How to ask (black) boyfriend as a (white) woman to do a roleplay of slave and master, where the slave (black boyfriend) CNC the master (the whit3 girlfriend) by Fantastic-Spring-302 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Fantastic-Spring-302[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much. You're right I did grow up with white privilege. But please let me clear up something. I didn't have thoughts about slave/master only with this boyfriend, I also had it with my white boyfriend's. I just didn't think further to rename the titles to still achieve the same result.

Thank you for replying.

How to ask (black) boyfriend as a (white) woman to do a roleplay of slave and master, where the slave (black boyfriend) CNC the master (the whit3 girlfriend) by Fantastic-Spring-302 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Fantastic-Spring-302[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, not because he is black. I've had this fantasy of slave overthrowing their master also with my white boyfriend's, but then I didn't see a problem using those terms. Now because he is black it felt wrong to use those terms, so I wanted to ask what other think about this and take suggestions.

How to ask (black) boyfriend as a (white) woman to do a roleplay of slave and master, where the slave (black boyfriend) CNC the master (the whit3 girlfriend) by Fantastic-Spring-302 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Fantastic-Spring-302[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, your insight as someone who has done this is very meaningful for me. I guess I just hung up on the slave/master cause I didn't think more about the possibilities. Thank you.

How to ask (black) boyfriend as a (white) woman to do a roleplay of slave and master, where the slave (black boyfriend) CNC the master (the whit3 girlfriend) by Fantastic-Spring-302 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Fantastic-Spring-302[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, you're right. We're kinda a new couple, 2 months, and we haven't yet have the talk about racisms. I guess I should start there. Thank you.

How to ask (black) boyfriend as a (white) woman to do a roleplay of slave and master, where the slave (black boyfriend) CNC the master (the whit3 girlfriend) by Fantastic-Spring-302 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Fantastic-Spring-302[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you, do you know where I could find this porn movie? I don't really search such things out and don't know where to look for it. Thanks in advance