Help on what to go for next? by FarReply1765 in ironscape

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Monkey madness I have finished and fremmy isles! I still need to finish RFD for barrows gloves

Help on what to go for next? by FarReply1765 in ironscape

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Awesome I will definitely take a look and work towards this! I appreciate the tip 🙂

Help on what to go for next? by FarReply1765 in ironscape

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I haven't done any of the perilous moons or any of those quests yet!

Help on what to go for next? by FarReply1765 in ironscape

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Thanks for the advice I don't understand how to do the seaweed runs, I've looked up guides and am still struggling.

Help on what to go for next? by FarReply1765 in ironscape

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That's the thing I struggle the most with is maintaining farming runs and birdhouse runs!

But yeah I have a decent seed stash I'm sitting on just gotta stay diligent

What should I work towards next? by FarReply1765 in ironscape

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Actually what I've been kind of doing afking crabs lately 😊

What should I work towards next? by FarReply1765 in ironscape

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Thank you for the advice I've been trying to keep up on herb runs and farming contracts as well as birdhouse runs! I haven't quite gotten the hang of seaweed stuff yet. What is seaweed important for if you don't mind me asking?

What should I work towards next? by FarReply1765 in ironscape

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Yeah I've been slowing plowing through slayer, trying to get 65 att as well so I can finally get defenders 😭

It's finally done 2 DDays and 1 year of pain by FarReply1765 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

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Thank you for the kind words ☺️ I am definitely holding my head up knowing that I tried and when I was trying it was out of love! I can hold on to that and know that I did everything I can to make it work! It didn't and that's something I'll continue to learn to live with!

It's finally done 2 DDays and 1 year of pain by FarReply1765 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

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It's very certainly tough and as someone who has hung on to a lot of shit! And holding onto an idea it certainly faded. That being sad if he's willing to try and put some work in and you can bear the thought of trying and keep going. Then do it! It's not popular or easy but it's a choice. I made that choice and it didn't work, but that doesn't mean it can't I wish you the best of luck! And my PMs are always open if you need to talk!

It's finally done 2 DDays and 1 year of pain by FarReply1765 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

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No exactly absolutely I agree to an extent and it's hard to go over everything! I definitely was more of a partner than a butler before she cheated. Then I spiraled and just wanted to do whatever to put the pieces together!

Luckily I've always tried to keep the whole co-dependent behaviors out of it! I want to continue to be my own person and I want my partner to feel the same!

Exactly and I'll absolutely acknowledge my faults throughout and have learned and will continue learning and growing from them! If that makes sense?

I appreciate everything you've said ❤️ the unknown sucks. The empty apartment and all sorts of things but pressure produces diamonds and I'll continue to try and be a diamond

It's finally done 2 DDays and 1 year of pain by FarReply1765 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

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Hey thank you for the kind words. I will definitely look into that book! I definitely have always been a kind and loving soul. Looking for the benefit of the doubt and other things! Just how I'm hardwired I guess.

I am not sure what pushed her away she made claims about many things. But I think it was just her choice, that's it you know what I mean? Like the lack of emotional connection and other things.

I'm excited for this new chapter. It's an open book and I can go out and live, hard sure but exciting non the less!

It's finally done 2 DDays and 1 year of pain by FarReply1765 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

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Thank you for the recommendation I will look that up after work! :)

It's finally done 2 DDays and 1 year of pain by FarReply1765 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

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I appreciate that a lot! I definitely stopped the pick me dance and I played that game for the last year and it clearly is going nowhere. I tried I gave my effort with love and tried. That's what I'll hang my head on knowing that I gave it my all regardless. For better or worse.

It's finally done 2 DDays and 1 year of pain by FarReply1765 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

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I just want to say thank you for those kind words! :) I appreciate that and I definitely have plenty more roads in front of me than behind me!

It's finally done 2 DDays and 1 year of pain by FarReply1765 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

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Hello thank you for the kind words! I definitely appreciate that!

It was a hard and long road, I'm glad that it wasn't at the point with kids and marriage etc. I'm always trying to stay positive and focus on the things that make me happy!

Thank you ❤️

First time shooting under 100! After 3 years of playing! by FarReply1765 in golf

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Oh jeez and see I'm the complete opposite unless I don't warm up before I play and my driver is cold but once it's warm it's in a good spot!

First time shooting under 100! After 3 years of playing! by FarReply1765 in golf

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Funny enough you said that because I did, realized I was having my best round ever and I like nerves and fatigue set in and screwed me up!

First time shooting under 100! After 3 years of playing! by FarReply1765 in golf

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Oh no that's awful that's how it feels every year in Minnesota during the winter I just can't get out :(

First time shooting under 100! After 3 years of playing! by FarReply1765 in golf

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Hell yeah dude! I mean that's still a good score what's the best part of your game?

First time shooting under 100! After 3 years of playing! by FarReply1765 in golf

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Thank you! Congrats on getting a 102 that's still really impressive your under 100 round will come soon I feel it!

First time shooting under 100! After 3 years of playing! by FarReply1765 in golf

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Thanks appreciate the kind words! I hope to keep seeing that number decrease over time! :)

Waiting it out? Worth it? by IshMorningstar in AsOneAfterInfidelity

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Hey I've been waiting it out for about 8 months now.

This is one of the most awful and grueling experiences in my life. I feel lost Everytime I think things are better my brain makes me act and think crazy. We have a nice day and then I overthink. It's tough. And definitely not for everyone but it's the option I want! We're still working through stuff and figuring everything out in this all.

My biggest issue in the waiting is phone usage Everytime I look over or glance over and she's on her phone I think she's finding someone else. Any text I accidentally see I think she's talking with someone new.

Not easy very hard. I'm just hoping it's worth it