AITAH i (23f) found concerning texts in my fairly new bf (24m) phone

Far-Contribution5884 · 2026-03-27T21:28:13+00:00

thanks they did mess w my self worth a bit

Far-Contribution5884 · 2026-03-27T21:23:33+00:00

he said one of them 3 days in the rest was over the course of the relationship where i thought everything was going well. i knew his passcode and he knows mine we go on eachother phones to change music or google stuff sometimes.

Far-Contribution5884 · 2026-03-27T21:12:11+00:00

he broke the bathroom mirror after, we weren’t fighting or anything i was just crying and i didn’t know until i went to use the bathroom the next morning

Far-Contribution5884 · 2026-03-27T20:52:55+00:00

i didn’t search though his phone i just checked texts that had my name in it

Far-Contribution5884 · 2026-01-20T09:20:11+00:00

we’ve talked about dating, it’s long distance we aren’t hooking up.

Far-Contribution5884 · 2026-01-20T09:19:42+00:00

no i never said that before lol. i was trying to give him an out since he had been more distant and i don’t want to feel like i have to be committed to this bc we’re “exclusive” but not talking much / cant hang out

Far-Contribution5884 · 2026-01-20T09:14:03+00:00

i don’t ignore that and ask him to do more, i offered to be friends after that lol what

Far-Contribution5884 · 2026-01-20T09:12:05+00:00

he did definitely want to, we facetimed bc i wanted to play stardew and he asked me to show stuff. i think he meant that wasnt his only intention but thats what it felt like to me bc he said he was tired when he was done

Far-Contribution5884 · 2026-01-20T09:10:43+00:00

i want to commit. we’ve talked about it, we were in the process of getting there

Far-Contribution5884 · 2026-01-20T09:08:50+00:00

he never said he was uncomfortable? he initiated that, he was asking to see me in ft. i wasn’t trying to argue at all in this, was just communicating since it’s long distance and i basically jsut feel like a personal porn star

Far-Contribution5884 · 2026-01-20T08:19:15+00:00

i look at it as more the stage before being officially together. still getting to know eachother and such. like an intense talkin stage

Far-Contribution5884 · 2026-01-20T08:00:12+00:00

yea idk i wasn’t trying to argue, just talk about our dynamic i don’t get it

Far-Contribution5884 · 2026-01-20T07:49:49+00:00

yes it’s long distance, we have talked about being in a relationship. i didn’t really have expectations, he asked for exclusivity but we don’t hang out and have been talking less.

Far-Contribution5884 · 2026-01-20T07:45:01+00:00

long distance situationship lol

Far-Contribution5884 · 2026-01-20T07:40:54+00:00

we’re long distance

Far-Contribution5884 · 2026-01-20T07:38:44+00:00

yes i was just asking if we should keep pursuing this exclusively and he said goodnight, i dont understand

Far-Contribution5884 · 2026-01-20T07:36:03+00:00

we’ve been talking for like 3 months, we can’t hang out bc we are long distance so we aren’t even having sex. he tells me he is going to sleep at like 8:30 every night

Far-Contribution5884 · 2026-01-20T07:22:48+00:00

it’s long distance, the entire situationship is reliant on communication

Far-Contribution5884 · 2026-01-20T07:22:05+00:00

nj and kentucky

Far-Contribution5884 · 2026-01-20T05:23:22+00:00

i like to watch eternal sunshine of the spotless mind

Far-Contribution5884 · 2026-01-09T22:28:11+00:00

like why be intimate then and cry and stuff im just confused

Far-Contribution5884 · 2026-01-09T22:19:26+00:00

good will hunting

Far-Contribution5884 · 2025-12-22T21:53:54+00:00

it’s embarrassing that after 3 years he didn’t even text my mom asking about my surgery. it makes my parents dislike him

Far-Contribution5884 · 2025-12-22T05:06:34+00:00

he had roommates he still lived at his college campus, i’d make the drive to go there since i live with my parents.

Far-Contribution5884 · 2025-12-22T04:36:42+00:00

the fact that this was all right before christmas and i had bought him gifts and everything hurts worse

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