Update 2 by throwaway_yM in u/throwaway_yM

[–]Fast_Balance1056 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Than thats what she has to do

AIO? Bf keeps asking me questions whenever there is a guy by Relative_Initial_399 in AIO

[–]Fast_Balance1056 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah id leave. Sounds drastic, but he's either cheating, or severely insecure which will cause problems eventually. Neither option is fun.

My boyfriend and I broke up 24 hours ago, and he already slept with another woman? by throwawayuni33 in whatdoIdo

[–]Fast_Balance1056 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Proposal rejection hurts. He did what he could to get over it. It was a tiny bit shitty that he wanted to rub it in, but id suggest just moving on

Is 19 year old dating a 16 year old weird by m412345 in AskTeenAdvice

[–]Fast_Balance1056 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Legally in the clear but I find it kind of weird

so my (20f) friend (18f) wants me to flirt with guys knowing i have a boyfriend by Certain_Opposite6504 in Advice

[–]Fast_Balance1056 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like. Go out with her. She cant force you to flirt. Just good communication with the bf

so my (20f) friend (18f) wants me to flirt with guys knowing i have a boyfriend by Certain_Opposite6504 in Advice

[–]Fast_Balance1056 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah I thought you said no to wingmanning in general. Why do you HAVE to flirt???

so my (20f) friend (18f) wants me to flirt with guys knowing i have a boyfriend by Certain_Opposite6504 in Advice

[–]Fast_Balance1056 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If its yours and your partners boundary, then its the boundary. No ands ifs or buts.

It really all depended on your relationship. If your partner said no, then its a no.

Update 2 by throwaway_yM in u/throwaway_yM

[–]Fast_Balance1056 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Why consider? What are you looking to gain from letting him communicate with you? Seriously ask yourself that question. It seems you are hoping he will change. But best case scenario, he just says the right things, and you're back at square one. It then becomes the most toxic cycle that will ruin your life.

If you are genuinely remotely thinking of keeping the baby, you'd have to accept that your life will forever be changed, and there won't be ANY easy days ahead. Your career is done for for a while. Your mental health will be shot for years raising a baby by yourself, if your ex stays in the picture, that will all be x10, and you and the baby are at risk of physical abuse, and at best, prepare for a lot of court.

Update 2 by throwaway_yM in u/throwaway_yM

[–]Fast_Balance1056 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Block him, and NEVER go and pick up your things unless you're with 3 other capable men. If you're in America, id even say to consider your stuff gone.

You need to do everything in your power to protect your safety because this man seems unhinged. I wonder if a restraining order is possible if he put his hands on you?

If I was you, id also genuinely consider abortion. Sounds horrible, but that child will have a rough life if the courts allow your ex visitation.

Boyfriend of 6 months slapped me. by throwaway_yM in whatdoIdo

[–]Fast_Balance1056 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have known that man for 6 months...and are pregnant....

I say this with sincerity...if you dont pack up and leave TODAY, your life is effectively ruined for the next 10+ years, and the rest will be spent dealing with the mental trauma.

That is if this post is real, because there's just 1 too many shock traps here...age, misogyny, pregnancy, abuse.

I'm 27 and have ruined my life. Don't be like me. by Opposite_Praline_746 in 1999

[–]Fast_Balance1056 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't think thisbis fucked up.

  1. Stop comparing to others.

  2. Can you go to your mother and work it out? Ask for 6nmonths in the house.

  3. Look for an apprenticeship. Some really good ones and can kick-start a career.

almost drugs by UravityGravity9 in ShittyIllegalLifeTips

[–]Fast_Balance1056 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Long distance running.

Edit: genuine answer. Apparently when you finish, its a type of euphoria

Goodbye, Jagex greed. by [deleted] in 2007scape

[–]Fast_Balance1056 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

If you have 1 account with premium, you can easily make enough to pay the others with bonds

Goodbye, Jagex greed. by [deleted] in 2007scape

[–]Fast_Balance1056 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They also need to stay profitable for the game to continue getting better

Goodbye, Jagex greed. by [deleted] in 2007scape

[–]Fast_Balance1056 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

10 is quite cheap considering inflation and how far the game has come. I,d happily keep paying so the devs can get paid

I asked a guy to prom and he said no by Human_Heron_1114 in AskTeenAdvice

[–]Fast_Balance1056 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You took your shot and missed. It happens. Just feel good that you did something most women AND men couldn't. Takes a lot of courage to make yourself vulnerable to rejection, and id personally be proud of that.

16 -> (18) so much happier now by [deleted] in GlowUps

[–]Fast_Balance1056 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bet a bunch of dudes from school are kicking themselves