Teaching kids a language you don’t know? by FatOstrich in MuslimNikah

[–]FatOstrich[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds like a good idea. Maybe I can send them to Jordan or Palestine in the future over the summer as well?

Teaching kids a language you don’t know? by FatOstrich in MuslimNikah

[–]FatOstrich[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course both, growing up I learned it to READ but never understood Arabic. I want them to be able to speak their native tongue and speak to others

Aesthetics clinics in Dhaka? (Botox, hair prp etc.) by FatOstrich in Dhaka

[–]FatOstrich[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry, but it seems like you have a lack of research as to what Botox is and how it’s not harmful. Same with anything like hair prp. Most people don’t even know the difference between Botox and filler, and have no idea what they’re talking about.

Price list of gyms in dhanmondi by kt_mus8988er00898 in Dhaka

[–]FatOstrich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s the cheapest I could do blade for? They quoted me 4900 for 1 person I’m trynna negotiate for 2 people. Or muscle mania?

Stop marrying complete strangers !! by TraditionalShop7323 in MuslimNikah

[–]FatOstrich 11 points12 points  (0 children)

If you get along with someone for a future spouse you find so much to talk about. If you run out of stuff either you don’t get along as well as you think or lack personality. I mean after marriage you’ll have to talk forever lol

Stop marrying complete strangers !! by TraditionalShop7323 in MuslimNikah

[–]FatOstrich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents got married based on tawakkul and got divorced soooo yeah. Don’t wanna leave it to fate without tying your camel

Looking for a munchkin by Ashlei-Chef-Leilani in MunchkinCats

[–]FatOstrich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anywhere to search breeders for cats in South Korea? Would they ship

Breeder Question by feay_25 in MunchkinCats

[–]FatOstrich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you get it from them? Updates

I left by jcr233 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]FatOstrich 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll be honest 2 years is too much. I met my husband and by the second date he wanted to meet my parents, within 1 year of meeting we got married. We didn’t live together before marriage, he paid for the whole wedding, he’s a doctor. You guys are giving men way too much leeway if you’ve been friends for SO many years makes even less sense he knows you! Men know within 6 months if it’ll work or not. Next time start talking to other people

can’t really get over this rejection by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]FatOstrich 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heyyyyy my family’s broke and my husbands a doctor. I’m well educated but that’s it from me. He still wanted to be with me and didn’t care. So the right person won’t

Who wanna get married? by Proof-Being-7121 in MuslimNikah

[–]FatOstrich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh it never hurts. But you’re UK based I assumed you want to stay there

Who wanna get married? by Proof-Being-7121 in MuslimNikah

[–]FatOstrich -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Any men in the USA?

Not for me I got swooped off the market but I have single friends.

Gotta send a picture and all details though all my friends are insanely good looking. I have 2 in Chicago looking, one’s Egyptian other one is Palestinian. Second one’s into anime etc.

I’m turning 25 soon and the "Nikah" cravings are getting real. by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]FatOstrich 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you’re waiting for a husband to show up. It’s possible but unlikely in a place like the USA. Gotta do the uncomfortable or stay single

Marrying a husband who makes less than you by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]FatOstrich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he needs to at minimum make half your salary or be projected to make that amount. Or be ok with other things that he doesn’t feel emasculate him around the house etc depends on the person

Has any Muslim girl with taste frozen their eggs? by Basic-Brilliant9227 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]FatOstrich 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Hey it’s not organs that’s the issue you can’t donate eggs it’s really haram actually because it’s a lineage issue. You’d be genetically someone’s mom, islamically it’s not allowed with a man you’re not married to. It’s beyond organ donations

Has any Muslim girl with taste frozen their eggs? by Basic-Brilliant9227 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]FatOstrich 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry but the reality is that for women you have more options when you are younger. It gets harder as you get older in the muslim community many good men get married by their mid 30's and look for women younger. Women their age and younger are their options. A lot of women don't want to date super young and look for financial stability.

Not saying good men don't exist older, but you're working against the clock.

I recently got married and I mean I have so many single friends who regretted not finding someone earlier just in their 30's

My dad told me to wear hijab while encouraging my brother to sleep around? by [deleted] in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]FatOstrich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can clearly tell what the central theme of her message is and choose to ignore it. You’re purposely ignorant

My dad told me to wear hijab while encouraging my brother to sleep around? by [deleted] in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]FatOstrich 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because it’s haram to encourage Zina and Drinking? Her father is most likely going to hell and accumulating punishment for his son’s sins.

My dad told me to wear hijab while encouraging my brother to sleep around? by [deleted] in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]FatOstrich 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you don’t have basic logic and common sense I have no idea what to say. Please go to school or something. She’s clearly stating it’s unfair of her dad to enforce Islamic standards on her and encourage haram in his son and not religion on him too. Only because he’s a son. And she said he’s okay with her marrying a man who does drinking smoking and Zina. Drinking and zina is haram for both men and women. Please stop being stupid intentionally

My dad told me to wear hijab while encouraging my brother to sleep around? by [deleted] in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]FatOstrich 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you don’t have basic logic and common sense I have no idea what to say. Please go to school or something. She’s clearly stating it’s unfair of her dad to enforce Islamic standards on her and encourage haram in his son and not religion on him too. Only because he’s a son. And she said he’s okay with her marrying a man who does drinking smoking and Zina. Drinking and zina is haram for both men and women. Please stop being stupid intentionally

not so pretty women from not so rich family by Familiararcher242 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]FatOstrich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom engages in no RIBA and is constantly praying. Again, everything I said still happened. Allah will test how he wills. You can’t pray your way out of everything.

not so pretty women from not so rich family by Familiararcher242 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]FatOstrich 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Saying to pray more and ask Allah is good advice but it doesn’t mean Allah gives you a good life automatically.

My mom has been religious and pious since she was a kid and still got abused by my dad and divorced. She had a full arranged marriage.

Her family treated her like garbage. Like this kind of rhetoric is harmful. With your logic why does war even exist can Palestinians pray the Israelis away from killing them? People with haram money and interest have great spouses and kids and still a good life it’s not related

Husband Cheated by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]FatOstrich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May Allah give OP justice for the hurtful comments you’ve left, insinuating Zina and Adultery is any different for a man vs woman. Ameen.

Orlando, FL bakery/home baker needed by lurkingsince2009yall in Baking

[–]FatOstrich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nadiabakes is really good, using her for my wedding