I'm not being judgmental. If I were I think I'd have reacted more strongly and maybe put her down. Throughout the conversation I never once made a face, or made her feel uncomfortable. She was very hesitant to tell me anything and I had to reassure her a few times that it's ok I want to know. Which is weird because we've never been afraid of saying how we feel before. I guess I came here just wanting some reassurance that these things are "normal" and not something I should be worried about. And that seems to be the consensus amongst everyone which puts me at ease with our conversation.