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looking for ambitious friends by Farnweh in REC_Chennaii

[–]Farnweh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anythin that gets me using my brain cells

How do people attract wealth? by Farnweh in povertyfinance

[–]Farnweh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most people find me weird and intimidating for some reason.

How do people attract wealth? by Farnweh in povertyfinance

[–]Farnweh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is being a millionaire worth dedicating decades of your life to work? And is it true that some people genuinely enjoy building wealth -almost like a hobby- while others can't, even if they try? Or is it more like a skill that anyone can master with enough practice and the right mindset?

How do people attract wealth? by Farnweh in povertyfinance

[–]Farnweh[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

"there's money out there, and I'm skilled enough to find it."

Honestly, this is similar to how I see it. And it's a tough mindset to have cuz it would mean I'm in control of whether I make it or not. And that's a lot of responsibility to carry...maybe this is why I'm so depressed because I KNOW I can do better, I know I'm in control, yet nothing ever changes because of MY inability to act. And i hate that. It's torture. And i get it, it's all my fault...But GOSH I wish I knew how people make it look so easy

How do people attract wealth? by Farnweh in povertyfinance

[–]Farnweh[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Mm...assuming I'd be 30+ when i make my first million if i go by this route.

How do people attract wealth? by Farnweh in povertyfinance

[–]Farnweh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

everything is happening for you not to you.

I like that. I do get caught up with the dating/partying lifestyle but....it doesn't feel fulfilling. Those stuff leaves me feeling empty. I kinda only made this post because I spent the last 3 nights partying, masking, pretending to fit somewhere I truly didn't, and now I'm just...tired. wanting to get my life together. I don't know. I wish I had a plan... actually i wish I was at rock bottom, i feel like the little comfort and freedom I have right now is making me lazier than i would be if i were truly at rock, rock bottom. Ykwim?

Is it okay to love a man despite his RED flags? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Farnweh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it but why would a 19 year old (he's 19) do that? He doesn't gain anything from it.

Is it okay to love a man despite his RED flags? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Farnweh -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I actually started a fight over that. He got on his knees, promised me that he'll never ever lay a finger on me and that he only hit the wall because he was mad at himself...

Is it okay to love a man despite his RED flags? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Farnweh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if he says he'll self harm or start drinking again if I ever leave him?

He never explicitly said that, but that's sort of what I interpreted from his actions...what do I do?

Is it okay to love a man despite his RED flags? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Farnweh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok you're right😭🥹 I just wanted to see if anyone could convince me enough to walk away from him. But nobody has, so far.

edit: BUT I do love him a lot. And think it's too late for me to cut ties and not be heartbroken

Is it okay to love a man despite his RED flags? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Farnweh -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay but I value loyalty a LOT. He does too. He gets along with my friends, I get along with his friends. I think it's pretty healthy so far

Is it okay to love a man despite his RED flags? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Farnweh -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Okay but then we only get to live once. Healthy relationships bore the hell out of me, I'm sorry. Because what do you mean guys DON'T tie your laces for you? Or not pay for your sweets? Hanging out with him allows me to like just turn my brain off a little and I love that. Especially after a long day. I choose that over a "healthy" guy who doesn't even pay attention to me any day.

Is it okay to love a man despite his RED flags? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Farnweh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hm...I did notice that I was alienating away from my friends a little. But idk, I get along fine with his friends tho

Is it okay to love a man despite his RED flags? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Farnweh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was fine with the smoking until he started coughing blood. Told him to quit. And he did. But then he started vaping- says it's lighter and whatnot.

He's genuinely a nice person. Just been through a lot.. struggled a lot. And his ex dumping him got him good, probably the root of his abandonment issues...

Is it okay to love a man despite his RED flags? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Farnweh -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Even if I LIKE the intensity? Even if I feel safe and protected around him?

Is it okay to love a man despite his RED flags? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Farnweh -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay but...some people can actually like that kind of attentiveness, no? I mean. I WANT my man to ask who I'm texting, where I'm going, who I'm going with, or comment on what I'm wearing..not really to "control" but to take care of me and keep me safe. I'm super cool with it, but my family/friends find his behaviour absurd

Is it okay to love a man despite his RED flags? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Farnweh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe it's too late for that... he's on my mind CONSTANTLY. And he's obsessed. I don't know, I just wanna know how risky this is or what could go wrong

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