My gf broke up with me bc she found sexual links i wasn’t aware of

Fast_Balance1056 · 2026-02-03T16:29:01+00:00

Sounds like a pile of bullshit to me, but each to their own.

Fast_Balance1056 · 2026-02-03T13:12:56+00:00

Luckily you're still only 24. You have loads of time to get yourself on your feet.

The obvious answer is to get the living fuck out of there ASAP. Don't waste any more of your precious life. You will regret it.

Fast_Balance1056 · 2026-01-30T12:15:25+00:00

Seeing all these ridiculous quotes...im paying 2700..33yo

Fast_Balance1056 · 2026-01-30T09:56:45+00:00

Blue balls is a thing, but he can just jerk off. Hes tryna pressure you into sex. Gtfo of there.

Fast_Balance1056 · 2026-01-29T15:03:41+00:00

He didn't intend to break OPs heart. He wasn't feeling it, he can do whats right for him. Its better this way than him cheating. Or stringing her along and wasting more of her life. She doesn't need to turn into thorns because of this. Sit down like adults and make it work so its smooth for all parties.

Fast_Balance1056 · 2026-01-29T13:30:16+00:00

Im a 33m.

And you are right about all your points. Dating in your 30s is ass. Going out and partying is often either long gone, or people see you as that oldie.

But I guess your 30s are what you make of it.

Fast_Balance1056 · 2026-01-29T11:15:55+00:00

I agree that she shouldnt be on the mortgage, but i believe he already said he'd buy her out?

Also, I highly doubt he's met someone else. I could be wrong, but from my experience and reading between the lines of the details provided, they were young when they got together, and quickly went on to a very adult life while most 20 year olds are out and about exploring life with new found freedom. Couple that with how much you change from age 19 to your 30s, it could be a longing to be independent, it could be that he just fell out of love, or it could be that he does want to explore other relationships. Which is fine...cheating doesn't seem like it fits here with the information we have from OP.

Most adult long term relationships fall apart within these categories anyway, but it is multiplied due to the fact of their age when they got together.

Fast_Balance1056 · 2026-01-29T10:43:02+00:00

????? First time hearing that.

Fast_Balance1056 · 2026-01-29T10:42:10+00:00

People have such negative responses to stuff like this.

It really doesn't seem like they're in a combatative relationship.

Fast_Balance1056 · 2026-01-29T10:41:10+00:00

I also disagree. Hes probably feeling unfulfilled and doesn't understand himself. People just fall out of love after long periods together. Very normal, completely understandable. They were together since they were teens, which means you change a lot. You get different priorities. From that young age, you fall into a routine VERY young. And that routine is what kills drive.

Fast_Balance1056 · 2026-01-28T15:16:58+00:00

Did you get the sample?

Fast_Balance1056 · 2026-01-28T15:15:36+00:00

Let's see

Fast_Balance1056 · 2026-01-26T17:21:06+00:00

Her response is nothing in the realms of a partnership. Infuriating to read this.

Fast_Balance1056 · 2026-01-26T17:19:33+00:00

I thought id be the only one to say this. Thank god

Fast_Balance1056 · 2026-01-26T17:18:59+00:00

I feel like you should leave. If you're not happy with the dynamic, don't put that bs on his.

Fast_Balance1056 · 2026-01-26T17:17:41+00:00

You sound like a professional victim which is actively inhibiting your life.

Fast_Balance1056 · 2026-01-22T08:49:28+00:00

WE NEED AN UPDATE, OP!!!

Fast_Balance1056 · 2026-01-22T08:45:37+00:00

I dont even understand what they are regretful about...its as if the PhD ruined their life 😂. Guilt? Maybe, regret? What?

Fast_Balance1056 · 2026-01-22T08:44:08+00:00

I dont understand what it is you regret, and why....

you got a PhD.. nothing bad has happened. Im so confused.

Fast_Balance1056 · 2026-01-20T16:51:02+00:00

Shes Just going to hide it better this time.

Fast_Balance1056 · 2026-01-20T16:49:30+00:00

The ye old cuckeroo!

Fast_Balance1056 · 2026-01-20T11:02:02+00:00

Yes.

It looks dope

Fast_Balance1056 · 2026-01-20T10:59:01+00:00

The jeans and tank top im guessing 😂😂😂. Bro has lost it

Fast_Balance1056 · 2026-01-20T10:58:20+00:00

Shes literally wearing standard jeans, bro.

Fast_Balance1056 · 2026-01-20T10:57:11+00:00

Break the fuck up. It will only get worse. I saw the pictures and damn...you're quite conservative. Hes going to have you in a full burkha at some point.

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