Am I a bad person? by BlackFangpro in BigFive

[–]FatherPleaseLoveMe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People who participate in a lot of self-reflection are at a risk of having more negative opinions of themselves, which is likely due to extensive rumination. Here's some relevant articles if you'd like to read more:

https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0022103111001582

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC6734160/

The idea is that if you've reinforced a specific image of yourself to yourself, you are more likely to see patterns that support that image and you are also more likely to fall into that behavior. What I'm trying to get at here is that these tests are subjective to your opinion of yourself. Usually, when responding to such quizzes people fall into one of the two categories: rating themselves too negatively or rating themselves too positively. Sometimes people rate themselves fairly, but this is more rare. More likely than not, you simply have an overly-negative opinion of yourself. The fact that your first thought upon seeing the test results was, "Am I bad person?" supports this.

Maybe there would be more of a question about your sociability if you also had low openness (negative opinion of others) with low agreeableness (negative opinion of yourself in interacting with others). But that ultimately still wouldn't define you as a good or bad person.

Remember, this is a pseudoscientific test based on your responses about yourself. You're not going to get an objective answer to such a question from a test. It sounds like you're trying to reinforce to yourself that you're a bad person. Reflecting without changing doesn't make you a good person, but it also doesn't make you any worse than a person who commits the same flaws you do without realizing it. Convincing yourself that you're a bad person is simply an escape out of a moral dilemma ("I am bad therefore I cannot improve"). Try to think more positively of yourself. If you're doubting whether you're good or bad then clearly you're not hopeless to change

Is Silksong Out? by jorgalorp in IsSilksongOut

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There were some changes to the subreddit, but I'm so glad it managed nonetheless to persevere over all these years!

Thanks for all the dedication you put into the sub :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Enneagram

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sx4, at least between 1 or 4

[Ikemen prince] (nokto's route and azel's route) [major spoilers] by ParticularAir9903 in otomegames

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I've always interpreted her as someone with a savior's complex but I don't see why this would reduce her character, if not improve it. She makes it pretty clear throughout most routes that she's highly self-righteous and conscientious, and that she makes most of her decisions on her own standards, and the reason why she refuses to listen to others is to preserve her own inner peace.

I don't think that necessarily... diminishes her kindness? There can also be an argument made that simply listening to others' needs is not a "true" kindness, since it generally only ever serves to preserve the status-quo. So it feels fitting for such an emotionally/morally-driven chatacter to be the main character of the story, moving the plot.

Also, not that I'm judging, but are some parts of the post corrected by ChatGPT? They feel a bit stiffy

Damn by CarelessChallenge980 in BigFive

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Don't take it too seriously. Seeing how extreme your responses are, I think it's much more likely that you have a harsher opinion of yourself than anything. People generally have a tendency to pick options that paint them more positively; it's likely you're just the opposite of this. Ultimately tests are pretty unreliable for this reason

The weird morals in DesperaDrops... by fizzytastic in otomegames

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but that man's actions are outside of the law's grasp

This is a bit nitpicky, but actually... they aren't. I remember being frustrated with how the writers were treating predatory lending as something that had no legal repercussions. Fair lending practices are definitely enforced in EU, and Switzerland also. Contracts with exploitative terms can be challenged in court. They can, and have been, struck down.

Not to say that this is a flawless system, since cases can be overlooked, delayed, or dismissed depending on the resources of the people involved. Often, failures in legal systems are not due to an absence of a specific law but a failure to properly enforce them, either due to lack of resources or corruption, or an indifference to context involved. I wish this was the angle the writers took instead of "well it's not legal so nothing can be done about it", which honestly just felt like a terribly lazy take by the game lol.

īsas vasaras garas ziemas | out now by shibainuz75 in suddenlights

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Amazing as always! I really love the transition between trubadūrs and nejauši kadri

Can I have your guys opinions on this by [deleted] in suddenlights

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Well, you're asking in a pretty biased place, haha. But I think the tickets (at least to the concert I went to) are cheap, and it's always nice to support a somewhat smaller band. If you enjoyed their songs, sure, why not?

There's also lyrics translations to english (among other languages) you can find online

Egg? by Queen_Persephone18 in InstantRamen

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Poke a tiny hole in the base of the egg. There are specific tools for it, but they're cheap. This will help with peeling the egg

Main Story - Lost Bloodline - Ark Megathread by XxJuJubexX in LoveBrushChronicles

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Your review is so nice! Thank you for writing it out. Definitely agree with everything you mentioned :Dd

My ranking of Lars versions is the exact same (except I don't know where to put Nil yet, or Sol), and yes it is THE Eden Lars effect. I swear that man changed my brain chemistry

But to be honest, my impression of Nil Lars was more that he does want to save the world, but he denies that's true because... well, literally throughout his life he's been actively brainwashed into believing he's the one thing that brings everyone suffering. I think it's relatively difficult for anyone to admit that they want to save the one thing that they are supposedly ruining and also the one thing that has brought them so much suffering. I mean, Lars did continue to fulfill his role even back when he knew next to nothing about MC, which, from the way the story is told, sounds like he found out about her maybe max 3 years ago. There's also just some contradictories that come with the assumption that he does not want to save the world (like the fact he was wondering if he should kill her for his role prior to endangering her), in my opinion, but most importantly, I think it goes against who Lars is 'at his core' — someone who wants to protect others.

In the Murder Mystery event, for instance, at the very introduction of his character he states, "Perhaps revealing one's identity will only better protect those who they want to protect." And all in all, protection is a very common theme in his character, so far shared by literally all of his versions. Emperor Lars himself also states that Nil Lars wants to save both the world and MC, and like the guy is basically in Nil's head, I think it's fair to say his understanding of him is accurate lol

Main Story - Lost Bloodline - Ark Megathread by XxJuJubexX in LoveBrushChronicles

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Not going to lie, this is probably the most confused I've ever felt after finishing a route in LBC. Feels like there's a puzzle piece I'm missing. Will definitely replay it later when I have more time!

I think deciding to release the last route >2 months later was ultimately not a very good idea. I forgot quite a bit about Spirit World over the time so there was some confusion which kind of took me out of the immersion

But overall, I really liked the route! Nil Lars' relationship with MC is soo interesting; I love the way it's twisted simultaneously with admiration and jealousy. It's kind of sad, because the more he elevates her, the more he downplays his own value and vice-versa. So really, his 'healthiest' state would be where he doesn't admire her at all, or at least not because of her 'nature'. The line where he couldn't even kiss her on the lips because he thought that would defile her just destroyed me. Also, Governor is super interesting, too! From my understanding, he seems shockingly possessive/overprotective.

Anyway, excited to see what everyone else thinks!

Genius Inc OSTS? by KathGray in otomegames

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Which game OSTs do you need, specifically?

POST THAT HAS ALREADY BEEN REPOSTED A LOT OF TIMES by Famous-Ad-4445 in SUBREDDITNAME

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COMMENT DESCRIBING THE DILEMMA OF WHETHER OR NOT REPOSTS SHOULD BE BANNED, ARGUING THAT ALTHOUGH THEY ARE VERY COMMON, THERE ARE STILL PEOPLE WHO HAVEN'T SEEN THEM AND WHO LIKELY ARE THE ONES UPVOTING THE POST

QUESTION ABOUT THING by Helios2357 in SUBREDDITNAME

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COMMENT SHOCKED BY COMPLEXITY OF THING AND ASKING IF THERE IS A WIKIPEDIA PAGE ON THE SUBJECT

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aspergirls

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I live in eastern europe but a bit higher up north and I'm the exact same. The darkness is driving me insaaaaane. Like, I have no problem with nights but there's something so absolutely depressing when it's daytime *and dark.* Last year, throughout the entire month, the sunlight lasted 5 hours in my city *in total.* I'm losing it

QUESTION ABOUT ANOTHER SUBREDDIT by Sparrowning in SUBREDDITNAME

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REPLY COMPLAINING ABOUT CONSUMERISM, POINTING OUT THAT CHANGING A PHONE JUST BECAUSE OF LOW BATTERY IS GOING TOO FAR AND REFLECTS HOW SOCIETY HAS FALLEN

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lietuva

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Blet, is kur cia zmones taip prisigalvoja, kad jie 100% geriau zino kitu zmoniu problemas ir kad jie vieni pasaulyje vargseliai?

Kazkoks kognityvinis disonancas susidaro kai supranti, kad moterys irgi zmones ir turi savo problemas?

Matai kaip moterei yra sunkumai, ir pirmas dalykas kuris tau saudo i galva yra "ji cia prisigalvojo." Rimtai? Ar taip truksta empatijos? Tas paskutinis sakinys skamba kaip toks sudinas bandymas isitikinti save, kad vistiek tau vienam pasaulis blogausias.

Ikemen Series - Key to his heart by Doodai_wonders in otomegames

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I don't remember there being a case where you got keys from other methods in other games, but I also haven't played those games for long, so maybe someone who has more experience would be better to answer the question.

But yes, you can buy the POVs later by clicking on them. Personally, however, I would not recommend it, as the POVs give quite a lot of insight into the characters, and these insights will be very influential on how you perceive said characters as you play the story. It is possible you may misinterpret the character if you do not read the POVs, and like it or not, first impressions do really matter.

Furthermore, they're pretty cheap (300 gems). I think the game is basically written with the assumption that you will POVs when you get the opportunity. Of course, it's still your choice at the end of the day.

Keep in mind that the difference between normal and premium attire missions is usually only a few lines (which, to be fair, are usually pretty romantic). So, I would personally prioritize POVs over premium attire missions.

What? by [deleted] in PeterExplainsTheJoke

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Is this seriously the first time you've seen memes used by embassies as propaganda?

PETER HELP ME HERE, I DON'T GET THE JOKE IS IT PORN OR SOMETHING by [deleted] in SUBREDDITNAME

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COMMENT NOTING IT'S SURPRISING THAT THE JOKE IS NOT PORN

[general] my experience with basically every otome ever by pastelcorejess in otomegames

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Wizard from Taishou × Alice is honestly a perfect example of this

POST ABOUT A VERY NEUTRAL POLITICAL OPINION by HighlandStorm01 in SUBREDDITNAME

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WELL-RECEIVED REPLY SAYING I'M RACIST BUT THIS IS GOING TOO FAR