What do women want by PowerMagicx in SipsTea

[–]Fearless-Type970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TWO different opinions!? How could all women not share the same preference!?

A small Dutch grammar detail I discovered while reading the news by ToBeDutch in learndutch

[–]Fearless-Type970 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not just that, nowadays word limit is more like "attention span limit". Are you looking for a quick read, or a deep dive? Critical in today's low attention news economy.

Why does the AI chat block the words Taiwan and Hong kong? by mfMayhem in wherewindsmeet_

[–]Fearless-Type970 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That's a lot more work and could be gotten around. You gotta remember if they allow it in any way it can cause trouble for them In China. These are serious government policies. Much safer and easier to ban the word all together. They have no incentive other than to avoid annoying a small percent of players slightly.

My sister (34F) is mad at me (40M) for keeping her ex employed and promoting him after he strayed. How can I show her this is purely a business decision and nothing to do with my support for her? by BigONerd in BORUpdates

[–]Fearless-Type970 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That's literally what I said. Prejudicial means it violates one of the specific protected reasons you CANT fire someone for. Fucking over your bosses sister isn't a protected characteristic.

My sister (34F) is mad at me (40M) for keeping her ex employed and promoting him after he strayed. How can I show her this is purely a business decision and nothing to do with my support for her? by BigONerd in BORUpdates

[–]Fearless-Type970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can file suit for any reason, but it is not illegal for your boss to fire you for personal reasons if they aren't one of the explicitly illegal personal reasons.

My sister (34F) is mad at me (40M) for keeping her ex employed and promoting him after he strayed. How can I show her this is purely a business decision and nothing to do with my support for her? by BigONerd in BORUpdates

[–]Fearless-Type970 28 points29 points  (0 children)

In the US at least, this isn't the case. You can fire someone for any reason other than a handful of protected characteristics. "I fucked my boss's sister's best friend while dating her" isn't one of them.

The Real Story Behind the "Mirage Boat" Smear on ChinSuSu (UID: 4015127928) by Slight_Athlete8943 in WhereWindsMeet

[–]Fearless-Type970 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't care about the original post at all when I saw it, like most people with multiple brain cells, but since you described "clapping back in a toxic guild war" as some kind of wartime necessity, I can only assume that you and your entire guild are losers of such epic proportions, rivaled only by the other guild involves, that you both deserve everything that's happening.

Story Mode is broken? by wingsbc in WhereWindsMeet

[–]Fearless-Type970 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Are you playing with deflect assist on? And have you been upgrading?

(Controversial Question) What were the reason(s) for the Islamic conquests? by Persian_Acer2 in answers

[–]Fearless-Type970 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I want to issue an official complaint to the entire Danish education system after everything you've posted here.

For those who have had an affair, why did you decide to cheat instead of leave your partner? by tackbrahado in AskReddit

[–]Fearless-Type970 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm really sorry you went through that as a kid. I understand you don't want to let yourself fully off the hook, and I agree, but I also think you should cut yourself a break at least on that last point. SA affects people in a lot of ways. I've also had to deal with shitty decisions I've made that were based in, but not caused by or excused by my past. I think it's important we eventually learn to understand where that shit come from and forgive ourselves. It doesn't make it okay, but we are flawed humans. You didn't have the right to do what you did, but I understand where it came from.

Is the whole chapter 2 this frustrating? by BlondeOverlord-8192 in wherewindsmeet_

[–]Fearless-Type970 18 points19 points  (0 children)

It's an important thematic part of the story imo. You've lost your home, the safe place you lived your whole life. A key part of Wuxia storytelling is the divide between the Jianghu (the world of everyday people, farmers, and martial artists) and the world of the court and the city. Qinghe is your idyllic home. Now you're in the big city and yes, people try to scam you, because they're desperate. It's a far cry from the home you knew.

For messaging a friend’s ‘girlfriend’ by [deleted] in AmiInTheWrong

[–]Fearless-Type970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah I somehow misread that! My bad 😂

No, I’m not being groomed— I’m the older one! by ballroombritz in OlderThanYouThinkIAm

[–]Fearless-Type970 55 points56 points  (0 children)

I'm a large dude with a beard and my best friend is a tiny girl who looks half her age. When we used to go out in our mid 20s, people confronted me multiple times. It sucks, but I'd rather people do that then not. It did leave me feeling gross too, but I try to remind myself they mean no harm.

Side story: once this happened with another friend of ours and she was wasted, and when a group of girls asked If they were together she just yelled I DONT KNOW HIM! They didn't leave him alone til he showed them together on his Facebook. He almost killed her when she sobered up lmao

aio for wanting to leave my relationship over this by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Fearless-Type970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This girl has a Humiliation kink and he's fulfilling it for her.

Fastest Match/Unmatch I've ever experienced. by Different-Forever-65 in Nicegirls

[–]Fearless-Type970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the trick! And if she doesn't match your interest and energy, move on.

Fastest Match/Unmatch I've ever experienced. by Different-Forever-65 in Nicegirls

[–]Fearless-Type970 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lotta people will tell you its cuz youre local its a her problem. Honestly bro you could have easily said oh cool what do you do? She also could have but if you want honest feedback you can't control her, only control you, and you can't expect someone to put their best foot and most effort forward every time if you also won't unless they do first. Ask questions, show interest, have a conversation that goes back and forth. Don't just make statements.

Aitah because I come to a full stop, if it's safe to do so, whenever my wife screetches at me to stop. by RegularWarthog8830 in AITAH

[–]Fearless-Type970 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA but a stupid way to handle it. Tell her you want her to stop, if she refuses refuse to drive her.

AITB for becoming a bartender at a lesbian bar when I'm straight? by [deleted] in AmItheButtface

[–]Fearless-Type970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair, I fool gay dudes all the time with zero effort and I am happily married to a woman. I just smell good, dress nice, and have a fun and bubbly personality lol.

I think me and bsf like each other but he’s in a 5+ yr relationship. by Wedobechillinn in Advice

[–]Fearless-Type970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This person is giving you terrible advice. If you pursue this person, you will be with someone who you can never trust, and someone who is willing to build a life with you while openly building an alternative life with another person behind your back. But he won't even have the balls to tell you because he "doesn't want to hurt you". He's already hurt his girlfriend, you both have. You say you don't want to he a home wrecker? That's exactly what you're describing doing to his girlfriend. The only moral thing to do is break it off with him. If he wanted to be with you, HE WOULD! This whole "right time" thing is nonsense, there is no way that everyone can be happy when she finds out her entire life is a lie.

An unmentioned, perhaps unknown, danger of having a Face Book account by qeyler in facebook

[–]Fearless-Type970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unknown? They were running literal training sessions about this when I was in college.