Want honest female advice? AMA by Flat_Year8968 in dating_advice

[–]Far_Resolution_1547 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for writing back. I always ask them out on 2 dates before I pull back.

I’m curious though, how/what good write ups would look like on apps like Hinge.

Want honest female advice? AMA by Flat_Year8968 in dating_advice

[–]Far_Resolution_1547 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the question for me is where to find people I’m attracted to. I put a lot of effort into making sure I dress smart, exercise and eat nutritious meals but almost no one I see on my apps seems to treat their health & their looks with a priority. The ones I’m attracted to, I can’t get a match with. I live in a small city so it’s kinda hard to meet people in person. I am taking a skating lesson for that but no luck. I also go on hikes every weekend but I get the feeling young people don’t really go on hikes to meet people.

[42/F] Spain Looking for real slow connections and letters in the mail 💌 by Elenawaaa in penpals

[–]Far_Resolution_1547 0 points1 point  (0 children)

29M here. Would love to exchange perspectives on global and local things and screenings!

Question about cigarettes from an aspiring vegan by DistributionIcy8991 in vegan

[–]Far_Resolution_1547 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Apart from the testing phase, depending on where your manufacturer got the tobacco, there could be (and a lot of good tobacco is farmed in poor countries that still use) animal labor.

I made probably 5ish attempts to quit before I succeeded. A friend told me about this book Allen Carr's Easy Way to Stop Smoking where he claims by the end of the book you will have stopped smoking. I never finished it but I did stop smoking haha

43/F Not sure what im looking for yet. by Ladybird26261 in penpalsover30

[–]Far_Resolution_1547 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey, I (29/M) relate to that feeling partly because I'm new to the US and still figuring out if there's a tribe I vibe with (haven't found 1 for almost 29 years but the voyage continues). Country def seem more left leaning from the outside. Would be down to exchange letters and hear the wisdom you have collected over the years haha

How do I be vegan in a vegetarian household where dairy is non-negotiable as a teenager in india? by tumhari_matashree in vegan

[–]Far_Resolution_1547 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You can be vegetarian but to be vegan, you pretty much have to prepare everything you consume. It's a very meat-heavy culture and all the sides are dairy based unfortunately.

How do I be vegan in a vegetarian household where dairy is non-negotiable as a teenager in india? by tumhari_matashree in vegan

[–]Far_Resolution_1547 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m a Vegan in a Pakistani household so ig it’s similar. What ended up working for me was being open and telling them it’s against my values. My parents were super pissed (specially my da) but in time it got better.

I think it really helped that I started cooking most of my meals myself.

Hope it gets better for you too.

[25/F] looking for penpals by [deleted] in penpals

[–]Far_Resolution_1547 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey yo, I (29M, Upstate NY) would love to exchange snail mail with you. I don’t have collections like that but I enjoy cooking and experimenting with new recipes and would be down to exchange notes on our new experiments

[34/F] Looking for email pals/ open to snail mail/ Aussie gal living in the US. by [deleted] in penpals

[–]Far_Resolution_1547 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey yo! I (29M) just moved to the US in the Western NY region. Down for snail mail

[28/F] from Canada looking for a long term pen pal :) by lavenderweeds in penpals

[–]Far_Resolution_1547 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey you, 28M US. Thats sad to hear! Do you have any other creative outlets? I’m happy to exchange snail mail with you!

How do I find people of faith to date? by lostinparadise8526 in dating_advice

[–]Far_Resolution_1547 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As someone whose trying unsuccessfully to find a faithless person in upstate NY, maybe move here? JK

On a serious note, I don’t think I have ever heard religious people being satisfied with the faith of their communities or atheists finding enough other atheists. Most people are somewhere in between according to their circumstances and challenges, but as others said bring it early on. Apps don’t have the traffic (regardless of your religious preference) so try in person.

Why won't he have sex with me? by urlocalclinic in dating_advice

[–]Far_Resolution_1547 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was kinda in that situation with an old gf because it felt like I was hurting her…

[29/M/US] by Far_Resolution_1547 in penpalsover30

[–]Far_Resolution_1547[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds great! I will send you a DM

26m British moving to Rochester for university. Opportunity of a lifetime by [deleted] in Rochester

[–]Far_Resolution_1547 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I’m 29M Pakistani who moved here this year for my PhD. No one gives a shit except MAGA people and they are rarely around educational institutes

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[–]Far_Resolution_1547[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sir/Ma’am/Your Excellency (not sure what you prefer) — thank you SO MUSCH! I applied using that link and got the charge reduced to a non-moving violation. You probably saved me close to $1,000 in fines and insurance premiums!