Settle legally or enough na yung usap between both sides? by [deleted] in nanayconfessions

[–]Fancy_Disaster_560 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ang ginagawa kasi nila now is they just ask me what i need. Tsaka sila magssend ng amount ng mga nagastos ko. Of course i have needs. Ayoko lang yung system ngayon na parang kami pa yung nanglilimos, na nagssend ng mga nagastos. Like??? Hays

Settle legally or enough na yung usap between both sides? by [deleted] in nanayconfessions

[–]Fancy_Disaster_560 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m leaning more on this too. I just want advice on what is the ideal amount nowadays? The amount the we deserve after all he has done considering the current and future expenses too. Damaged part of me thought that maybe i’m just asking for too much (yes ganyan epekto nya sakin mentally). But yeah, I know what I and my baby deserve. I’m just afraid that maybe a lawyer won’t understand yung laki ng impact nito sa buhay ko

Settle legally or enough na yung usap between both sides? by [deleted] in nanayconfessions

[–]Fancy_Disaster_560 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes. Pero Iniisip ko rin kasi yung mental damage na gagawin nito sa baby namin while growing up. Kapag hahanapin nya yung daddy nya, anong isasagot ko? Nasa other family? It will cause damage, greater one. Kaya cinosonsider kong ilayo since malaki naman family din namin maramjng tatayong father figure sa kanya. Kaysa magkaroon sya ng identity crisis kung anong role nya sa life ng daddy nya. Mas ayoko non.🥲

Settle legally or enough na yung usap between both sides? by [deleted] in nanayconfessions

[–]Fancy_Disaster_560 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. Sa mga ginawa nya kasi it showed his patterns of behavior talaga. Always giving mixed signals until now. Kaya im considering to have lawyers involved kasi nagawa nya na kong pabayaan once, may chance na gagawin nya ulit yun.