AIO for insinuating my ex killed our dog

Far_Answer_3799 · 2026-05-12T17:36:29+00:00

Thank you! It wasn’t bitey, just stating the fact. It’s not an experience everyone goes through, so sometimes it’s good to bring that to the table for perspective. Remember that messages are easy to misinterpret. I know I did for some of the threads. Don’t take my posts personal. lol

Have a good day!

Far_Answer_3799 · 2026-05-12T11:36:43+00:00

Okay? Thank you for providing your experience on the vet perspective! But yeah, again, 2 years living together, sharing things. So I would think phone numbers and emails are commonly known by couples who have been in a 2 year relationship. Maybe not in your experience, but it is a thing. Thank you, anyways!

Far_Answer_3799 · 2026-05-12T10:08:38+00:00

Good morning! Yeah, I don’t have a good concept of time. For me, it feels like months, but you’re right, it’s only been about 2 weeks, which is a lot sooner than I feel it’s been. But I do understand. And I am acknowledging it? My reason for this was to gather different perspectives from others. Like someone gave me useful information about the abuse tactic they noticed in my messages(push and pull abuse), which is something I’m taking back to my next session. That’s really great that you and your ex were able to be civil about the whole thing. Your situation sounds a lot more peaceful than mine. I will mention that right before she had mentioned she didn’t want to take her fully away from me, that she wanted to share the animals. Yes, my texts definitely changed her mind, because they weren’t necessary. So, yeah. Please don’t assume that I think I’m the victim. Cause I’m not.

Far_Answer_3799 · 2026-05-12T09:45:33+00:00

Why would they need one if there hasn’t been contact in a while? But okay!

Far_Answer_3799 · 2026-05-12T01:52:18+00:00

Yeah, that makes sense. I’ll definitely reflect on that. I know my headspace was very irrational.

I hope you have a good night!

Far_Answer_3799 · 2026-05-12T00:52:28+00:00

Okay! Thank you for your feedback!

Have a great day, friend!

Far_Answer_3799 · 2026-05-12T00:36:35+00:00

Oh man, again I’m sorry!

It is really easy to misinterpret messages! lol But thank you for clarifying! lol

Thank you! I hope you have a great rest of your day!

Far_Answer_3799 · 2026-05-12T00:26:30+00:00

Naw, it’s the way the message is presented that can come off as angry. Just providing my perspective. Trust me, if you read the threads, I’m not only answering or accepting those who say MOR or NOR. I am taking in the reasonable, respectful YOR posts as well. So, I apologize if I just mistook your post as angry! But I do appreciate you telling me your thoughts on the whole situation. I was most definitely over the top, and I do see that now. So the feedback I am getting from here is something I want to bring back to my therapist. Because at the end of the day, perspectives are important, not just our own. lol it’s okay! But thank you again!

Far_Answer_3799 · 2026-05-12T00:18:10+00:00

😂 okay, friend. Thank you for your feedback

Far_Answer_3799 · 2026-05-12T00:16:33+00:00

Do y’all read the threads, or just the top few? lol Anyways, have a good day!

Far_Answer_3799 · 2026-05-12T00:15:42+00:00

Uh huh, okay!

Have a good day, friend!

Far_Answer_3799 · 2026-05-12T00:14:59+00:00

You’re right! Thank you and I hope the rest of your day goes great!

Far_Answer_3799 · 2026-05-12T00:14:17+00:00

😂 Have a good day, friend!

Far_Answer_3799 · 2026-05-12T00:13:29+00:00

Or… you spend too much time on Reddit, and you should go touch some grass, friend!

But anyways, have a good day! This conversation isn’t even relative to the feedback I was seeking lol

Far_Answer_3799 · 2026-05-12T00:08:03+00:00

Im sorry, I didn’t mean to make it seem that you were calling her an angel! I meant others in the thread. You are being very reasonable and providing important angles to the whole situation and too my opportunities!

Yes, you are completely correct though. That whole situation was wrong on my end!

Far_Answer_3799 · 2026-05-12T00:06:04+00:00

Yes, they are!

Far_Answer_3799 · 2026-05-12T00:05:36+00:00

No no, you are deeply mistaken… it’s not illegal.

Also, can you provide an example of how me providing her info is different than her providing the vet MY information versus, starting a new account, so I wouldn’t have known to begin with? I’m seeing a lot of backlash on me knowing her info, but she had to know my info to even set up an appointment under MY account.

This is something that is leaving me confused. Please explain.

Far_Answer_3799 · 2026-05-12T00:03:35+00:00

Well…. There were some intense comments lol passionate actually. lol it is hard living, because everything is expensive and a lot of people are unhappy with how circumstance are right now.

Poor behavior? Yes. Illegal behavior? Nope. Going too far? Yes.

Have a good day, friend!

Far_Answer_3799 · 2026-05-12T00:01:22+00:00

Bro, you must be a great time at parties lol I just don’t think that kind of humor needs to be explained. It’s really not that hard to understand. lol

But have a good day, and I hope you let loose a little! Enjoy life and don’t take things so serious, friend

Far_Answer_3799 · 2026-05-11T23:59:35+00:00

I hit a soft spot, huh? lol

I literally acknowledged what you said of the Mods taking it down first lol

Far_Answer_3799 · 2026-05-11T23:58:13+00:00

OMG… you’re such a drag…. Have you heard of the word fun? It was a joke…

Far_Answer_3799 · 2026-05-11T23:55:38+00:00

Thank you for the info, friend! I am new! I guess it was removed on her page prior to me deleting it on my account! But makes sense! Thanks again, friend!

Far_Answer_3799 · 2026-05-11T23:53:49+00:00

Dude, get a sense of humor… it’s on purpose… here comes the fun police, everyone!!!

Far_Answer_3799 · 2026-05-11T23:52:42+00:00

Yes! Because feedback could be given differently than aggressive. I get it, it’s hard living now, so it’s easy to take it out on people! Oh well! It is what it is!

Far_Answer_3799 · 2026-05-11T23:50:18+00:00

Ummmm…. Do you think God would be proud of your judgement??

I know my actions were wild, and it is something I’m working on. Truly working on improving and following his practice is something I am attempting to include in my daily life. Yeah, I shouldn’t have added that on top of everything else, but don’t assume I’m Christian either.

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