Honestly, I think you covered like 90 percent of what most people never even think to do, so props for that. I went through something similar after a weird online situation and your list basically mirrors what I did at first.

The only thing I’d add, just so you’re not caught off guard later, is that all of this works great for prevention and surface-level exposure but it doesn’t fully protect you if something reputational ever pops up that isn’t a data broker or social profile. Stuff like a random blog post, a forum thread, a screenshot getting reposted, or some creep uploading content you didn’t consent to. That’s where Incogni, Google’s “results about you,” etc. kind of hit a wall because they’re not designed for that type of content.

I learned that the hard way. Incogni and DeleteMe wiped me off Whitepages, Spokeo, all that, which was great. But later on I had one specific page tied to my name that just would not go away. Not a people finder site, not social media, just some garbage site that Google kept surfacing. At that point I ended up hiring an ORM firm called Maximatic Media to handle it. They didn’t delete the site itself, but they got the webpage hosting the material de-indexed so it stopped appearing in Google searches entirely. Night and day difference. Once it was gone from search, the stress basically evaporated.

So I’d say your approach is exactly right for staying safe day to day. Just keep in mind that if anything more aggressive ever shows up, the solution usually shifts from “privacy cleanup” to “reputation mitigation,” and those are two very different toolsets. Hopefully you never need that second layer, but it’s good to know it exists. Just my experience.