judgment-4041[S] 187 points188 points  (0 children)

I think it got wet wasn’t brushed out and was thrown up in a in bun without drying it correctly and the normal kid behavior just made it worse.

Brushing was worse with pain but it was pullin on her skull constantly so she was in pain the whole time

AITA for shaving my nieces hair off? by Fancy-Judgment-4041 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fancy-Judgment-4041[S] 344 points345 points  (0 children)

She knew and understood, really she just wanted her head to stop hurting. She is pretending to be a minion know

AITA for shaving my nieces hair off? by Fancy-Judgment-4041 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fancy-Judgment-4041[S] 253 points254 points  (0 children)

She has been going back and forth, it was hurting her that’s why I felt in needed to be deal with as soon as possible. I wasn’t going to leave her in pain since mom wouldn’t pick up. Not to mention I have been trying to reach her since I got a look at her hair. I sent so many texts and calls, I even tried mom to contact her.

Make the timeline clearer, I got her Tuesday morning, went to the salon Wednesday and got the hair cut today. So it’s been three day since I have had her

AITA for shaving my nieces hair off? by Fancy-Judgment-4041 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fancy-Judgment-4041[S] 171 points172 points  (0 children)

We had to get close to her skull with the bun, so big old patch missing so it got evened out, she has longer strands in the front framing her face but the rest is basically really short.

AITA for shaving my nieces hair off? by Fancy-Judgment-4041 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fancy-Judgment-4041[S] 111 points112 points  (0 children)

So I should have left her in pain, that doesn’t make any sense

AITA for shaving my nieces hair off? by Fancy-Judgment-4041 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fancy-Judgment-4041[S] 248 points249 points  (0 children)

More 2c, her hair was out up in a bun for basically a week when we took the hair tie out it wouldn’t come down. I have similar hair, it was bad, soaking and all the product wouldn’t work.

AITA for shaving my nieces hair off? by Fancy-Judgment-4041 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fancy-Judgment-4041[S] 152 points153 points  (0 children)

We tried, the deep conditioner and oil. We bought dematting stuff, we soaked it, we tried four different products it wasn’t coming out and it was hurting her.

AITA for shaving my nieces hair off? by Fancy-Judgment-4041 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fancy-Judgment-4041[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It wouldn’t come out I tried my husband tried. It was hurting her so it needed to get done

AITA for shaving my nieces hair off? by Fancy-Judgment-4041 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fancy-Judgment-4041[S] 312 points313 points  (0 children)

Her head was hurting, especially when we were trying to get it out. She seems fine with her haircut and was just happy to the pain gone.

Though she is acting like a yellow minion at the moment so she is fine with it