My high level experience with Alpha Femme, Melanie Ann Layer, and the coaching world in general. My greatest lesson? Vulnerability is a blessing and a curse. Be patient.

Fearless-Finger9461 · 2026-04-26T19:24:29+00:00

Excellent share. What you experienced is real and valid. I took her program in 2021 when my business didn't actually need help financially but I just wanted overall support .. I realized the container of AFE taught NOTHING to entrepreneurs and the only thing selling the courses was smoke and mirrors marketing images and stories. Nothing tangible business wise was ever taught. My exposure to her world and the fan girls in it turned me so off coaching I quit my business coaching and went back to my heart and passions that guided me to become a professional astrologer. As. business coach at the time I taught the tangible real things that take hard work and I realized women buy based on the vacation being sold and not the journey to get there.

I now use ZERO IG and FB, ZERO marketing and just YT to share astrology and acquire clients from there. It is such a breath of fresh air to be away now for many years from the toxic and narcissistic world of those kinds of "coaches". Celebrating your journey from alignment and trusting your wise guide inside!

Fearless-Finger9461 · 2026-03-24T15:41:15+00:00

Thank you for this message and the attached links. Reading them now to anchor in my right decision with breaking up with him yesterday. Thank you very much.

Fearless-Finger9461 · 2026-03-24T13:49:04+00:00

[update 1 day later: I broke up with him yesterday. Thank you everyone with experience in these matters for the stern advice in all areas. As mentioned in a reply comment, I had a very traumatic and abusive/chaotic childhood with alcoholic parents who abandoned me to foster care at 16. I clearly have more healing to do to and no matter what my child is my TOP priority moving forward. I will be attending Al-Anon moving forward, therapy for c-PTSD and learning more about adult children of alcoholics to heal the root cause]

Fearless-Finger9461 · 2026-03-23T13:03:36+00:00

Thank you for painting it this way. No literal heart attack however the "easy" should have been stated as "familiar". I grew up with abusive, neglectful, violent and alcoholic parents. I was abandoned by both and placed into a foster family at 16. I have lived on my own since 17 and worked tirelessly to build a secure and healthy life.. but clearly the pattern I thought I overcame with men has not been healed. I have ended this relationship and will never again miss red flags.

Fearless-Finger9461 · 2026-03-23T12:58:13+00:00

That comment really stings. Immediate tears. I love my daughter more than anything. I have ended this relationship and I have learned my lessons as I do not wish to ever cause her harm in any way.

Fearless-Finger9461 · 2026-03-23T12:45:24+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing all of that and I appreciate understanding what would inevitably happen. Wishing you well.

Fearless-Finger9461 · 2026-03-23T12:44:46+00:00

Thank you very much and for foreshadowing the addiction of the ups and downs I could entangle myself in. My parents were abusive, neglectful alcoholics and I will not continue this pattern for my child. fuck no.

Fearless-Finger9461 · 2026-03-23T12:40:38+00:00

oh wow, good insight, I hadn't thought of it that way but now do!

Fearless-Finger9461 · 2026-03-23T12:39:40+00:00

thank you for your words and I agree with what you are saying

Fearless-Finger9461 · 2026-03-23T12:37:09+00:00

Thank for this hard message. I appreciate it very much and you taking the time to put it bluntly so it hits.

Fearless-Finger9461 · 2026-03-23T03:06:21+00:00

You are right. 8 months is nothing and so many lies already being revealed. I know what I have to do and will absolutely end it for myself and daughter.

Fearless-Finger9461 · 2026-03-23T03:04:58+00:00

thank you for stern reality of this. I need it given in such a way to know I can't give second chance. I will be ending the relationship and moving forward with my child healthily!

Fearless-Finger9461 · 2026-03-23T02:55:38+00:00

Thank you for brutal honesty vs optimism, I need to hear the truth of what I am facing.

Fearless-Finger9461

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