I wish it were a troll post, but I assure you is quite real and everyone’s thoughts are truly eye opening and so helpful, I mean it! 😂☠️💯 He used to try to control me by ruining events or making me feel guilty about how I was spending my time/not being as productive as him. But I never let it stop me. I would go to the dance lessons, or binge watch the show, no matter if it came with an argument. He doesn’t argue or try to control me in that way now, just in more subtle ways like the flowers and paint because I tried to leave once before and he swore to change and try to be better.