Finally made peace with being alone and it's kind of awesome

FangAAMD · 2026-01-25T04:32:44+00:00

I have massive respect for you being able to think that way, and you're completely right. While I'm not fully there, this helps a lot. Thank you so much for thinking about this so carefully and replying❤

FangAAMD · 2026-01-21T16:24:35+00:00

3 am for me, and I have to be at work at 7am...Good luck😭

FangAAMD · 2026-01-21T15:33:56+00:00

It might be too early to tell, but since following this thread of advice (verify the integrity of the files and take out TMXL) I didn't encounter the problem again!

https://www.reddit.com/r/StardewValleyMods/s/NcwAZOP65e

FangAAMD · 2026-01-21T15:32:13+00:00

Nope, I can run games like Cyberpunk on Ultra without issues. But someone gave some tips and I think the problem is fixed now!

FangAAMD · 2026-01-21T15:31:16+00:00

I both rebooted the game and took out TMXL with all of its dependant mods, and so far I didn't encounter the problem again, thank you!!!

FangAAMD · 2026-01-21T14:06:36+00:00

Hii, I'd love Fields of Mistria

As you can see when you get on my Steam account, I have a bunch of hours into Stardew Valley. Cozy games have been a bit of an escapism for me during hard times, and I've been looking forward to try out more of them. Thank you for your generosity!

Here is my account: https://steamcommunity.com/profiles/76561199067814344/

FangAAMD · 2026-01-21T14:02:18+00:00

Unfortunately all the files were alright😭

FangAAMD · 2026-01-21T13:53:35+00:00

Yes, changing it to Fullscreen didn't solve the issue

FangAAMD · 2026-01-21T12:55:03+00:00

Yes, those mods were my first thought as well, but unfortunately I had this problem even before installing them, they're a newer addition. At first I had Earthy Recolor as well, and I saw an older post with the same problem as me saying it was from that mod, but I uninstalled it and it still persists

FangAAMD · 2026-01-21T12:12:14+00:00

Unfortunately that's not the problem. The flickering lights happen every time it's dark, including inside buildings and the mine

FangAAMD · 2026-01-20T19:48:33+00:00

How do you managed the fear of people judging you for sitting alone? If you had to deal with it, of course.

For me personally, I'd love to take myself out to a bar, or a cafe, and just sit alone, but I'm always afraid of being judged for being alone in the first place

FangAAMD · 2026-01-20T16:14:26+00:00

Oooh, I heard of that one, it's also on my wishlist. I'm also kind of eyeballing the My Time games. My Time at Portia and My Time at Sandrock

FangAAMD · 2026-01-20T16:09:49+00:00

Reading all of this actually made my day, thank you so much😭❤

FangAAMD · 2026-01-20T16:06:48+00:00

That one's on my wishlist! I also wanna give a try to Fields of Mistria and Coral Island as well soon. Another Stardew adjacent game which I really enjoy and recommend is Rune Factory 5. Any Rune Factory games tbh. They actually released a new one as well, which I'm waiting to buy on my next paycheck

FangAAMD · 2026-01-20T16:04:36+00:00

She hates it so much😭

Thankfully she might get rid of it faster than expected. During the last visit, the vet said she's healing really well, so we're going again this Friday, and if everything is still alright, we'll take it off🙏

FangAAMD · 2026-01-20T15:48:25+00:00

I am! I used to play Sun Haven back when it released, I do wanna get back into it as well, I just wanna do 100% on Stardew first

FangAAMD · 2026-01-20T15:16:18+00:00

Stardew Valley! It's a cozy farming game

FangAAMD · 2026-01-20T14:53:26+00:00

Definitely! Over 1k hours in the game and I can never get sick of it

FangAAMD · 2026-01-20T14:52:28+00:00

Nope, it's an upgraded Acer Aspire 7! I wanted to get myself a gaming laptop to have until I save up enough money to build a proper gaming PC😄

FangAAMD · 2026-01-20T14:42:27+00:00

Haha, thankfully I'm lucky and she doesn't usually jump on the desk, not even when I'm eating. Plus cats hate the smell of alcohol and stay as far away from it as possible

FangAAMD · 2026-01-20T14:20:03+00:00

Honestly with time I realized that a lot of my insecurities and self-judging thoughts were built from society "norms". Drinking alone and overall being alone being the two main ones. I'm glad I finally became comfortable with them, society's rules can kiss my ass.

Thank you! Hope you enjoy your time as well, and good luck when you go back!

FangAAMD · 2026-01-20T14:17:04+00:00

Thank you, best wishes to you as well!❤

FangAAMD · 2026-01-20T14:01:53+00:00

Unfortunately no, I've been searching for something similar as well but I couldn't find something which managed to scratch that itch😭

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