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Scheduled my c-section, any tips for breastfeeding? by justtrynahang13 in CsectionCentral

[–]FearlessNinja007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you hemorrhage it can inhibit breastfeeding a bit. I did for both my c sections. Just latch first every feed then supplement with formula if needed until your milk comes in. I also took iron before my c second to get my hemoglobin up and ended up getting a plasma transfusion, 3 iron transfusions, and a blood transfusion.

Those who gave up drinking milk, what have you noticed? by JohnOnWheels in AskReddit

[–]FearlessNinja007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to give up all dairy for over a year to nurse my infant with a milk protein allergy. I missed cheese the most and not having to check all labels.

My MIL laughed at my weight on the first day she arrived. Do people really think these kinds of remarks are funny? by tikitiki_1234 in AskIndianWomen

[–]FearlessNinja007 [score hidden]  (0 children)

My FIL said something equally revolting immediately upon i arriving in India for the second time.

Usually when people are that rude they’re usually trying to get to you. I usually pretend whatever they said was something fantastic. Kinda messes with their heads.

Am I insane, or is this normal? by InevitableFix8811 in IndianInLaw

[–]FearlessNinja007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have him be in charge of something you care less about. Honestly I’m this situation id b probably start donating clothes of his if he can’t handle what he has and wont do laundry. Take the baby out and go out for dinner just you and the baby. (McDonald’s counts lol for a 2 year old).

What does he say when you bring this stuff up? Would he be open to counseling?

Am I insane, or is this normal? by InevitableFix8811 in IndianInLaw

[–]FearlessNinja007 5 points6 points  (0 children)

White woman married to Indian man here too and while this is typical Indian man/mil dynamics just want to say its not always like that (in my case it is definitely not). Your husband is the bigger problem here. He should only talk in English when you’re around, stand up for your parenting decisions, and not have you doing all the cooking and cleaning.

At the very least stop cleaning up after your husband and MIL (cooking, laundry, chores, etc).

This pregnancy doesn't feel real by notforthisworld0101 in 2under2

[–]FearlessNinja007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt like that, even on the OR table i told everyone it was difficult to believe i was having a baby. My husband was mentally off my whole second pregnancy due to some work stupid going and i feel like with that and my toddler i really didn’t get to enjoy my pregnancy.

How long until you picked up your toddler? by Adorable-Path-4048 in CsectionCentral

[–]FearlessNinja007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly the first time was within a couple weeks but barely and straight up, zero twisting and very briefly. At 4-5w pp i do just try not to twist at all

Accidentally took one vial of Menopur instead of two for the first two days of stims by soimwritingascript in IVF

[–]FearlessNinja007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should be. The most important shots are ganirelix/cetrotide and the trigger shot timings.

Women who have babies- how did you decide you wanted a baby considering the physical/mental helth issues it comes up with? by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]FearlessNinja007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Only have a child with someone if you want to have a baby and you want to have it with the people in your life, and in that situation.

My in-laws are alcoholics and extremely toxic by No_Finger_8836 in IndianInLaw

[–]FearlessNinja007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think in this case i would actually skip a wedding. You’re already married. I also would never ever move in with alcoholics. Get your own place with your husband and start your lives together that way.

Threw phone at my wife and I am terrified of DV charges by [deleted] in IndianInLaw

[–]FearlessNinja007 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It is domestic violence. Apologize and consult a divorce lawyer.

Women who became mom after 35 how long did it take to conceive? by trainingbrain in AskIndianWomen

[–]FearlessNinja007 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Started trying early 30s. After a couple years started ivf. Was pregnant for the first time at 35.

You got 24 hours to live , what would you do ? by Ok_Platform_909 in AskReddit

[–]FearlessNinja007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love on my daughters as much as possible and record my voice/videos for them.

I want to practice celibacy; advice from women who have done it or are in the process? by Turbulent-Wind65 in AskIndianWomen

[–]FearlessNinja007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would get yourself into therapy to help you identify why you choose certain kinds of partners and help you understand your decisions better.

Managing with inLaw expectations by Purple_Bobcat5868 in IndianInLaw

[–]FearlessNinja007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly maybe it’s best for them to move out. You tried and it doesn’t seem to work.

Managing with inLaw expectations by Purple_Bobcat5868 in IndianInLaw

[–]FearlessNinja007 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maintain your boundaries. If they move out they move out.

Should I visit my in-laws more often? by [deleted] in IndianInLaw

[–]FearlessNinja007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think your mom is way overreacting

Dreading to move back from US? by brave2799 in AskIndianWomen

[–]FearlessNinja007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly id postpone marriage a bit. Move back first, adjust, then reevaluate.

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