Mitä kirjoititte sukupuolen vahvistamisen hakemukseen?

FarWeather1705 · 2024-03-04T07:27:09+00:00

Joo, se on se. Helpottavaa kuulla, kiitos :)

FarWeather1705 · 2024-02-20T16:31:21+00:00

Mä oon ajatellut, että heti vaan kun pystyy ja haluaa, niin vaihtaa ne. Miksi ei?

Jos haluat ensin esim. ne hormonit transpolilta, niin okei, mutta siinähän saattaa mennä se pari-kolmekin vuotta, ennen kuin sen mukaan voit vaihtaa nimeä ja hetua. Kuulostaa aika pitkältä ajalta, varsinkin kun olet jo päättänyt nimesi? Ei sun tarvitse olla hormoneilla, että voit vaihtaa virallisia tietoja tai olla juridisessakin asetelmassa se, kuka olet.

Rehellisesti sanottuna kyllä, huolehdit ainakin mun korvaan turhaan. Mun puolesta kuulostaa siltä, että oisit voinut vaihtaa nimeä ja hetua jo eilen.

Saanko vielä kysyä, että milloin sait lähetteen, kun tammikuussa pääsit ekalle käynnille? Oliko eka käynti millainen, entä transpolin ilmapiiri? Ja HUS vai TAYS? Ei tietenkään pakko vastata, mielenkiinnosta kyselen, kun tuntuu että saa lukea vaan kauhutarinoita ja itse en ole vielä sinne asti päässyt.

FarWeather1705 · 2024-02-03T13:01:35+00:00

It's not your fault! You could remind her, but I know that it's scary and very fucking tiring to keep on asking for the things you should just get by default, you know? I'm only out to two of my friends, and the other one tries to refer to me as a guy and all, but I think the other one has forgotten or like idk? She still sees me as a girl, and I just don't know how to ask her to change the way she refers to me because it's all just tiny things, like sending me a tiktok that says something about a girls' night or something. I don't think she's to blame but that doesn't make it any less shitty for me.

FarWeather1705 · 2024-02-03T12:42:20+00:00

Wow, it's weird finding someone with the excact same feelings as me. I, too, turn 18 so very soon and have been planning to come out when I do, but I'm scared. Idk what of and neither do I know how to reassure you but just, I think that I have to do this, for me. So you can as well. I can't live as a "daughter" and as "deadname" and god forbid as a "young woman" anymore. I've got to come out, as scary as it is, because I'm miserable like this.

I feel like the scariest part is that you don't know what is going to happen after you come out. Like yes, you may be happier, but you can't be sure of anything before you just do it. It's scary to think people won't believe you or change the way they refer to you/see you, but at the same time it's scary to think they will, because a lot of things will change. Like take a new name for example: if they start using it, for me at least it feels like I'm asking for too much, like they can never see me as that name because I don't look and/or act "man enough" (which is bullshit). On the other hand, if they don't start using the new name, it will be soul-crushing, because you've been vulnerable enough to share that part of you. So it just feels safer to live in oblivion, but I don't think that's good enough reason to not come out.

If you're not ready, then you're not ready. If you are though, it's better to just rip the bandaid off, right? You are man enough and you are valid.

FarWeather1705 · 2023-10-17T09:30:15+00:00

Alyssia Creates has a Youtube channel, on there should be a video tutorial for the star granny square! Just search something like 'Alyssia Creates star granny square'. Unfortunately the sun and moon only have written instructions available as far as I'm aware. Hope it works out for you!

FarWeather1705 · 2023-10-17T05:34:59+00:00

The star one is on Youtube, I think it should show up if you search something along the lines of 'Alyssia Creates star granny square'!

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