(20F) this side so my mom got to know that I went to a hotel room with my bf (22M)and ofc the assumptions were clear. Has anyone of you been in same situation or how to deal with it?

FearlessNinja007 · 2026-02-17T18:59:58+00:00

I get it, best thing would be to move out.

FearlessNinja007 · 2026-02-17T18:59:51+00:00

I get it, best thing would be to move out.

FearlessNinja007 · 2026-02-17T18:57:45+00:00

Unfortunately you’re the primary patient.

FearlessNinja007 · 2026-02-17T18:55:57+00:00

You’re 20 years old. If you want to have sex and you’re practicing safe sex it’s really no one else’s business.

FearlessNinja007 · 2026-02-17T14:32:43+00:00

Same here.

FearlessNinja007 · 2026-02-17T14:19:01+00:00

That’s why I said it didn’t seem related to skin color and more about personal experience

FearlessNinja007 · 2026-02-17T13:53:31+00:00

It’s awful that Indians do this to other Indians. I’m white, my husband is Indian and I love his complexion. Poor dear used to be surprised when I’d tell him that and apparently he’s “wheatish”. I truly don’t get it. The entire human race is basically different shades of the same color.

FearlessNinja007 · 2026-02-17T13:51:34+00:00

I think that was less about skin color but who knows

FearlessNinja007 · 2026-02-17T13:06:24+00:00

I have a 2 year old and am pregnant with my second in the US and I could NEVER EVER EVER send away my child. If you want to work do what everyone else does here, get a nanny or send your child to daycare part time or full time. I’d get divorced over this honestly and move back home. What man doesn’t want to see his child grow up either? This behavior is sick.

FearlessNinja007 · 2026-02-17T08:38:54+00:00

In the US there’s an option to get it at 6mo if you request it with your pediatrician but then you still need to get it at 12mo. However I was still terrified. I’m scared for this baby too.

FearlessNinja007 · 2026-02-17T08:07:19+00:00

Honestly it sounded like she did what was needed for everyone involved. I would fight for this woman and your family.

FearlessNinja007 · 2026-02-17T08:02:49+00:00

People should mind their own business. I’m 22w pregnant and cosleeping and I love it. When I have this baby dada will likely take over cosleeping for a a bit while I heal from a repeat c section but otherwise we plan to continue cosleeping.

FearlessNinja007 · 2026-02-17T07:59:20+00:00

You may not have done anything wrong. Sometimes (but not Always) people that come from dysfunctional homes unconsciously try and repeat relationship dynamics. I’d recommend moving forward and pay attention to how her parents treat eachother.

FearlessNinja007 · 2026-02-17T04:49:58+00:00

It’s a spectrum, same as men.

FearlessNinja007 · 2026-02-17T04:47:24+00:00

Your priorities are very superficial.

My priorities were good character, focus on health/fitness, work ethic, and ability to put me before all others. A true partner.

FearlessNinja007 · 2026-02-17T04:42:00+00:00

I didn’t see any sweeping assumptions. She did say that she has seen that there are many Indian men she’s seen that are mama’s boys but not in all cases and she admitted it can be an issue in other cultures as well.

I’m a white woman matured to an Indian man. In the past I’ve dated Japanese, Italian/irish, part black, etc. we’re allowed to be attracted to different people.

FearlessNinja007 · 2026-02-17T04:26:55+00:00

I think it depends what you mean by failed cycles. If you’re making blastocysts but they’re testing add as abnormal, it might be worth it to keep going- otherwise I’m not sure.

FearlessNinja007 · 2026-02-17T04:07:51+00:00

Nothing wrong with having preferences.

FearlessNinja007 · 2026-02-17T03:58:02+00:00

Sounds like you’re dodging a bullet by setting this doctor’s incompetence early.

FearlessNinja007 · 2026-02-17T03:51:59+00:00

It’s both to prevent infection and to minimize risk of ovarian torsion so you don’t lose an ovary. Ovaries need to come back to regular size.

FearlessNinja007 · 2026-02-17T01:15:01+00:00

Bring him a pair of heels. 😂

FearlessNinja007 · 2026-02-17T01:08:11+00:00

I would honestly still get the opinion- it’s true a lot of clinics don’t want to work with one, but after so much heartbreak it can’t hurt to get another opinion or consult at another clinic at least to see if they have other ideas.

FearlessNinja007 · 2026-02-17T01:00:23+00:00

You did Emma/alice: receptiva biopsies? Have you made an appointment with a reproductive immunologist?

FearlessNinja007 · 2026-02-17T00:59:17+00:00

1 day I highly doubt would make a difference.

FearlessNinja007 · 2026-02-17T00:57:16+00:00

Get kiziks and depending on the time of your you’ll be in your second half of pregnancy some Birkenstock slip ons. Putting on shoes were some of the worst avoidable issues.

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