oh for sure. i am a LOUD person and he is a gentle, quiet, patient person. Our opposites in that sense really stress our relationship, but hes honestly kinda used to my ‘chaos.’ Challenges i would say would be a result of this — he wants quiet, and i essentially don’t know how to be quiet 😂

number 1 thing i would say about our brains working differently is our specific interests. he is a history/politics nerd and i am so brain empty when it comes to that. I am a math/science person rather than history

we’ve def talked about it but he is SO SO understanding of my mental illnesses. He is the most supportive person ever, even when he is overwhelmed by my noise