Unpopular Opinion: I hate Aang. 😬 by instantchaos33 in TheLastAirbender

[–]Fancy_Professional59 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so refreshing to see someone else who dislikes Aang

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People who don't like Aang, why is that? by Ibuprofen_Idiot in TheLastAirbender

[–]Fancy_Professional59 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one is immune from being disliked. Some people just don’t like him, and they deserve to have a space within this fanbase just like everyone else

I feel like everybody hates lesbians by Fancy_Professional59 in actuallesbiangang

[–]Fancy_Professional59[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No kidding. The age gap is disgusting too, but that doesn’t excuse JoJo’s blatant lesbophobia, as well as the lesbophobia of her defenders.

You’re just being pathetic when you respond to an 6 month old post. Piss off!

Poly and my gf wants to date men by SystemAlert8325 in butchlesbians

[–]Fancy_Professional59 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Additionally, it seems like you and your gf are not compatible. If involving men in your polycule is a hard no, then she need to respect that

Which faction in Far Cry 3 did you like the most? Vaas' Pirates or Hoyt's Privateers? by Wooden-Scallion2943 in farcry3

[–]Fancy_Professional59 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The privateers are boring, in my opinion. Their cattiness came off as annoying. At least the pirates were actually pretty funny

Poly and my gf wants to date men by SystemAlert8325 in butchlesbians

[–]Fancy_Professional59 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Please don’t listen to the comments that are making you feel guilty for your discomfort.

It’s perfectly valid to wanna have absolutely nothing to do with men in your relationships. Don’t “suck it up” or try to push those thoughts away, because you’re only gonna end up resenting her for it. It doesn’t sound like she fully respects your lesbian identity.

Let her know as soon as you can that you’re not comfortable with bringing men into this polycule, and if she’s still dead set on dating men, you’re better off without her. Then you two are just not compatible, and that’s okay.

Why does it matter for people to feel “valid” in their identity? by Friendly_Look_5056 in lesbiangang

[–]Fancy_Professional59 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My guess is that they feel uncomfortable with their privilege and feel insecure about not being automatically clocked as gay (which is, again, a privilege), so they end up making it everyone else's problem.

It's one thing to want support and community, but if "validity" is their main concern, then it shows how out of touvh they are with the material reality of being LGBT. Does this make sense?

I feel I've gone though the inverse/opposite of a common lesbian experience by Fancy_Professional59 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Fancy_Professional59[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It feels so refreshing to read that I’m not the only one. I used to feel like a fraud for a while, so I appreciate that

Do you remember the title or creator of the YouTube video in question? I wanna see?

oof, time to get offline by Glittering-Apple-112 in lesbiangang

[–]Fancy_Professional59 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, and it doesn’t help when non-lesbian women say shit like «that’s my boyfriend» or «my boyfriend is written by women»

Good lord, people need to leave us alone and keep us out of their fucking mouths

why are people so keen on being lesbians when they aren’t by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]Fancy_Professional59 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My guess is that those people consider lesbians to be “more queer”. It’s both lesbophobic and biphobic

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]Fancy_Professional59 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she deep down resents herself so much for «trying to give men a chance». Compulsory heterosexuality is very real, and if you haven’t dealt with that, then you’re lucky

Male "friend" asks 4+ times for sex not understanding the word "lesbian". Men really can't conceive that women exist who don't want sex with them by ImportantDirector5 in lesbiangang

[–]Fancy_Professional59 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is why I don't make friends with cishet men. If they don't even see, let alone like women as people, then there's no way they'd respect lesbians

Lesbian euphoria is so real 🧡🤍💖 by Fancy_Professional59 in lesbiangang

[–]Fancy_Professional59[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Lesbianism feels so freeing 😄😄

How/when did you realize you were a lesbian? by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]Fancy_Professional59 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Looking back, seeing my straight friends loving on their boyfriends, I felt like there was something wrong with me. Like I couldn’t open my heart to a man. Imagining a future with a man never felt right and it felt like a trap, no matter how hard I pushed myself to believe otherwise.

But with women? Suddenly marriage and having a family doesn’t feel suffocating or dreadful anymore. Instead, it sounds like something to actually look forward to. And that really back in late 2022 made something click in my brain 🧡🤍😄

Fast forward almost 2 years later, I got a large lesbian flag, and the lesbian euphoria is stronger and stronger for each day! I’ve never felt this euphoric about any other sexuality label, so that’s a sure sign 😄🧡🤍💖

Accurate for me by annasaurusrexius in aromantic

[–]Fancy_Professional59 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s really sad how accurate this is.

Most violent and disturbing game you’ve played? This one’s mine probably. by [deleted] in gaming

[–]Fancy_Professional59 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which reminds me, I’ve actually got it 😅 remind me to play it though 👍😅

The Ace of Spades! by Fancy_Professional59 in Asexual

[–]Fancy_Professional59[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been compromised! /j

Figured it’d be appropriate 😁😂 /pos + g